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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Since being a single lady on here I have had lots of invites but decline them as when I went to them as couple's they didn't suit how I like to play.
I'm just wondering how are greedy straight single ladies accepted at house parties. As I have found that most ladies don't want to share with a lady that doesn't want to touch them too
So can anyone help change my views on this
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest i dont think they would suit how you play
All of the house parties i have been to have been mainly couples and i dont play with couples so tho ive had a good night getting to know people and having a bit of a play they havnt really suited my sexual needs, not many women will let you nip off with their guy as a single woman and you dont have any chance of finding several women at the same party letting you do it 
i will only go to parties that have several single guys there, if its mainly couples with a few singles i dont bother as its single guys im looking for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm being dumb probably, but by greedy you mean? Its it a technical term? Forgive me for being new to all this!"
she means shes only looking to play with them men if they are couples  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well I need at least 3 single guys. I just keep getting told I will be a great asset but last few incidences with couples at clubs have had me less than convinced.
Cali |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I need at least 3 single guys. I just keep getting told I will be a great asset but last few incidences with couples at clubs have had me less than convinced.
Cali"
i have to admit i have found couples have been very hostile to me in clubs/parties, more so the woman, i think the FFM is deffo the males fantasy as i find women from couples have zero interest in talking to be at all and would sooner talk to other couples |
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"Well I need at least 3 single guys. I just keep getting told I will be a great asset but last few incidences with couples at clubs have had me less than convinced.
Cali"
The only parties I've ever been to with at least a 3-1 ratio of M to F are my own...
Any others I've gone to have been loads of couples several females and one or two token single guys....(not my kind of party), so I stick to my own or other friends who I know like more men there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I need at least 3 single guys. I just keep getting told I will be a great asset but last few incidences with couples at clubs have had me less than convinced.
Cali"
Is it men or women telling u that? We do tend to go for couples but a supply of well versed females and males is quite nice. Variety n all that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its about the numbers, Most of the parties Ive been to of late are for singles only, (Approx 8f's to 12-14m's)yes some women are bi so there is some ff action but if the numbers are right, then 1 woman could easily have 3 - 4 men to herself, which I think is what cali wants. I rarely play with more than 1 person at a time.
I dont get many invites to couples parties anymore, and haven't been to one in years, however the last few, I def felt like I was in the wrong place, maybe if you went as a +1? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All the house parties i have been to have treated the single ladies like royalty and there has never been a problem.I think you will be fine as a extra female in the party is like gold dust.Expect to be mobbed by single guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Since being a single lady on here I have had lots of invites but decline them as when I went to them as couple's they didn't suit how I like to play.
I'm just wondering how are greedy straight single ladies accepted at house parties. As I have found that most ladies don't want to share with a lady that doesn't want to touch them too
So can anyone help change my views on this
Cali"
Your probably right.
We've seen a fair bit of envy, jealousy, insecurity, call it what you will, from women at House Parties.
So this could come to the fore if you were seen to be getting all the fun but not 'bringing anything to the party' as far as they were concerned.  
XXXX |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it men or women telling u that? We do tend to go for couples but a supply of well versed females and males is quite nice. Variety n all that."
Actually it's been mostly the women inviting me but then I worry because of late I've been taking up invites to play with couples at clubs at mostly ending up having to dodge the daggers after. I wouldn't mind but I always am considerate.
I may try a few with maybe taking one of my play mates along too. Making it clear we are not a real couple. And then see how it goes
Glad it's not just me that has noticed that straight single greedy girls seem to nearly be as unwanted as single guys lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Since being a single lady on here I have had lots of invites but decline them as when I went to them as couple's they didn't suit how I like to play.
I'm just wondering how are greedy straight single ladies accepted at house parties. As I have found that most ladies don't want to share with a lady that doesn't want to touch them too
i go to the greedy girls night at our local club
i know its not a house party
but for this greedy girl.its perfect
next to no chat and lots of what im looking for
Jo x
So can anyone help change my views on this
Cali"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I normally do just go to greedy girl nights but had 8 invites the past two weeks but just think I'll end up upsetting people  "
can i come with you so i can watch |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I normally do just go to greedy girl nights but had 8 invites the past two weeks but just think I'll end up upsetting people
can i come with you so i can watch "
What watch me at greedy girls nights or upsetting people. To be honest it's upset me that women have got the arse with me as I play no different now. It's just that I'm now single x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I need at least 3 single guys. I just keep getting told I will be a great asset but last few incidences with couples at clubs have had me less than convinced.
Cali
i have to admit i have found couples have been very hostile to me in clubs/parties, more so the woman, i think the FFM is deffo the males fantasy as i find women from couples have zero interest in talking to be at all and would sooner talk to other couples "
reminds me of a scene in sex in the city where Samantha has a threesome with a guy she wants to be in a relationship with and completely disregards the woman with them...
Was fortunate to meet a couple of lovely couples at a party who were so down to earth, and the two females were so laidback... A rarity in itself. One of the ladies was so cool me going to play with her husband.
Best playing with like minded people, and being clear with what you want, that way everyone is happy. |
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By *abtechMan
over a year ago
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could having a singles house nite where the only people invited are single and there is an equal amount of men and women be the solution? i would think there are men who feel the same way when it comes to peoples wives and girlfriends. limiting the amount of invites would make a fairer propersition for all who attend surly?    |
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The parties that I have don't tend to have any of the problems that the OP describes. I tend to avoid couples who are religeously "couples only" as I find they are the ones that struggle with uneven numbers. I'm choosy about who I invite and started off inviting people who I got to know at clubs who were happy in a multi-male environment. I't's developed on from there, to where I have got quite a few friends from this site, most of whom are also grateful for extra male attention. I always make it plain to everyone that there will be some extra single guys, and that couples tend to be grateful of that, without any major jealousies occurring. I think that those couples who look for the multi-male scene are far happier to have others of their way of thinking around them, and it's a recipe that seems to be working here.
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By *anictechCouple
over a year ago
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There are many women that like the attention of two or more males, unfortunately most parties dont cater for them. Mostly becuase the men of the host couple cannot understand some womens needs/wants. Personally am sick to the back teeth of couples only parties or fems & couples.. So closed minded and they missunderstand the single men entirely, what do they think will happen? That the single men will get all the fems? AHEM.. Not likely..
Most couples "guys will be one shot wonders if we are lucky cum twice" So there is room for single guys.
This isnt a competative game folks its about sating fantasies.
XxX MT |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are many women that like the attention of two or more males, unfortunately most parties dont cater for them. Mostly becuase the men of the host couple cannot understand some womens needs/wants. Personally am sick to the back teeth of couples only parties or fems & couples.. So closed minded and they missunderstand the single men entirely, what do they think will happen? That the single men will get all the fems? AHEM.. Not likely..
Most couples "guys will be one shot wonders if we are lucky cum twice" So there is room for single guys.
This isnt a competative game folks its about sating fantasies.
XxX MT"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Since being a single lady on here I have had lots of invites but decline them as when I went to them as couple's they didn't suit how I like to play.
I'm just wondering how are greedy straight single ladies accepted at house parties. As I have found that most ladies don't want to share with a lady that doesn't want to touch them too
So can anyone help change my views on this
Cali"
you would fit us perfectly!! I'm cuckquean |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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"most of the parties ive been to, except my own, are really disappointing. Not enough single guys and definetly not enough choice either"
It's almost impossible to please everyone.
Some couples don't want single guys at all. Some couples only want the single guy(s) they bring.
Some single ladies only want guys who fulfil certain requirements.
Some single guys don't want couples - just single ladies.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well we are knew on here but i cant wait for lady to join us for play an i get fully turned on about the 2nd woman sucking my husband an playing with him but i also cant wiat to be played with xx |
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I used to go to a lot of house parties years ago, i was always welcomed by the man and woman of a couple. But ive always been one to chat to the woman first. Also i aways knew there where going to be a lot of people at them that i knew. Dont think anyone felt threatened by more, nor snide bitchy looks/comments.
After all they are the ones going home with their partner at the end of the night |
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id be in awe of her, carry on being you cali, dont change for anyone, and if the women have a problem, then are they really into swinging? 
