So as a couple looking for a female, single men are just not on our agenda. However, we have heard from a few, polite and respectful gents who differ from the ignorant gits who bombard us with the usual shit. Its been quite the turn on to hear what they want to do or would do, but put in a decent and non-pushy way.
Basically, to all the single blokes out there.....be the better versions of your selves, you may get somewhere! Or you might not but make new friends instead along the way!
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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no guys carry on being you as being you is a great filter on its own im more than happy to see the rubbish as its easier to add to the block list rather than finding out when you meet ..
same goes for all as said not gender specific |
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"The exact same could be said to couples on here,or women who ignore others preferences it's not gender specific. "
Absolutely spot on. I get plenty stupid approaches from couples. It’s fashionable to bash the single men in here however |
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By *red333Man
over a year ago
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"So as a couple looking for a female, single men are just not on our agenda. However, we have heard from a few, polite and respectful gents who differ from the ignorant gits who bombard us with the usual shit. Its been quite the turn on to hear what they want to do or would do, but put in a decent and non-pushy way.
Basically, to all the single blokes out there.....be the better versions of your selves, you may get somewhere! Or you might not but make new friends instead along the way!
S"
I am the better version of myself already  |
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over a year ago
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I think I won't be a better version of me, I'll just be me that way when you like the person you text, meet and play with I won't have to be someone that I'm not normally. Hope this makes sense  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The exact same could be said to couples on here,or women who ignore others preferences it's not gender specific. "
Agreed! Couples are just as bad as single men for ignoring preferences. I had to block them entirely! |
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Just trying put a positve note on a group that gets slammed. So i will try again.
May EVERYONE be a better version of themselves, so you get what you want out of this site without offending anyone
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"So as a couple looking for a female, single men are just not on our agenda. However, we have heard from a few, polite and respectful gents who differ from the ignorant gits who bombard us with the usual shit. Its been quite the turn on to hear what they want to do or would do, but put in a decent and non-pushy way.
Basically, to all the single blokes out there.....be the better versions of your selves, you may get somewhere! Or you might not but make new friends instead along the way!
S"
Although I get what your saying (as also part of a couple we see the same) from the point of veiw as an individual male on here I rather find the last bit very patronising if I'm perfectly honest  |
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"So as a couple looking for a female, single men are just not on our agenda. However, we have heard from a few, polite and respectful gents who differ from the ignorant gits who bombard us with the usual shit. Its been quite the turn on to hear what they want to do or would do, but put in a decent and non-pushy way.
Basically, to all the single blokes out there.....be the better versions of your selves, you may get somewhere! Or you might not but make new friends instead along the way!
S"
Manners cost nothing.
Thank you for raising the profile of this topic.
There are genuine polite guys on this site |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So as a couple looking for a female, single men are just not on our agenda. However, we have heard from a few, polite and respectful gents who differ from the ignorant gits who bombard us with the usual shit. Its been quite the turn on to hear what they want to do or would do, but put in a decent and non-pushy way.
Basically, to all the single blokes out there.....be the better versions of your selves, you may get somewhere! Or you might not but make new friends instead along the way!
S"
Thank you!!
Wished Fabs had more filter options! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So as a couple looking for a female, single men are just not on our agenda. However, we have heard from a few, polite and respectful gents who differ from the ignorant gits who bombard us with the usual shit. Its been quite the turn on to hear what they want to do or would do, but put in a decent and non-pushy way.
Basically, to all the single blokes out there.....be the better versions of your selves, you may get somewhere! Or you might not but make new friends instead along the way!
S
Although I get what your saying (as also part of a couple we see the same) from the point of veiw as an individual male on here I rather find the last bit very patronising if I'm perfectly honest "
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"Just trying put a positve note on a group that gets slammed. So i will try again.
May EVERYONE be a better version of themselves, so you get what you want out of this site without offending anyone
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By (user no longer on site)
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I am glad that people appreciate it’s not all men and just just men who can be arrogant. The attitude you get off some couples can be just as irritable.
Appreciate that not everyone wants a “single” Male but I’ve had some pretty desperate single women message and show the same rude attitude….
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"Agreed! Couples are just as bad as single men for ignoring preferences. I had to block them entirely! "
Actually they're worse. Guessing a lot of them are single guys or the male half of the couple and the female half doesn't get involved.
But rough estimates would be that of the messages from single guy, about 75% are one word, no profile, no pics rubbish. However we'd say that closer to 90% of messages from couples are even worse.
Maybe they think that having a cock and tits gives them a free pass.
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"So as a couple looking for a female, single men are just not on our agenda. However, we have heard from a few, polite and respectful gents who differ from the ignorant gits who bombard us with the usual shit. Its been quite the turn on to hear what they want to do or would do, but put in a decent and non-pushy way.
Basically, to all the single blokes out there.....be the better versions of your selves, you may get somewhere! Or you might not but make new friends instead along the way!
S"
I appreciate you made this thread with good intentions, and thank you for that
For me personally, I have enjoyed my time in here over the last 10 years, and continue to use Fab to meet likeminded people, and make friends along the way. 
If you could give some direction to the clubs about how they treat single guys, that would be more appreciated by me |
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