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What happened to saying hi
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So i took a bit of a break from the site. I come back and its just the same.
So many people messaging explocit content in a first message, with the obligatory pictures and not so much as a hi.
I get this is a swinging site but a basic introduction is a given no? |
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The word "hi" is actually frowned upon in first messages, according to many. Since some men apparently can only wrote that word, maybe they don't have the vocabulary to replace it with anything, so you're just getting captionless dick pics. A silent sausage, if you will. |
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"The word "hi" is actually frowned upon in first messages, according to many. Since some men apparently can only wrote that word, maybe they don't have the vocabulary to replace it with anything, so you're just getting captionless dick pics. A silent sausage, if you will."
Is hi really a full message? We say more than that in passing to a mere familiar face.
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By *1876Man
over a year ago
Dudley |
"So i took a bit of a break from the site. I come back and its just the same.
So many people messaging explocit content in a first message, with the obligatory pictures and not so much as a hi.
I get this is a swinging site but a basic introduction is a given no?"
Most of these guys are most likely wanking off into a tissue. They don't have any actual conversation in them, don't care how you are and generally have no basic decency.
Unfortunately, there are plenty of those kind of guys on most sites (not just swinging ones) but thankfully, there are plenty of us out there who can hold a conversation and send a decent first message 
Don't get disheartened |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
somerset |
i get too many hi's and thats all but they must think its going to work ?
as for porn script first messages instant block from me i dont want to be meeting them as its brains in the balls rather than the head ... block then the dont get a second chance not as if theres not plenty of fish in the sea too choose from... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So i took a bit of a break from the site. I come back and its just the same.
So many people messaging explocit content in a first message, with the obligatory pictures and not so much as a hi.
I get this is a swinging site but a basic introduction is a given no?"
Hi Nympho!
You are probably a rare find on here as there’s a lot of profiles say they don’t appreciate a ‘Hi’!
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"The word "hi" is actually frowned upon in first messages, according to many. Since some men apparently can only wrote that word, maybe they don't have the vocabulary to replace it with anything, so you're just getting captionless dick pics. A silent sausage, if you will.
Is hi really a full message? We say more than that in passing to a mere familiar face.
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Apparently a lot of guys send messages consisting of nothing but "hi". I've even had the odd one from a lady  |
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"So i took a bit of a break from the site. I come back and its just the same.
So many people messaging explocit content in a first message, with the obligatory pictures and not so much as a hi.
I get this is a swinging site but a basic introduction is a given no?
Hi Nympho!
You are probably a rare find on here as there’s a lot of profiles say they don’t appreciate a ‘Hi’!
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Ill take a hi over the alternative i posted.
But a hi, somewhere in the first message is like a bare minimum, no? |
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By *1876Man
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Well hello everyone. How are we on this fine day.
Anything exciting happening?
Well, I'm going to be climbing the wooden hills soon, soooo...rock n' roll 
How's your day been?
Take waders"
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By *im67Man
over a year ago
London |
"Well hello everyone. How are we on this fine day.
Anything exciting happening?"
Well had a meeting at work today and was told there looking at out sourcing my department to a different company that I work for at the moment.
Was asked if anyone like to ask any questions so I did and was fed the usual bullshit that's about as exciting as it got lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The word "hi" is actually frowned upon in first messages, according to many. Since some men apparently can only wrote that word, maybe they don't have the vocabulary to replace it with anything, so you're just getting captionless dick pics. A silent sausage, if you will."
Maybe they don't have the grammar to spell write properly? |
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"Why
I'm not on here often enough to waste my time chatting to people I have no interest in meeting
Because they say hi"
Hi tells me nothing. Why they messaged or what their intentions are. It's a no no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why
I'm not on here often enough to waste my time chatting to people I have no interest in meeting
Because they say hi
Hi tells me nothing. Why they messaged or what their intentions are. It's a no no "
Bit like your profile tells people nothing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why
I'm not on here often enough to waste my time chatting to people I have no interest in meeting
Because they say hi
Hi tells me nothing. Why they messaged or what their intentions are. It's a no no
Bit like your profile tells people nothing?"
Exactly this |
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"Why
I'm not on here often enough to waste my time chatting to people I have no interest in meeting
Because they say hi
Hi tells me nothing. Why they messaged or what their intentions are. It's a no no
Bit like your profile tells people nothing?"
If they get nothing from my profile with the verifications I have then they shouldn't be messaging me |
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"Why
I'm not on here often enough to waste my time chatting to people I have no interest in meeting
Because they say hi
Hi tells me nothing. Why they messaged or what their intentions are. It's a no no
Bit like your profile tells people nothing?
If they get nothing from my profile with the verifications I have then they shouldn't be messaging me "
you say nothing about your self tho |
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"Why
I'm not on here often enough to waste my time chatting to people I have no interest in meeting
Because they say hi
Hi tells me nothing. Why they messaged or what their intentions are. It's a no no
Bit like your profile tells people nothing?
If they get nothing from my profile with the verifications I have then they shouldn't be messaging me you say nothing about your self tho"
My verifications tells you more than any bio ever will |
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"Why
I'm not on here often enough to waste my time chatting to people I have no interest in meeting
Because they say hi
Hi tells me nothing. Why they messaged or what their intentions are. It's a no no
Bit like your profile tells people nothing?
If they get nothing from my profile with the verifications I have then they shouldn't be messaging me "
All the veris tell me is men will go with anyone and a profile tells me I could walk past people on the street or see them in a bar and not even notice them... so why try and hit on them from behind a screen. |
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"Why
I'm not on here often enough to waste my time chatting to people I have no interest in meeting
Because they say hi
Hi tells me nothing. Why they messaged or what their intentions are. It's a no no
Bit like your profile tells people nothing?
If they get nothing from my profile with the verifications I have then they shouldn't be messaging me
All the veris tell me is men will go with anyone and a profile tells me I could walk past people on the street or see them in a bar and not even notice them... so why try and hit on them from behind a screen."
My veris tell you that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why
I'm not on here often enough to waste my time chatting to people I have no interest in meeting
Because they say hi
Hi tells me nothing. Why they messaged or what their intentions are. It's a no no
Bit like your profile tells people nothing?
If they get nothing from my profile with the verifications I have then they shouldn't be messaging me
All the veris tell me is men will go with anyone and a profile tells me I could walk past people on the street or see them in a bar and not even notice them... so why try and hit on them from behind a screen.
My veris tell you that?"
I never said you.. it's just how I view a veri from guys.. you put you in that sentence. |
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"Why
I'm not on here often enough to waste my time chatting to people I have no interest in meeting
Because they say hi
Hi tells me nothing. Why they messaged or what their intentions are. It's a no no
Bit like your profile tells people nothing?
If they get nothing from my profile with the verifications I have then they shouldn't be messaging me
All the veris tell me is men will go with anyone and a profile tells me I could walk past people on the street or see them in a bar and not even notice them... so why try and hit on them from behind a screen.
My veris tell you that?
I never said you.. it's just how I view a veri from guys.. you put you in that sentence."
You replied to me when after I mentioned verifications so it was natural for me to come to that conclusion
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why bother writing a message when most women don't reply.
If I see a gapping fanny pic on a woman's profile I'd assume she wants explicit messages about it.
Same with sex review veris. Why display sex reviews and sex acts if the person doesn't want anyone to mention them. |
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"So i took a bit of a break from the site. I come back and its just the same.
So many people messaging explocit content in a first message, with the obligatory pictures and not so much as a hi.
I get this is a swinging site but a basic introduction is a given no?"
Single blokes can't win... in the women are always complaining about messages that just say "Hi", and then they complain about not getting messages that say "Hi".
Cal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For a single guy it’s so confusing to try a start a message to one who says they don’t like hi hello or how are you but they dislike the straight forwards of I like to fuck you so how do you start a conversation with them. I think the problem with people these days are they have no manners |
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"For a single guy it’s so confusing to try a start a message to one who says they don’t like hi hello or how are you but they dislike the straight forwards of I like to fuck you so how do you start a conversation with them. I think the problem with people these days are they have no manners "
I think that the concept is that you say "Hi", but then continue with more... maybe tell them what attracted you to their profile, and why you feel that you're right to meet their needs? Probably worth adding a face pic too (but not a dick pic).
In all of my years of being a bloke, I have discovered that many women like to know that people are attracted to them for their eyes, smile, mind, sense of humour, or personality. Being in possession of a vagina is rarely a reason that makes a lady feel special.
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"For a single guy it’s so confusing to try a start a message to one who says they don’t like hi hello or how are you but they dislike the straight forwards of I like to fuck you so how do you start a conversation with them. I think the problem with people these days are they have no manners "
Go for the inbetween. It's really simple |
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"So i took a bit of a break from the site. I come back and its just the same.
So many people messaging explocit content in a first message, with the obligatory pictures and not so much as a hi.
I get this is a swinging site but a basic introduction is a given no?
Single blokes can't win... in the women are always complaining about messages that just say "Hi", and then they complain about not getting messages that say "Hi".
Cal "
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"For a single guy it’s so confusing to try a start a message to one who says they don’t like hi hello or how are you but they dislike the straight forwards of I like to fuck you so how do you start a conversation with them. I think the problem with people these days are they have no manners "
'1. There is no conversational middle ground between "Hi" and "I like to fuck you".
2. The problem is with the manners of other people.'
That's an incredible handbrake turn, tbf. |
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"I think that the concept is that you say "Hi", but then continue with more..."
After viewing and reading someone's profile from a local search result, if I think we may be interested in and looking for similar things, I will send a message that opens with 'Hi' - and if they're new, I'll add "welcome to Fab"...
....I then ask a couple of relevant questions and invite them to view my profile if they might be interested - and leave it at that. Some get deleted, some get read and remain, some go unread, a few elicit a reply...
....likewise, if I message in response to someone's forum post, I will open with 'Hi', and then comment, ask a question, or make a suggestion relevant to the subject about which they posted, or specifically their post itself - very occasionally I'll do the same in response to someone's 'status update'...
....I've never, ever, written just 'Hi' and nothing else, nor sent explicit pics with a first message... |
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