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I am 26 my partner is 53 , he does not look his age , ex fitness model and adult movie actor and is fitter in everyway than most 25yr olds . But we get blocked by filters , and discounted based just on his age only !
Am I the only one that likes a fit older daddy type with a rocking body ?
And does anybody else have this problem?
Tia G x |
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I think your both lucky if you don’t mind the age gap and by your pics you both look happy then why should it bother you, I say have fun and enjoy yes you both look good wish I looked like that at his age |
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over a year ago
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"I am 26 my partner is 53 , he does not look his age , ex fitness model and adult movie actor and is fitter in everyway than most 25yr olds . But we get blocked by filters , and discounted based just on his age only !
Am I the only one that likes a fit older daddy type with a rocking body ?
And does anybody else have this problem?
Tia G x "
Wow hot couple |
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Age gap couple here to..
It can be frustrating. But the easy way to get round the system is to physically go to socials, events and clubs.
Its attraction not age at these sort events.
Or if you still want online...
You add a single female profile, add pictures of yourself and parse couple image. Link profiles together in your profile text. advertise for couple on couple action. Create your own filter blocking to suit your wants and needs.
Happy FABBING
Amelia  |
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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago
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"I am 26 my partner is 53 , he does not look his age , ex fitness model and adult movie actor and is fitter in everyway than most 25yr olds . But we get blocked by filters , and discounted based just on his age only !
Am I the only one that likes a fit older daddy type with a rocking body ?
And does anybody else have this problem?
Tia G x "
all the time either hes to old or im to young especialy since he turned 50 ah well there loss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Age gap couple here to..
It can be frustrating. But the easy way to get round the system is to physically go to socials, events and clubs.
Its attraction not age at these sort events.
Or if you still want online...
You add a single female profile, add pictures of yourself and parse couple image. Link profiles together in your profile text. advertise for couple on couple action. Create your own filter blocking to suit your wants and needs.
Happy FABBING
Amelia "
Agreed that if its an issue online then try clubs
People have their preferences and for some (including myself) it includes age  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes we have done that ....I have my own
G3mma "
11 years between us. The only problem we have is couples friend request or wink and we can't reply as their profile is hidden and we can't message either.
Doesn't bother us. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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People are allowed to discount just because of his age. Just like people can discount because of your age as well that's their prerogative. I have my age filters set mainly to cut down on messages on here but if I see someone outside of them that I like I will make first contact and have done in the past.
I really don't understand why people get so pissed off over other people's filters.No one is owed anything on here. And the main thing surely is that you fancy your partner and are happy with them.
There are plenty of other people you can meet on here who will be happy to meet you both, concentrate on them and not on the ones who you fall outside their filters. And respect their filters rather than trying to find ways around them there is nothing more annoying than people who do that on here.
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By *lofeldMan
over a year ago
Redhill |
"People are allowed to discount just because of his age. Just like people can discount because of your age as well that's their prerogative. I have my age filters set mainly to cut down on messages on here but if I see someone outside of them that I like I will make first contact and have done in the past.
I really don't understand why people get so pissed off over other people's filters.No one is owed anything on here. And the main thing surely is that you fancy your partner and are happy with them.
There are plenty of other people you can meet on here who will be happy to meet you both, concentrate on them and not on the ones who you fall outside their filters. And respect their filters rather than trying to find ways around them there is nothing more annoying than people who do that on here.
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You have to say, that's totally fair comment. |
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over a year ago
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"I am 26 my partner is 53 , he does not look his age , ex fitness model and adult movie actor and is fitter in everyway than most 25yr olds . But we get blocked by filters , and discounted based just on his age only !
Am I the only one that likes a fit older daddy type with a rocking body ?
And does anybody else have this problem?
Tia G x "
Get a younger man then.  |
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"People are allowed to discount just because of his age. Just like people can discount because of your age as well that's their prerogative. I have my age filters set mainly to cut down on messages on here but if I see someone outside of them that I like I will make first contact and have done in the past.
I really don't understand why people get so pissed off over other people's filters.No one is owed anything on here. And the main thing surely is that you fancy your partner and are happy with them.
There are plenty of other people you can meet on here who will be happy to meet you both, concentrate on them and not on the ones who you fall outside their filters. And respect their filters rather than trying to find ways around them there is nothing more annoying than people who do that on here.
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Exactly this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yup, we've had it. I respect others preference, but it still stings when others say sorry hes out our age range.
So I take the view if they don't take Mr they don't take me & move on
Mrs C |
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Tbh we’ve hit 40 and we’re finding a lot of couples & females we’re attracted to have filters set so we’re unable to message, it’s part of life, although mrs L2 looks 10 years you get than she is people still have preferences on age, as gutting as it is we respect that x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m 51 & my partner is 31 - took me awhile to get to grips with it myself, If it was 18/38 then I’d have said no, but it was only 2yr ago.
She’s the perfect match for me & im very lucky to have her in my life.
Not had any problems regards other people x |
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I think the younger generation often think that your getting past it once you mature.
Having a younger partner can help to keep you young at heart. Also you can keep in really good shape.
There are some very attractive mature couples on here.
I feel you have to respect everyone’s preferences and have always tended to have a preference for mature women.
Ageism is part of growing older and it is more difficult for couples with large age differences but there are still plenty fish in the sea and you must never feel too old. Age is just a number it’s you persona that counts. |
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"I am 26 my partner is 53 , he does not look his age , ex fitness model and adult movie actor and is fitter in everyway than most 25yr olds . But we get blocked by filters , and discounted based just on his age only !
Am I the only one that likes a fit older daddy type with a rocking body ?
And does anybody else have this problem?
Tia G x "
We had the same with john. Dont stress just keep looking. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m 52, my wife is 34 and my fb 26.
It makes me laugh when I miss the age gap cut off by a year or two.
I’m In better shape now than when I was in my 30s. I know more about pleasuring a woman too.
Each to their own, though. If I’m too old for them, that’s absolutely fine! |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
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Temperament has a lot to do with it too. I had a relationship with a 25 year old single mum with two kids and she chased me and she likes older men.The problem was she was a total nightmare to go out with insisting on drinking herself to a stupor and getting in all sorts of scrapes in the end It got way to much.
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"I think the younger generation often think that your getting past it once you mature.
Having a younger partner can help to keep you young at heart. Also you can keep in really good shape.
There are some very attractive mature couples on here.
I feel you have to respect everyone’s preferences and have always tended to have a preference for mature women.
Ageism is part of growing older and it is more difficult for couples with large age differences but there are still plenty fish in the sea and you must never feel too old. Age is just a number it’s you persona that counts. "
So you would meet a 19 year old and an 85 year old? If not, you are ageist right. |
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"Temperament has a lot to do with it too. I had a relationship with a 25 year old single mum with two kids and she chased me and she likes older men.The problem was she was a total nightmare to go out with insisting on drinking herself to a stupor and getting in all sorts of scrapes in the end It got way to much.
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"I think the younger generation often think that your getting past it once you mature.
Having a younger partner can help to keep you young at heart. Also you can keep in really good shape.
There are some very attractive mature couples on here.
I feel you have to respect everyone’s preferences and have always tended to have a preference for mature women.
Ageism is part of growing older and it is more difficult for couples with large age differences but there are still plenty fish in the sea and you must never feel too old. Age is just a number it’s you persona that counts. "
Not wanting to have sex with someone significantly older than you isn't 'ageism'  |
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By *emptedbCouple
over a year ago
guildford |
We have an age gap! Don't find it too problematic as I (Mrs) still would rather meet gents older than me and very fluid with females ages - but meeting similar aged couples would be ideal! (makes sense I guess as we are most attracted to each other!) |
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By *ove2Couple
over a year ago
colchester |
"I am 26 my partner is 53 , he does not look his age , ex fitness model and adult movie actor and is fitter in everyway than most 25yr olds . But we get blocked by filters , and discounted based just on his age only !
Am I the only one that likes a fit older daddy type with a rocking body ?
And does anybody else have this problem?
Tia G x "
just had a quick look.
You both look a great couple. Xx |
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It's a shame you can't do polish on here. I wonder how many women would date an older man? How many have thought about it, but not done anything about it. And how many wouldn't go near an older man? It would be interesting to see the results, and see if it actually made women start seeing older men or sway them away. |
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"Yup, we've had it. I respect others preference, but it still stings when others say sorry hes out our age range.
So I take the view if they don't take Mr they don't take me & move on
Mrs C "
Love this x |
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"I am 26 my partner is 53 , he does not look his age , ex fitness model and adult movie actor and is fitter in everyway than most 25yr olds . But we get blocked by filters , and discounted based just on his age only !
Am I the only one that likes a fit older daddy type with a rocking body ?
And does anybody else have this problem?
Tia G x "
You are most certainly not the the only one that likes that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a shame you can't do polish on here. I wonder how many women would date an older man? How many have thought about it, but not done anything about it. And how many wouldn't go near an older man? It would be interesting to see the results, and see if it actually made women start seeing older men or sway them away."
Yeah it would be interesting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went to a pakistani couple tens of years ago - wife was my age guy 20 years old. Credit to him he knew he could not satify his wife and I was honoured to fuck her with him out of the room and then cuddle, kiss her pussy etc when he was there as wife was shy, ie not want him watching when she was being fucked possibly bacuse she could not let hersel go
They told me they'd have at least one meet per week and I learned from them/him that it was best not to meet up twice with his wife as she may fall for the gy. Since that day and when were were young ie me and L, we've only meet 2 guys twice and i was in the room for most of the part the bloke had a point.
So agee difference when younger not a big deal but older and less able and if wife a lot younger, most will want cock and hubbys that are aware of their wifes needs will often seek fit/hung guys
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23 year gap here, I’m 27 and Mr has just turned 50. We love in and wouldn’t have it any other way. Actively seeking other similar couples and dynamics. Been together 4 years now and all family and friends very accepting of us x |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
Bedfont Feltham |
"Temperament has a lot to do with it too. I had a relationship with a 25 year old single mum with two kids and she chased me and she likes older men.The problem was she was a total nightmare to go out with insisting on drinking herself to a stupor and getting in all sorts of scrapes in the end It got way to much.
Do you think that erratic behaviour made her a vulnerable person "
She kept putting herself in vulnerable positions. Now I have distance I have cone to think a lot of the things she claimed happen to her while we were together were limes and attention seeking.
I have become more and more wart of trusting women theee days. Notba good way to be but the last few relationships over the years have done me a lot of damage mentally and financially. Not a hood way to be I Know |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"People are allowed to discount just because of his age. Just like people can discount because of your age as well that's their prerogative. I have my age filters set mainly to cut down on messages on here but if I see someone outside of them that I like I will make first contact and have done in the past.
I really don't understand why people get so pissed off over other people's filters.No one is owed anything on here. And the main thing surely is that you fancy your partner and are happy with them.
There are plenty of other people you can meet on here who will be happy to meet you both, concentrate on them and not on the ones who you fall outside their filters. And respect their filters rather than trying to find ways around them there is nothing more annoying than people who do that on here.
You have to say, that's totally fair comment. "
It is , Bo often writes similar to what I think.
I have age filters on and filters to stop couples and shadows messaging me,because I'd rather be able to get less messages ,so the people I want to chat to get through.
As someone said above try clubs and socials as its easier Ftf when you're not giving ages away immediately etc. |
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"It's a shame you can't do polish on here. I wonder how many women would date an older man? How many have thought about it, but not done anything about it. And how many wouldn't go near an older man? It would be interesting to see the results, and see if it actually made women start seeing older men or sway them away."
Why not just focus on the women who don't have an issue instead of trying to sway those who do? |
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"People are allowed to discount just because of his age. Just like people can discount because of your age as well that's their prerogative. I have my age filters set mainly to cut down on messages on here but if I see someone outside of them that I like I will make first contact and have done in the past.
I really don't understand why people get so pissed off over other people's filters.No one is owed anything on here. And the main thing surely is that you fancy your partner and are happy with them.
There are plenty of other people you can meet on here who will be happy to meet you both, concentrate on them and not on the ones who you fall outside their filters. And respect their filters rather than trying to find ways around them there is nothing more annoying than people who do that on here.
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Do you usually just stop chatting to someone on the day they become a year over the age limit? |
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"It's a shame you can't do polish on here. I wonder how many women would date an older man? How many have thought about it, but not done anything about it. And how many wouldn't go near an older man? It would be interesting to see the results, and see if it actually made women start seeing older men or sway them away.
Why not just focus on the women who don't have an issue instead of trying to sway those who do?"
That should have said... Shame you can't do Polls (as in to see percentages) and not Polish. Bloody predictive text. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"People are allowed to discount just because of his age. Just like people can discount because of your age as well that's their prerogative. I have my age filters set mainly to cut down on messages on here but if I see someone outside of them that I like I will make first contact and have done in the past.
I really don't understand why people get so pissed off over other people's filters.No one is owed anything on here. And the main thing surely is that you fancy your partner and are happy with them.
There are plenty of other people you can meet on here who will be happy to meet you both, concentrate on them and not on the ones who you fall outside their filters. And respect their filters rather than trying to find ways around them there is nothing more annoying than people who do that on here.
Do you usually just stop chatting to someone on the day they become a year over the age limit?"
If you actually read my comment properly you would know the answer to that rather than try and be smart |
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"People are allowed to discount just because of his age. Just like people can discount because of your age as well that's their prerogative. I have my age filters set mainly to cut down on messages on here but if I see someone outside of them that I like I will make first contact and have done in the past.
I really don't understand why people get so pissed off over other people's filters.No one is owed anything on here. And the main thing surely is that you fancy your partner and are happy with them.
There are plenty of other people you can meet on here who will be happy to meet you both, concentrate on them and not on the ones who you fall outside their filters. And respect their filters rather than trying to find ways around them there is nothing more annoying than people who do that on here.
Do you usually just stop chatting to someone on the day they become a year over the age limit?
If you actually read my comment properly you would know the answer to that rather than try and be smart "
Just a bit of banter..i read every word i promise |
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"I am 26 my partner is 53 , he does not look his age , ex fitness model and adult movie actor and is fitter in everyway than most 25yr olds . But we get blocked by filters , and discounted based just on his age only !
Am I the only one that likes a fit older daddy type with a rocking body ?
And does anybody else have this problem?
Tia G x
Get a younger man then. "
The whole point is I prefer older . |
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On the flip side of this I have zero interest in big age gaps and the issue I have is couples who are able to bypass my filters because the man is above the filter but the woman well below. They are usually the ones who feel that's acceptable and tell me all about how I could fulfill her fantasy to be with an older man.
Rather strange as they already appear to have a much older partner.
Unless of course "he" doesn't actually exist which has been the case a few times. |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
"So far what's the biggest age gap in this thread?
Ours is 33 years.
A mere 14 years, but she loves to play the old man card which is in jest and taken with a pinch of salt. "
Old man or not - your a total silver fox  xx |
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"Tbh we’ve hit 40 and we’re finding a lot of couples & females we’re attracted to have filters set so we’re unable to message, it’s part of life, although mrs L2 looks 10 years you get than she is people still have preferences on age, as gutting as it is we respect that x"
Mrs l2 is very hot, who cares what her age is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So many people who say that don’t look their age, do look their age, it’s not just body that leads to attraction but face too. People can have whatever preferences they like, including age! |
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"I am 26 my partner is 53 , he does not look his age , ex fitness model and adult movie actor and is fitter in everyway than most 25yr olds . But we get blocked by filters , and discounted based just on his age only !
Am I the only one that likes a fit older daddy type with a rocking body ?
And does anybody else have this problem?
Tia G x
Get a younger man then.
The whole point is I prefer older . "
...And they prefer younger men than he is. |
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"I am 26 my partner is 53 , he does not look his age , ex fitness model and adult movie actor and is fitter in everyway than most 25yr olds . But we get blocked by filters , and discounted based just on his age only !
Am I the only one that likes a fit older daddy type with a rocking body ?
And does anybody else have this problem?
Tia G x "
Not really a problem to self-filter out the wheat from the chaff. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"I thought as long as one of you are within the age range you can message profiles. I get couples with older males messaging me."
Yep.
An older partner won't prevent you contacting someone. Age filters have always gone by the younger age in a couple - unless something has changed recently. But we recieve messages where one half of a couple is outside our filters so I doubt that.
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By *it4uMan
over a year ago
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"I am 26 my partner is 53 , he does not look his age , ex fitness model and adult movie actor and is fitter in everyway than most 25yr olds . But we get blocked by filters , and discounted based just on his age only !
Am I the only one that likes a fit older daddy type with a rocking body ?
And does anybody else have this problem?
Tia G x "
Fit older type here |
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