Yep we get an awful lot on a daily basis, the majority of which are the ol “ hey” or “ what are you looking for” type messages which get completely ignored.
Will always reply to polite well written messages but just can’t be bothered reply to the wanking dead |
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"Had 133 NEW messages in a 12 hour period. Any females/couples seeing similar and if so how do you handle it?"
Message filters and brutal deleting. If a message doesn't hold our interest or we're a bit sus about it - delete! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yep we get an awful lot on a daily basis, the majority of which are the ol “ hey” or “ what are you looking for” type messages which get completely ignored.
Will always reply to polite well written messages but just can’t be bothered reply to the wanking dead "
Love that advice wanking dead brought a chuckle  |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
Set your filters so that you only get people in your preferred age range or only people verified etc can message you.
That reduces the amount of mail you get. You can also block messages from all males or from anyone to have a breather. Then you could browse and just message people who interest you. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
somerset |
lets be honest here they are very easy to manage as 90% to 95% are just deleted/blocked due to them being one liners or very poor ..
best way to deal with them is to block those whom you are not interested so they cant keep sending the same rubbish time and time again that way you get to manage things way better..
133 in 12 hours is nothing compared to what alot of others get all it takes is a new pic or something said in forums or the meet sign then boom like a flood gate opening they appear ..
i dont see it as a bad thing like i said use it as a filter and get blocking or you love the attention deep down and do nothing your choice but there are solutions ..
blocking is not rude blocking is use by me as a way to make my fab vists manageable i dont want everyone attention i just want those that are hot (in my eyes) to get in touch ...but then again fab is just a meet finder for me i dont use it to gain attention amongst people ive no interest in i dont use it as a facebook like many do ... |
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Set your filters so that nobody can message you. Search for the people you're interested in and message them. The ones who have already contacted you will still be able to message but you can go through those, respond to who you want to and block the rest |
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Really lockdown your filters
Maybe stop people messaging you all together for a while so you can do the searching, let's face it, probably only 3 of those people have read your profile & be what your looking for the rest will be chuff
It's no wonder couples and single women don't last very long on FAB it's overwhelming and managing your inbox can become a full time job
You're meant to be here for fun not your admin/secretarial skills |
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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago
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"Had 133 NEW messages in a 12 hour period. Any females/couples seeing similar and if so how do you handle it?"
I don't think I have had that many messages in the 5 or more years I have been on this site.  |
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"Had 133 NEW messages in a 12 hour period. Any females/couples seeing similar and if so how do you handle it?"
Had a young lady friend who would get around 500 a day, saw them myself . No wonder she couldn't respond to most. |
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