My Hotwife has been offered presents or to be taken out and even hotel meets, where she agreed to pay towards. She thinks if she accepts then its almost like prostituting herself. And the bloke is then obliged to have fun? I think she deserves to be treated and have nice things bought, and definately should not pay towards hotel costs? Opinions appreciated please |
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"My Hotwife has been offered presents or to be taken out and even hotel meets, where she agreed to pay towards. She thinks if she accepts then its almost like prostituting herself. And the bloke is then obliged to have fun? I think she deserves to be treated and have nice things bought, and definately should not pay towards hotel costs? Opinions appreciated please"
If you think she deserves it maybe you pay for it and buy her nice things  |
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When we meet a guest gentleman I’m happy to pay for the hotel room.
It seems very crass to ask them for 50% and I couldn’t be arsed with it to be honest.
It also gives us control of the environment to some extent.
I appreciate it when the guy offers though. |
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Ok thanks for the opinions once again my wife is right lol. Nothing too do with me not wanting to splash the cash or being tight at all. When we arrange hotel fun as a couple we pay the price. But if a bull wants to take her to a hotel on her own then I think they should pay? It's a gentleman thing surely as in a date paying for a meal etc etc and no I'm not being sexist lol just the way I've been raised |
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By *ohn KanakaMan
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"My Hotwife has been offered presents or to be taken out and even hotel meets, where she agreed to pay towards. She thinks if she accepts then its almost like prostituting herself. And the bloke is then obliged to have fun? I think she deserves to be treated and have nice things bought, and definately should not pay towards hotel costs? Opinions appreciated please"
I think the opinion thst matters most is your wife's and you should respect that |
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"Ok thanks for the opinions once again my wife is right lol. Nothing too do with me not wanting to splash the cash or being tight at all. When we arrange hotel fun as a couple we pay the price. But if a bull wants to take her to a hotel on her own then I think they should pay? It's a gentleman thing surely as in a date paying for a meal etc etc and no I'm not being sexist lol just the way I've been raised"
If he’s paying then he obviously gets to choose the room and the rate.
Reckon your Mrs may be seeing a few Travelodges midweek. |
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"Ok thanks for the opinions once again my wife is right lol. Nothing too do with me not wanting to splash the cash or being tight at all. When we arrange hotel fun as a couple we pay the price. But if a bull wants to take her to a hotel on her own then I think they should pay? It's a gentleman thing surely as in a date paying for a meal etc etc and no I'm not being sexist lol just the way I've been raised"
If it became a regular thing with a bull it may be more likely for him to pay fully but it’s not so likely with a first meet that you may never see again.
Remember your wife returns to you at the end of the night, so you can’t apply the same thinking to what may happen on a date with someone who may commit to an exclusive relationship in the future.
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I deffo pay my way with meets. Yes, I get offered things but always refuse and either pay half as I feel that's not what I'm inclining to meet for.
Nikki x |
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