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Where am I going wrong ?
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By *ral-jedi OP Man
over a year ago
warwickshire |
Hi fabbers
Been here for a while was on a long time ago . Had one meeting the first time round .. this time round I’m getting nowt . I’m polite non pushy I send face pics I don’t think I’m that ugly . Am I been to nice ? Any pointers appreciated ..
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"Hi fabbers
Been here for a while was on a long time ago . Had one meeting the first time round .. this time round I’m getting nowt . I’m polite non pushy I send face pics I don’t think I’m that ugly . Am I been to nice ? Any pointers appreciated ..
Cheers "
Hoops... Jump through hoops |
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There's literally nothing enticing about your profile. You can't expect people to give you a shot in anything, if they know nothing about you. These threads are a daily occurance. The advice is always the same - my suggestion is to search the forums for similar queries. You'll find some fantastic advice. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
somerset |
your one of many many many men couples and women have the cream of the crop to chose from .. it really is that simple ..
100/200 men per couple/women in some areas more and 100s of men joining everyday will only make things tougher |
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"Added some more details and put some of my photos as public .. any better ? "
I'm guessing it's better than nothing but in my opinion, your bio reads really badly. It's like a stream of consciousness- you wrote down anything and everything that came to your mind at the time without any thought given to logical order. It's very messy, but if that's the best you can do and if you believe it reflects truly who you are, leave it that way.
Your interests, OP, seem to be very limited- not saying it's wrong, it is refreshing that someone didn't tick all the boxes at once. But they may limit your options of potential matches.
Anyway, good luck and happy Fabbing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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These fucking threads,look at your profile and compare it to the 50,000 other single guy profiles. Then consider folk might not find the attraction. Your not a child you know why your not getting a response |
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"These fucking threads,look at your profile and compare it to the 50,000 other single guy profiles. Then consider folk might not find the attraction. Your not a child you know why your not getting a response"
Not tempted then? |
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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago
Durham, North Yorkshire and can travel |
You've been on here at least 9 years and you still aren't having much luck?
I do wonder how pro active you are being or if you are just expecting people to come flocking to you.
How many clubs and socials have you attended? |
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"Hi fabbers
Been here for a while was on a long time ago . Had one meeting the first time round .. this time round I’m getting nowt . I’m polite non pushy I send face pics I don’t think I’m that ugly . Am I been to nice ? Any pointers appreciated ..
Cheers "
I read your profile text fella, and you come across quite desperate? Sorry if that sounds harsh, but you’re asking for help, and if a guy (me) thinks you sound desperate, a woman or couple will too.
Have a re-write on your profile. Do correct spelling and grammar, and less of the repetition. Exude confidence is my tip 
Some new pics would help too? I would recommend a visit to a quality barber for a male grooming, and take a pic in a suit. I’m not saying you look scruffy, I’m just saying show the best you. Good luck  |
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"Hi fabbers
Been here for a while was on a long time ago . Had one meeting the first time round .. this time round I’m getting nowt . I’m polite non pushy I send face pics I don’t think I’m that ugly . Am I been to nice ? Any pointers appreciated ..
Cheers
I read your profile text fella, and you come across quite desperate? Sorry if that sounds harsh, but you’re asking for help, and if a guy (me) thinks you sound desperate, a woman or couple will too.
Have a re-write on your profile. Do correct spelling and grammar, and less of the repetition. Exude confidence is my tip
Some new pics would help too? I would recommend a visit to a quality barber for a male grooming, and take a pic in a suit. I’m not saying you look scruffy, I’m just saying show the best you. Good luck "
This 100% |
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By *ral-jedi OP Man
over a year ago
warwickshire |
"Were you d*unk when you took that photo? I was on a night out so probably..
What made you think that was a good photo to use?"
why not ? It’s still me just a little tipsy .. I take it you do not approve ? |
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"Were you d*unk when you took that photo? I was on a night out so probably..
What made you think that was a good photo to use? why not ? It’s still me just a little tipsy .. I take it you do not approve ? "
If that's an accurate reflection of who you are then you'd probably be doing the women of Fab a huge favour by reinstating it  |
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"Hi fabbers
Been here for a while was on a long time ago . Had one meeting the first time round .. this time round I’m getting nowt . I’m polite non pushy I send face pics I don’t think I’m that ugly . Am I been to nice ? Any pointers appreciated ..
Cheers
I read your profile text fella, and you come across quite desperate? Sorry if that sounds harsh, but you’re asking for help, and if a guy (me) thinks you sound desperate, a woman or couple will too.
Have a re-write on your profile. Do correct spelling and grammar, and less of the repetition. Exude confidence is my tip
Some new pics would help too? I would recommend a visit to a quality barber for a male grooming, and take a pic in a suit. I’m not saying you look scruffy, I’m just saying show the best you. Good luck "
I think the above is decent, well meant genuine advice. Some of the other comments are a bit cruel. |
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