Yep they've got the horn and in Fab mood and then the horn goes. We don't mind chatting but want some prospect of it leading somewhere. It is incredibly difficult to pin down many couples (and ladies) and find chat quickly dries up sometimes if we start suggesting dates or asking for them to, even rough timescales. |
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"I always thought the curse of Fab was related to the amount of sudden deaths members grandparents suffer from when planning to meet.  "
It’s costing me a fortune in cards and flowers mate. Someone needs to do something about it. |
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"Anyone else get this....you start chatting to a new couple and it all seems great, but then the next day or a few days later no messages and they ignore your messages?"
Chatting to someone and it was all great. Then arranged a day for a meet in it suddenly became short one word answers ?? |
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I’ve never had a convo stop for no reason although I’ve stopped responding for a multitude of reasons! Boredom, red flags in messages, offputting forum interactions, offputting statuses, sending me dick pics or action shots, messages dropping down the page and just forgetting. A whole bunch of reasons! |
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"Anyone else get this....you start chatting to a new couple and it all seems great, but then the next day or a few days later no messages and they ignore your messages?"
Men on fab experience this constantly. Now you know how it feels :D |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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It's not a curse. It's just online life.
People have jobs and responsibilities that take priority over fab.
People are generally chatting to more than one profile at a time so you don't have exclusivity over their time. Maybe someone more interesting came along?
Conversations may seem like they're going great from one persons point of view but maybe the other party feels differently?
Don't puta all your eggs in one basket, jump to conclusions or start building expectations early and you'll live a stress free, happy Fab life.
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"I always thought the curse of Fab was related to the amount of sudden deaths members grandparents suffer from when planning to meet. "
I avoid planing meets just in case someone old dies or gets rushed into hospital , can’t handle the guilt  |
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We get this quite a bit - more so with couples which is why we take chats off-line once it’s got so far.
We can then chat in a 4 and see how much interaction both provide.
On FAB you don’t actually know who you are talking to…it could just be one of the couple answering for them both.
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"I always thought the curse of Fab was related to the amount of sudden deaths members grandparents suffer from when planning to meet. "
Now that is funny....and dogs being ill. We have had that one before. The foursum did not even include the dog!!! |
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It's unrealistic to expect that most great starts will discover and realise everyone has full mutual compatibility. It's less a curse and more reflective of the low levels of compatibility, especially when it's multiplied by more than just 2 people seeking to meet.
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