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"Being a swinger is a state of mind. A relaxed and open attitude towards sex and sharing that with like minded other people."
Absolutely well said that man. Hit the nail right on the head  |
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"can guys who go alone be called swingers ?
Probably technically not
Definition:- a person who engages in consensual sex with people or couples outside of their core relationship."
The lines seem to have got very blurred but although this definition seems right, as others have said its more a state of mind and approach to life in general. However, I have spoken to "single swingers" who say if they were in a relationship they wouldn't share their partner...these people don't understand the fundamentals of swinging and are just looking for a free shag until they find their next partner. |
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Although swinging is usually defined as couples playing with other couples, because some couples also or only seek singles - whether male or female - there is clearly also a 'need' for 'single' swingers... 
....where the definintion of the term possibly becomes blurred is when 'singles' are only seeking other 'singles'... |
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"Although swinging is usually defined as couples playing with other couples, because some couples also or only seek singles - whether male or female - there is clearly also a 'need' for 'single' swingers...
....where the definintion of the term possibly becomes blurred is when 'singles' are only seeking other 'singles'..."
Not sure it has to be couples but for us swinging suggests more than one single meeting another single privately regardless of how NSA. Suggests at least some interest in threesomes or more - anything beyond the straightforward single hook-up which people can get in a lots of places online and in real life. Then again lines can be blurred and at the end of the day it's just a word. |
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"Although swinging is usually defined as couples playing with other couples, because some couples also or only seek singles - whether male or female - there is clearly also a 'need' for 'single' swingers...
....where the definintion of the term possibly becomes blurred is when 'singles' are only seeking other 'singles'..."
think this just about covers it really although I am sure others will disagree.  |
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"Being a swinger is a state of mind. A relaxed and open attitude towards sex and sharing that with like minded other people.
Spot on.. "
Does that make singles who regularly meet other singles for NSA fun off of site likes Tinder swingers? Not so sure. |
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