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By *ee1967 OP   Man  over a year ago

watford

Just me?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love kissing

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By *atenaWoman  over a year ago

Hyde

Me pleaseeeeeee

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By *avexxMan  over a year ago

cheshire

me,,

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Always love a nice snog,n!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Always love a nice snog,n!"

So much so, I clearly couldn't type it!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love a proper passionate kiss it turns me on as much as sex

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just me?"

Love kissing .

Never insist .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Me. I love kissing.

Emma

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By *ilverSwordMan  over a year ago

Belfast-ish

Love kising. It's a must

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Me! Lots of it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Definitely love kissing

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By *orbidden eastMan  over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Oh yes, a great opening to what will come

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By *riel13Woman  over a year ago

Northampton

If I don't kiss you I am unlikely to want to fuck you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Kissing is essential

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By *ornycouplepzCouple  over a year ago

here and there

We love kissing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well of course, that's the second stage of good foreplay,after the flirting and innuendo laden chat

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds

No kissing...no meet x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Absolutely love kissing. Lee

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By *entleman JayMan  over a year ago

Wakefield

I LOVE kissing.

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By *eviant KnightMan  over a year ago

Norton


"No kissing...no meet x"

This is my rule too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have met couples who won’t kiss, it just feels so cold and clinical, I love a good snog so I won’t meet now unless kissing is a priority

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By *lephantisMan  over a year ago

Oxford

Who on Earth doesn't kiss?

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By *00KissesCouple  over a year ago

Stourbridge

Just can't imagine not starting with a kiss

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't get why people want to swap body fluids but why would exclude kissing? Just doesn't make sense.

How does the song go?

It started with a kiss

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I can live without it.

I can live without sex aswell though.

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By *rad670Man  over a year ago

South Lakes

I could do a kissing only meet, have done oral only meets, it's not all about penetration, there is so much more.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Love it

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By *ave1976XXXMan  over a year ago

newmarket

Kissing is a must for me. Passionate meets please

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan  over a year ago

Coventry

I generally go with if you won't kiss me then you don't have me. I'm no bodies sex toy.

BTW I get that no kissing is just some peoples thing for many reasons and not a reflection on me a such. But in my mind you don't kiss me, your not accepting of me and that to me just feels off. I think this is partly why I'm not into glory holes, it just so lacking interaction and connection for me.

And of course kissing is just so fucking hot. If I've been out or to club and kissed a few women then my night is made.

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By *HaRiFMan  over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I wouldn't insist on it but if one's going I wouldn't say no.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love kissing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Its my favourite! I'm long over due a good kiss

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Me kissing is a must

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We Lurve kissing eachother. But the reason is because of the emotional connection.

Kissing someone that we don't really know is a massive turn Off. Eugh

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By *lephantisMan  over a year ago

Oxford


"We Lurve kissing eachother. But the reason is because of the emotional connection.

Kissing someone that we don't really know is a massive turn Off. Eugh "

But...fucking them isn't?

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By *penbicoupleCouple  over a year ago

Northampton

We do x

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By *moothdickMan  over a year ago

stoke


"I don't get why people want to swap body fluids but why would exclude kissing? Just doesn't make sense.

How does the song go?

It started with a kiss "

Not if it’s Quasimodo…. It started with cyst

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By *ove2lickMan  over a year ago

Sheffield

Kissing is a must gets me well I'm sure you all know

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By *otwifedundeeWoman  over a year ago

Dundee

It’s my favourite

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Kissing is amazing when done properly

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By *une_Bug999Couple  over a year ago

Aberdeen

Love kissing. Makes it so much better when they're a good kisser and really sink into it. Feels weird not kissing tbh.

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By *heltenhamBiGuyMan  over a year ago

Cheltenham

Can't beat a good smooch

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Can’t beat a good kiss

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just me?"

Yeah kissing is much better. I've had a couple of meets where kissing wasn't allowed, and it definitely wasn't quite the same

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By *onkeynutWoman  over a year ago

somewhere

Always

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We Lurve kissing eachother. But the reason is because of the emotional connection.

Kissing someone that we don't really know is a massive turn Off. Eugh

But...fucking them isn't?"

Agree with you. We don't F**k other people either (soft swap)

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By *inkyfuckery69Couple  over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

We do definitely!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Its my favourite! I'm long over due a good kiss "
and whoever that be is a lucky duck

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By *xpandmyhorizonsMan  over a year ago

Co. Antrim

I don't think I could do a meet without kissing, I love it!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I do love it but I wouldn’t insist on it. I know that for some couples especially, kissing is something that is deeply personal and beyond anything else physically.

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By *irginieWoman  over a year ago

Near Marlborough

If there is no kissing there is nothing.

V x

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By *utterypopcornCouple  over a year ago

oxford

Pucker up baby!!!! No kissing no meeting for us

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By *ARKblondeCouple  over a year ago

london

Yeah, we both get super turned on kissing, it's not a hard rule, but it's a bit weird without!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just me?"

Only a good kisser

Not any of the wet slobber

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By *icole 123Woman  over a year ago

Baildon,West Yorkshire

Me,absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Its the best way to start things off.

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By *revaunanceCouple  over a year ago

Exeter

Insists?

No.

But there is something missing without kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Pretty weird without it, to be fair, it's about as satisfying as doing the quick crossword with an IKEA pencil.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love kissing.. best part.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple  over a year ago

Neath valley.

kissing is a must for us.

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By *eybert77Man  over a year ago

Ramsey

You can tell so much by the the way someone kisses

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"kissing is a must for us."

Same here

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman  over a year ago

all loved up


"We Lurve kissing eachother. But the reason is because of the emotional connection.

Kissing someone that we don't really know is a massive turn Off. Eugh "

I am similar. In fact didn't even kiss my husband when I was married. It rarely seems to cause me drama on here . It's not that I don't kiss these days more that it's only if I feel like it. Which is rare...

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By *REEPALESTINEMan  over a year ago

derby

Kissing definitely makes the souls meet

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central

It's expected

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By *onny135Man  over a year ago

Birmingham

I love kissing -the sensuality, and the build up really starts a meet off on the right foot....

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple  over a year ago

Leeds

It's my favourite, the best lead up to sex, I couldn't meet without kissing.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I do unless there a few front teeth missing, then I insist on a missing teeth blowjob

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By *adyluck..Woman  over a year ago

Calderdale

Yes a must

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By *iggy5Man  over a year ago

Northamptonshire

I absolutely adore kissing. Such a turn on. Love it.

Occasionally a profile may say that they don't. I skip those.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Of course!

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By *amesB66Man  over a year ago

St Peter Port

Passionate kissing is such a turn on..I couldn't arrange a meet if I knew kissing was off the menu.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple  over a year ago

chester

Mwah x

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By *ndianLuxCouple  over a year ago

West midlands

Yes pls

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By *d4funtimesMan  over a year ago

Cambridge

Like it too.

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By *asycouple1971Couple  over a year ago

midlands

Wife loves it...

She loves kissing ladies x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes!! Big turn on x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Me pleaseeeeeee"

I love kissing

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By *nselfishpleaserMan  over a year ago

kent

I would never insist on kissing but it is bloody nice

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think kissing makes a meet

But haven’t had one without it lol

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By *unover40Couple  over a year ago

yeovil

its a must for us

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By *tarburst babydollMan  over a year ago

Dingwall

No kissing = no play

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Kissing is a big part of it for me (male half) however my partner isn't a massive fan of kissing randoms but I guess she just goes with the flow.

When iam penetrating and I lean in and kiss a woman I have never been told not to kiss. Kissing is a hugh turn on for me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think kissing makes a meet

But haven’t had one without it lol "

This

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By *adja_lazloCouple  over a year ago

Solihull


"Just me?"

us, love it

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By *ull English with teaMan  over a year ago

London

Yes, it’s a deal breaker for me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Kissing always, yes especially when she has a mouthful of cum sharing is caring.

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By *harbiMan  over a year ago

london/Reading

It's obligatory

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By *sBlueWoman  over a year ago

Up North

Me

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By *ames_HertsMan  over a year ago

North Hertfordshire

Love a good kiss, roaming hands always help too

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By *Ci LutherMan  over a year ago

Cumalot

Seems wrong without it

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By *r TriomanMan  over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Me! Pucker-up and brace yourself.....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I enjoy kissing other women and Sir loves to watch that! But other than that we don't kiss others. Just personal choice.

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By *ancer36Woman  over a year ago

Stirling

I wouldn’t consider having sex with someone who I hadn’t kissed - simple as that x

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By *heGigglersCouple  over a year ago

West Midlands

We list kissing as a must in our bio. If they aren't into kissing it just isn't going to work out so it's better to be upfront about it.

K x

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By *issmorganWoman  over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Nope ,not just you

I wouldn't want to meet if there was no kissing .

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By *olarbear73Man  over a year ago

Glasgow

No kissing = No passion = No Point

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By *D of funCouple  over a year ago

Northampton

Love kissing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We absolutely do… doesn’t make sense if you’d have sex with someone else but not kiss very strange and also helps the flow of any meet I can usually tell if it’s gunna be a good meet from the first kiss….

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By *SCouple81Couple  over a year ago

Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders

Absolutely love kissing. Can't have sex without it.

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple  over a year ago

Bristol

I don't think we could agree to a meet without kissing.

Would just feel a bit clinical and lack intimacy for us.

Plus kissing gets us both going, so it's always key part of sex for us

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By *dwalu2Couple  over a year ago

Bristol

Kissing always for us, it’s as important as the connection and the sex…but understand people who want to keep it separate.

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By *elight 99Woman  over a year ago

richmond

Mandatory

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By *moothstaffspeepsCouple  over a year ago

Stafford

Imperative absolutely the law x

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By *aturefun63Man  over a year ago

Belper

Love a snog perfect start to meet

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By *aveyDipperMan  over a year ago

Teesside

I don’t insist but if the woman asks I happily oblige

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By *oney and ReggieCouple  over a year ago

braintree

Absolutely

Love kissing

X

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By *ipvanwinkieMan  over a year ago

out of town!

It’s not much of a meet if there’s no kissing tbh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Love kissing, i wouldnt insist on it but i do love it.

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By *assionatepoetsCouple  over a year ago

Highbridge


"Absolutely

Love kissing

X"

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By *andb69Couple  over a year ago

leeds

If anyone insisted on anything they wouldn't get anything from me.

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By *illxxMan  over a year ago

motherwell

I never insist but it a lot better with lots of kissing

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By *rincess1988Woman  over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

Wouldn’t play with anyone who doesn’t kiss.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS  over a year ago

Horsham

I enjoy kissing, but wouldn't force someone to kiss me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No kissing is like a cherry bakewell without the cherry

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By *allen Angels CplCouple  over a year ago

North East leicestershire

Definitely do now, on our first mfm meet we didn't kiss but subsequent meets we have and its far better.

Kissing is a great start and a real turn on if they are a good kisser x

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By *im67Man  over a year ago

London

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By *reestylingWoman  over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Kissing is part and parcel of the whole passionate experience. Yes Please x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Kissing is part and parcel of the whole passionate experience. Yes Please x"

what she says!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Kissing is part and parcel of the whole passionate experience. Yes Please x"

Agreed

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By *valanche1001Man  over a year ago

Leeds

Absolutely, never under stood this ‘kissing is too personal’ malarkey. I mean I’m up to my nuts in your missus, how much more personal does it get

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I demand

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By *orthern StarsCouple  over a year ago

Durham

Us. If there's no kissing then you're not getting any closer.

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By *erfectman122Man  over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Is it not mandatory if the chemistry is there

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We Lurve kissing eachother. But the reason is because of the emotional connection.

Kissing someone that we don't really know is a massive turn Off. Eugh "

I'm assuming when you first met you didn't really know each other?

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By *aizyWoman  over a year ago

west midlands

It's a must for me, love kissing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I do enjoy a passionate snog, I must say

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Kissing is a must for me... can always tell a lot from a kiss.

Jess x

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By *arleycplCouple  over a year ago

Leyburn

KIssing is an absolut must for both of us

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Me. Always.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan  over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"Me. Always. "

Me too.

Well, not literally. I don’t insist, like demand. I just wouldn’t get as far as arranging to meet someone who wasn’t already dying to kiss me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’d be happy with a social that ended with kissing at the minute lol

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By *DW1983Man  over a year ago

Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

Insist?

Never.

But do I enjoy it? Yes, love it if it's something we're both into.

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By *assyBangBangWoman  over a year ago

St Helens

I need to be able to kiss, it doesn’t really feel right to do it without. I need some of that build up and passion a kiss can bring.

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By *ingerie whoreTV/TS  over a year ago

kirk hammerton


"I need to be able to kiss, it doesn’t really feel right to do it without. I need some of that build up and passion a kiss can bring."
pucker up xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Oh god - Kissing big lips! Yes please!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Maybe the first sign of sexual connection.

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By *BootyfulDayWoman  over a year ago

If I like the person and want to then yes…..lots of kisses please

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By *ingerie whoreTV/TS  over a year ago

kirk hammerton


"If I like the person and want to then yes…..lots of kisses please "
mwah x

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By *hesexpeopleCouple  over a year ago

s wales


"If anyone insisted on anything they wouldn't get anything from me."

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well! If you insist on kissing……

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By *hotographer4youMan  over a year ago

southport

Always

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By *alentedfMan  over a year ago

Near Newbury

Kissing pure mutual pleasure

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By *hil most chillMan  over a year ago

South East & Europe

It's very important. Passionate kissing makes everything else flow so much better

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If anyone insisted on anything they wouldn't get anything from me.

Absolutely "

A lot totally ban it which adds a slight tension to a meet IMHO. I understand if people aren't happy to fully commit or are very new but those would be the meets we'd definitely not repeat.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS  over a year ago

Chichester

I am not worried either way. Kissing is cool but it’s not essential for me to fuck randoms , certainly wouldn’t deter me from a meet

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Love kissing

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By *oiluvfunMan  over a year ago

Penrith

There's no connection without kissing

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By *dwalu2Couple  over a year ago

Bristol


"If anyone insisted on anything they wouldn't get anything from me.

Absolutely

A lot totally ban it which adds a slight tension to a meet IMHO. I understand if people aren't happy to fully commit or are very new but those would be the meets we'd definitely not repeat."

If it’s going to cause tension, surely you wouldn’t be meeting?

Kissing is implicit for 90% of swingers - if someone didn’t want to kiss on a meet we’d expect it to be explicitly stated on profile or in messaging before any thoughts of meeting we’re discussed.

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By *W_RedMan  over a year ago

Manchester

I would never insist on it but it definitely enhances the experience. Love some passionate kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Kissing is part of the foreplay the deeper the kiss the better the night

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By *ames5169Man  over a year ago

Birmingham

100% yes xx so arousing with the right person in the right environment xx

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By *ames5169Man  over a year ago

Birmingham


"Me. Always. "

If you insist !! Xx

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple  over a year ago

Cambridgeshire


"If anyone insisted on anything they wouldn't get anything from me.

Absolutely "

I think "insist" was a poor choice of words, because obviously you can't insist on anything.

But what you can reasonably do is say "sorry, but in that case it's not for me".

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By *icebigchopperMan  over a year ago

Hampshire

I don’t insist on it, but I do enjoy kissing

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By *andb69Couple  over a year ago

leeds


"If anyone insisted on anything they wouldn't get anything from me.

Absolutely

A lot totally ban it which adds a slight tension to a meet IMHO. I understand if people aren't happy to fully commit or are very new but those would be the meets we'd definitely not repeat.

If it’s going to cause tension, surely you wouldn’t be meeting?

Kissing is implicit for 90% of swingers - if someone didn’t want to kiss on a meet we’d expect it to be explicitly stated on profile or in messaging before any thoughts of meeting we’re discussed."

An interesting perspective, but over the past ten years our swinging has been principally in clubs, and after hundreds of club visits, each time playing in threesomes and moresomes, not one single man has tried to kiss me (although I have happily shared some long sessions with other women).

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By *dwalu2Couple  over a year ago

Bristol


"If anyone insisted on anything they wouldn't get anything from me.

Absolutely

A lot totally ban it which adds a slight tension to a meet IMHO. I understand if people aren't happy to fully commit or are very new but those would be the meets we'd definitely not repeat.

If it’s going to cause tension, surely you wouldn’t be meeting?

Kissing is implicit for 90% of swingers - if someone didn’t want to kiss on a meet we’d expect it to be explicitly stated on profile or in messaging before any thoughts of meeting we’re discussed.

An interesting perspective, but over the past ten years our swinging has been principally in clubs, and after hundreds of club visits, each time playing in threesomes and moresomes, not one single man has tried to kiss me (although I have happily shared some long sessions with other women). "

Yes, can understand in a club it’s different, because it’s not a very intimate environment (or hasn’t been in our experience!) - the above was referring to private meets.

And of course in a club, agreeing expectations are underway implicitly from the outset.

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple  over a year ago

Cambridgeshire


"after hundreds of club visits, each time playing in threesomes and moresomes, not one single man has tried to kiss me "

And how do you feel about that?

I've kissed with plenty of women in clubs, and Em had kissed with plenty of men.

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By *andb69Couple  over a year ago

leeds


"after hundreds of club visits, each time playing in threesomes and moresomes, not one single man has tried to kiss me

And how do you feel about that?

I've kissed with plenty of women in clubs, and Em had kissed with plenty of men."

I love kissing other women, but for me kissing another man is associated with intimacy, closeness and romance. I have all those things from my partner and don't need or want them from another man. We swing to fulfill our sexual fantasies, and they don't involve closeness, intimacy and romance.

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple  over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

So it may well be that the guys you were with picked up on your reluctance in some way.

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By *dwalu2Couple  over a year ago

Bristol


"after hundreds of club visits, each time playing in threesomes and moresomes, not one single man has tried to kiss me

And how do you feel about that?

I've kissed with plenty of women in clubs, and Em had kissed with plenty of men.

I love kissing other women, but for me kissing another man is associated with intimacy, closeness and romance. I have all those things from my partner and don't need or want them from another man. We swing to fulfill our sexual fantasies, and they don't involve closeness, intimacy and romance. "

Meets without intimacy would be a complete turnoff for us…but of course it depends on what it means to you.

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By *ir-spunk-alotMan  over a year ago

Southern England

If they dont kiss then its a no from me.

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By *IG G77Man  over a year ago

GATLEY

Being intimate is paramount

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I absolutely love kissing & lots of it!!… It’s all part of the build up & foreplay, along with the flirting & cheeky innuendo’s! It’s a definite MUST for me!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Kissing is an absolute must, Marie's biggest turn on.

No kissing = no play x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I absolutely love kissing & lots of it!!… It’s all part of the build up & foreplay, along with the flirting & cheeky innuendo’s! It’s a definite MUST for me!! "

Totally agree x

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By *andb69Couple  over a year ago

leeds


"after hundreds of club visits, each time playing in threesomes and moresomes, not one single man has tried to kiss me

And how do you feel about that?

I've kissed with plenty of women in clubs, and Em had kissed with plenty of men.

I love kissing other women, but for me kissing another man is associated with intimacy, closeness and romance. I have all those things from my partner and don't need or want them from another man. We swing to fulfill our sexual fantasies, and they don't involve closeness, intimacy and romance.

Meets without intimacy would be a complete turnoff for us…but of course it depends on what it means to you."

To me intimacy is synonymous with love and closeness, not with raunch and sexual fulfillment with strangers or near strangers.I can have both with my partner, but not with strangers.

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By *yronMan  over a year ago

grangemouth

I don't insist on it, but I do enjoy it.

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By *urora1912Woman  over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Kissing is a must for me, no kiss no meet

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman  over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"I love kissing "

I find it strange when people don't

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By *heshireguy69Man  over a year ago

saddleworth

Nothing happens without kissing. Love a passionate snog ??

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