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Paddle, just sounds better. Flogger is more of a thud, crop I never really enjoyed using, what exactly is that tiny bit of leather flapping about supposed to do? Paddle, just use it gently, it soon raises a colour, and the wriggles it produces, so enticing. I'm not into the more severe side of it though. |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
Sutton |
I prefer floggers, they are more adaptable. You can't sensibly florentine with paddles (that being said "Underworld" has 20 second whip florentining scene).
Floggers falls can range from silk to chain metal and can be and used for different sensations.
I have more floggers than is sensible and I am susceptible to flogger porn (pictures of floggers, though it is rare I don't mind seeing a properly wielded flogger in porn). My favourites are my " not black hawks" mini poi floggers from kabunza, and my "kitten" from Daisy.
I also have different types of paddles, crops and whips.
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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Flogger every time.
The leather tips can be used to caress or sting with no distinguishing movement in the motion.
The impact can be made to sound harder than it acutely is, so anticipation is harder to control and fractionation into subspace is easier to develop.
However, at times a cane is stunning, especially if creating coloured patterns and shapes and overpowering conscious everyday thought. |
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"Paddle, just sounds better. Flogger is more of a thud, crop I never really enjoyed using, what exactly is that tiny bit of leather flapping about supposed to do? Paddle, just use it gently, it soon raises a colour, and the wriggles it produces, so enticing. I'm not into the more severe side of it though."
I beg to differ on the crop. I ended up on a St. Andrew's Cross at my first kink party. The Domme 'inducting' me left some pretty impressive marks.
Personally impact play does nothing when used on me. But my wife loves floggers, and it's just as well I'm a bit of a sadist too .
But a hand is always the best. |
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"Paddle, just sounds better. Flogger is more of a thud, crop I never really enjoyed using, what exactly is that tiny bit of leather flapping about supposed to do? Paddle, just use it gently, it soon raises a colour, and the wriggles it produces, so enticing. I'm not into the more severe side of it though.
I beg to differ on the crop. I ended up on a St. Andrew's Cross at my first kink party. The Domme 'inducting' me left some pretty impressive marks.
Personally impact play does nothing when used on me. But my wife loves floggers, and it's just as well I'm a bit of a sadist too .
But a hand is always the best."
I do like a hand - skin on skin contact has something none of the above has!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally my favourite is the flogger. I like a heavy suede one that packs a punch. Sir can florentine and the alternate thwacks reduce me to a puddle! We've practised quite extreme BDSM a long time meaning marks etc aren't a huge factor now. Flogging takes me to subspace very quickly. We do use canes and paddles as well though! |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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"Paddle, just sounds better. Flogger is more of a thud, crop I never really enjoyed using, what exactly is that tiny bit of leather flapping about supposed to do? Paddle, just use it gently, it soon raises a colour, and the wriggles it produces, so enticing. I'm not into the more severe side of it though.
I beg to differ on the crop. I ended up on a St. Andrew's Cross at my first kink party. The Domme 'inducting' me left some pretty impressive marks.
Personally impact play does nothing when used on me. But my wife loves floggers, and it's just as well I'm a bit of a sadist too .
But a hand is always the best."
Yes agreed, hand spanking trumps all!  |
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All three! they all offer different impact feeling and sensation. I would start with a bare hand, then use a leather flogger, then my suede flogger for a more thuddy impact, then back to the hand. Add some ice for a different sensation and to bring the blood up to the surface, then a leather paddle, followed by a wooden paddle. Stop for more ice and a feather tickler, then finish with the crop and cane.
Once the bum is nicely reddened, use candle wax to complete the session. |
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"Paddle, just sounds better. Flogger is more of a thud, crop I never really enjoyed using, what exactly is that tiny bit of leather flapping about supposed to do? Paddle, just use it gently, it soon raises a colour, and the wriggles it produces, so enticing. I'm not into the more severe side of it though.
I beg to differ on the crop. I ended up on a St. Andrew's Cross at my first kink party. The Domme 'inducting' me left some pretty impressive marks.
Personally impact play does nothing when used on me. But my wife loves floggers, and it's just as well I'm a bit of a sadist too .
But a hand is always the best.
Yes agreed, hand spanking trumps all! "
Another vote for hand spanking!
I do like the impact and sound of a paddle though, and floggers and crops are great for a nice sensual tease while I'm enjoying the restraints and blindfold
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Interesting discussion. Looks like flogger is the winner reading the comments and would probably agree overall as so much flexibility on size and type but why choose? Love them all and all have a place. Crop is favourite for using while fucking as easy to get power into short sharp strokes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends on what your using it, a flogger is more playful a paddle is more for disapline, I use all but always respect the boundries of the play partner, if they like the crop but not the paddle then thats whats used.
But all have their purpose, and some leave better marks than others |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are all sorts out there, so a simple choice is not trivial. I like my kangaroo flogger, but you can't go too far wrong with a paddle either. T certainly doesn't complain if she's being paddled while being fucked . I've also made floggers out of rope in the past, kind of like knitting for the kinky!
Let's here it for the trusty old belt too ... anyone?
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My favourite and conversely My Girls least favourite is a heavy leather spanker. Smooth flat leather on one side, rubber tyre tread pattern on the other side. It's so well made and weighty. I love to look that comes across her face when she see's it come out and knows she pushed her bad behavior too far. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm just starting on my impact play journey and discovering that I really bloody like it. The flogger is definitely my fave though "
It leaves nice marks and redness xx |
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