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When did you first join?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For me in 2004 but was a site very similar called Swing*** Heav** - anyone remember it? It became a paid site in 2006 and most left to join here, or those who I was chatting too did. I came across and although few members back then I have fond memories as was a great culture.
I met some life long friends. Since then I have left and returned a few times. The reason for this comment is that I have just been browsing the ‘hot pics’ and some here have been here (albeit on and off) as long as me, I have seen them mature and change into hopefully them selves.
When I joined I was very vanilla, inexperienced as had only ever had 2 long term GF’s but a couple adopted me and showed me all I needed to see and took me on a journey of enlightenment that has led me to far different tastes.
What’s you Fab story? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First joined Fab in Feb 2018, if I recall correctly. Left in the summer, rejoined in the autumn.
Stayed on for a quite while, left in a mantrum. Rejoined shortly after with my tail between my legs, which is my current membership. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Firstly, I was active in the lov* hon** forums and realised there were people out there wanting to meet with others for play (this was when I didn't know swinging or anything like this was a thing). So looked about online and found swing*** heav**, but to me it felt really scam-y and fake so I didn't bother. But in the forums someone responded to one of my questions and recommended this site. And that's when I joined here. I couldn't join cos I wasn't old enough to be here lol. But joined soon as I was. |
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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago
Deep in the New Forest |
Same here... 2004 on the other site you mentioned and I'm still a member. But thankfully the members before becoming a payed site didn't have to pay only for the extra... Been on fab since 2015. Many friends from both sites and a few that have become friends outside of the sites for the last 15yrs. |
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By *nityCouple
over a year ago
stowmarket |
Original all the way back in 2010 when my marriage failed, introduced by a female friend, left once, rejoined about 6 months later, met the current wife through her sister on this site, left as a single guy after running a joint account for a while along side my single one. Now run the couples account and the wife has her single account. |
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Joined about 2010 ish, as I'd been to clubs etc as a single, researched best sites as I did clubs to visit, had a few friends on here always a good site to show who I am at clubs, rather than instant meets etc had a few though |
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Joined in 2016 aged 52 and left 2 months later following a really bad and ultimately dangerous first meet. Came and went a couple more times with varying degrees of success before creating this profile in 2019.
Made some amazing long term friends and avoided some long term lunatics and drama queens. |
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Joined a site called fuckbuddies 8 years ago now - its a paid site, never quite came off it but joined fab 4 years ago once I heard about it - this place is much nicer comm_nity my original site has a more vanilla crowd hence me not leaving. |
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By *scarpatMan
over a year ago
sexy town |
I joined in 2013. I used to find it fairly easy to get meets in the early days of joining but now it's saturated with guys like me. Lol.
It's been good and I found I like cock once in a blue moon too so it's not all bad. |
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"I joined in 2013. I used to find it fairly easy to get meets in the early days of joining but now it's saturated with guys like me. Lol.
It's been good and I found I like cock once in a blue moon too so it's not all bad. "
Certainly adds to it. I agree I've had more luck on dating sites for a night out
Have been lucky as a few fwb were keen to explore with clubs etc |
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I think I was about 24 years old. And it was slim pickings back then. I met some couples that I’m still good friends with.
Now I can’t even open my inbox for ten mins without a flood of horny men sending me pictures of those graboids off The movie Tremors. Not really sure why?! |
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"For me in 2004 but was a site very similar called Swing*** Heav** - anyone remember it? It became a paid site in 2006 and most left to join here, or those who I was chatting too did. I came across and although few members back then I have fond memories as was a great culture.
I met some life long friends. Since then I have left and returned a few times. The reason for this comment is that I have just been browsing the ‘hot pics’ and some here have been here (albeit on and off) as long as me, I have seen them mature and change into hopefully them selves.
When I joined I was very vanilla, inexperienced as had only ever had 2 long term GF’s but a couple adopted me and showed me all I needed to see and took me on a journey of enlightenment that has led me to far different tastes.
What’s you Fab story? "
We was on Swinger hev too moved here 2016.. |
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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago
NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts |
"April 2010 I think. Wish there was a way to see exactly x
I joined before you so I must have been here since 2010.
I always thought it was 2011.
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It was u that brought me over I think. Didn't use it for ages as drowned in messages |
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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago
Not all that North of North London |
"First Evri is from 2008 so I guess around then lol "
Then I'm guessing the same time!
I know I joined A.N.Other site in 2007 and people gradually moved over here but I wasn't sure if that was 2007, 2008 or possibly even 2009?
I've been here since then switching between single and/or couple profiles in that time |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
somerset |
me and hubs joined this site within a couple weeks of its birth we've always been here just we never kept our profiles (for good reason) was on a biggest site at the time loads of us made the jump there was quite a few sites back then and all the chats groups like aol xcite yahoo
fab is the king site tho long live the king |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh, this isn’t my first ride. Was a London Fabber a few years ago, and been on here once or twice while finding my feet in Brizzle.
It’s still as intoxicating and annoying as ever though, innit? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"me and hubs joined this site within a couple weeks of its birth we've always been here just we never kept our profiles (for good reason) was on a biggest site at the time loads of us made the jump there was quite a few sites back then and all the chats groups like aol xcite yahoo
fab is the king site tho long live the king"
I started years ago on a site named UKswingers... It was good at the time but diminished when fab came along I believe x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Haha i remember SH,i was an Op on there for quite a while.
Got booted off for coming on here,i think theres still a few people on here that were on SH too."
Yep, I do remember there being some ‘either or’ stuff going in in the forums. Was quite a nice site before it became fully paid. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I didnt know SH Was still a thing, I thought it died at death in 2006. It certainly changed alot then from what it were. Since finding this, I have never entertained any other sites. |
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I first logged on here shortly after the site started, back in 2006 - similar to some of the above posters, I was on SH prior to joining Fab, and still am, with 'grandfather rights'...
....over the years, I've found things have swung between the two, in that sometimes I've had more meets through one for a while, then the other - if I include meets via SH prior to joining Fab, they balance out fairly evenly... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Next week is our 1 year fabaversary haha "
Congratulations on year 1! Year one was my most impressionable as it changed me when discovered things I didn't know existed.
You have the beauty of a smart phone instead of a desk top pc, MSN Messenger and windows XP Or 98 to communicate. Everyone used to come on line at about 7 after dinner. Day times were usually dead. |
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"Next week is our 1 year fabaversary haha
Congratulations on year 1! Year one was my most impressionable as it changed me when discovered things I didn't know existed.
You have the beauty of a smart phone instead of a desk top pc, MSN Messenger and windows XP Or 98 to communicate. Everyone used to come on line at about 7 after dinner. Day times were usually dead. "
Lmao and disappear for a couple of minutes every hour to reconnect the dial up. |
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"Next week is our 1 year fabaversary haha
Congratulations on year 1! Year one was my most impressionable as it changed me when discovered things I didn't know existed.
You have the beauty of a smart phone instead of a desk top pc, MSN Messenger and windows XP Or 98 to communicate. Everyone used to come on line at about 7 after dinner. Day times were usually dead. "
Thank you, yes it’s certainly been an eye opener! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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About a couple of years ago; without the forums and wanting to keep in touch with a really nice woman friend in Scotland (online only) I probably wouldn't stay. I have much more fun and about as much success in terms of sex meeting people socially in the 'real world' without the aggravation and time wasted on here, where genuine people (men anyhow) with any manners or of any interest or attraction seem few and far between. |
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Started as a single man meeting couples via the personals of the free ad papers like Loot and Trade it back in the early nineties. Was on the other site mentioned as a single, then here as a single and now as a couple though my fav was the long gone fet site, IC, through which I met lots of wonderful women and also another fet site, bondage.cxx which was once good. Not sure it even exists now. |
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I (he) also started on the Heaven site after seeing an article about it in a magazine. Started off just using the chatrooms and had some good laughs before plucking up the nerve to progress to meets and socials. Migrated over here at some point but have been absent for 10 or so years but am now back with the love of my life for some new adventures as a couple. |
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"For me in 2004 but was a site very similar called Swing*** Heav** - anyone remember it? It became a paid site in 2006 and most left to join here, or those who I was chatting too did. I came across and although few members back then I have fond memories as was a great culture.
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I came across in that first exodus as well. Great times  |
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Haha also an SH transplant! I had joined out of curiosity when I was a student but never got active. I missed the commercialisation of the site. I recovered the old free account in my mid 30s and started using it for real. And there was a period where everyone on SH chat was mentioning fabs aaaall the time! So in the end I got too curious and joined in 2014  Have come and gone many times, my single fem accounts especially never last long. |
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"For me in 2004 but was a site very similar called Swing*** Heav** - anyone remember it? It became a paid site in 2006 and most left to join here, or those who I was chatting too did. I came across and although few members back then I have fond memories as was a great culture.
I met some life long friends. Since then I have left and returned a few times. The reason for this comment is that I have just been browsing the ‘hot pics’ and some here have been here (albeit on and off) as long as me, I have seen them mature and change into hopefully them selves.
When I joined I was very vanilla, inexperienced as had only ever had 2 long term GF’s but a couple adopted me and showed me all I needed to see and took me on a journey of enlightenment that has led me to far different tastes.
What’s you Fab story? "
I loved SH its where I met my 1st Cuck couple, they were amazing. We learnt a lot from each other, that went on for a few yrs & there was enough trust we moved to BB,
They tried this site but didn't like it.
Still hope they'll come back to the lifestyle one day    |
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I began swinging in about 1995/96.. I was 19. Have been on various sites used icq and msn/ yahoo chat rooms... moved onto sites when they came about. Been on fab a very very long time. It was all very shiny and new when I first joined |
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Can’t remember when i joined. When I first got married and my wife was really horny we had an account with another swinging site but people left for here so I followed. I’m guessing around 2014. I had a few bice meets and veris then decided to leave and delete my account. Came back around 2018 I think! Love this site really. Shame wifey’s not into it too. If I’m ever single again, I’ll be wife-hunting on this site! I’m fed up with the limitations of monogamy with someone uninterested in sex. Swingers are fun and have fun and that’s what life ought to be! |
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"our first thing was uk chat on aol late nineties then dean and matties dirty daves swingers europe which became sdc heaven and here from the very start early 200s i think
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I was on Dirty-David's until it went fully commercialised as part of the adult hub network - it became almost identical in format and content to a handful of other sites, right down to some individual profiles...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Great hearing all the various different stories and joining times, I an surprised there are so many oldies like me on here. Some even older! I didn't know swinging could be a thing before the internet!
Funny how a lot like me leave and return! Do you think once you have experienced it, you can never truly banish it? X |
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