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During a recent club meet, we were chatting to another couple and asked them if they had told any of their ‘Vanilla’ friends about being swingers.
Their response was very interesting as they stated that they didn’t really have any friends outside of the lifestyle any more.
I just wondered how typical this was across the swinging community. |
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My friends know… but only as I’m the only “single” and was forever asked I should find someone… easier to tell them what I do on the weekends I don’t go out    |
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"During a recent club meet, we were chatting to another couple and asked them if they had told any of their ‘Vanilla’ friends about being swingers.
Their response was very interesting as they stated that they didn’t really have any friends outside of the lifestyle any more.
I just wondered how typical this was across the swinging community."
Depends on what people call friends. They may have colleagues they are friendly with, but they may consider 'friends' as people they fuck. |
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My swinging lifestyle and vanilla lifestyle are totally separated, they couldn’t possibly combine, although I have said thr wrong thing in the wrong company once or twice which was embarrassing and eyebrow raising !! |
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OP = do you think they meant All thier current friends are part of the Swinging scene?
Or that None of thier friends are Swingers & they keep it separate?
our take on it, is that people seem be Completely Open about it or its a Definite Secret from friends/family. Not many are a bit of both  |
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I J told my bestmate he went green and ask are we splitting up lol we said hell no we just like to see each other playing and fucking others lol H told her bestmate now everyone in our town knows what we was are doing H soon told her to fuck off  |
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I do this just for me although I do tend to just chat with many friends I have made on here these days.
Away in 'real life' no one knows I;m on here except a couple I met through here and used to meet regularly but that side has fizzled out now so we're all just 'mates' and meet up maybe 2 or 3 times a year purely socially. From their point of view only her sister knows we used to have fun together. None of them are on here. |
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"I J told my bestmate he went green and ask are we splitting up lol we said hell no we just like to see each other playing and fucking others lol H told her bestmate now everyone in our town knows what we was are doing H soon told her to fuck off "
Sorry this happened to you. It's so much worse when you think they are a close friend but then they blab your business to everyone. |
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"During a recent club meet, we were chatting to another couple and asked them if they had told any of their ‘Vanilla’ friends about being swingers.
Their response was very interesting as they stated that they didn’t really have any friends outside of the lifestyle any more.
I just wondered how typical this was across the swinging community."
Cammy laughs about it with the girls in work. The girls have a laugh. One of them who is very sexy looking and has a fit husband has arranged a night out with us. |
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We’re quite open about it, though wish we hadn’t told one vanilla couple, the husband is always trying to angle something to happen, his wife isn’t interested and it gets awkward sometimes when we’re with them |
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At a works’ dinner in January, the wife of a colleague was flirting like fuck with me, at the dinner table and on the dancefloor, and when I had a little sit down for a rest and drink, he leaned over to me and said “She’s a lot of fun, but you couldn’t handle her”…….if only he knew what I get up to in my ‘other life’ lol |
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Find it very strange that they had no friends outside the lifestyle , for us swinging is about leaving everyday life for a night and enjoying the freedom ,
I think swinging should make you feel nervy and excited ,if the norm is swinging than i believe youve lost a big part of swinging x |
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"During a recent club meet, we were chatting to another couple and asked them if they had told any of their ‘Vanilla’ friends about being swingers.
Their response was very interesting as they stated that they didn’t really have any friends outside of the lifestyle any more.
I just wondered how typical this was across the swinging community."
Not very in my experience  |
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