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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago
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"I do... I'm just turned off by fat people 
Each to their own and so nicely put.  "
Quite.
For us it's about how a person carries their personality. Size and shape goes out the window once the desire to jump someone's bones has kicked in.
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Yes I check photos and then laugh at the word Athletic or Average ticked on the profile.
Funny sometimes ..an athletic bear 5'8 tall and the worlds strongest man contender
average hmm wonder what that covers..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do look at size...not the first thing, if the message is good and they seem to have intelligence and a sense of humour, that is sexier to me....a lovely smile goes a long way.... I actually prefer a meatier man....cant do with feeling bones on a skinny man or woman.....
Just my preference...as some have put...each to their own..xxx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us it's about how a person carries their personality. Size and shape goes out the window once the desire to jump someone's bones has kicked in.
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100 % agree with the above |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i go for slim.. i like slender not muscular.. thats my thing
im here for NSA and that for me doesnt make a personality shine over the physical attraction
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we look at body types.
the pictures are the bit that cant lie though
nik likes muscles but there seems to be a shortage on here
i like slim women or athletic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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nik likes muscles but there seems to be a shortage on here
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Not particularly common I'd say, rather than a shortage - I see guys who are athletic looking and those who are clearly steroid users popping up in the gallery quite frequently. |
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I look at the body types when searching, but they are not always accurate, so hopefully, there is a picture too to give me an extra clue.
If the profile has no pictures, then if the body type states something that I am not looking for, then I will pass it by.
I know what turns me on and what I like, so I go looking for that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looking at peoples profile pics it's often the case that like attracts like.
This can be seen many times in everyday life as well.
A regular request on profiles is "looking for similar". 
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"I've classed myself as curvy, well I hope I've got that right."
Curby is a strange one, some women use it if they are 'bigger' than average, whilst some it if they have a slim figure shaped like an hourglass, because I suppose the curves are there. Thats why I always check pics to see how it is being used. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've classed myself as curvy, well I hope I've got that right.
Curby is a strange one, some women use it if they are 'bigger' than average, whilst some it if they have a slim figure shaped like an hourglass, because I suppose the curves are there. Thats why I always check pics to see how it is being used."
Well I have an hourglass figure....just all the sand has fallen to the bottom  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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M is overweight and im just fat lol. But we have a warning so to speak on our profile stating this.
I was asked once why we have that on our profile as at the end of the day people will meet of they want to and looks/size shouldn't be an issue. My point was people will always look skin deep, they don't like what they see they aren't gonna bother giving the personality of the person a try. We are quite a friendly couple and get on with everyone. But if everyone did the same then it would be a boring place.
Personally i like my men (and women) to be curvy. As I am scared I'm going to hurt someone skinny. But the majority of meets have always been thinner men and curvy ladies and I message people to see if I could get on with them then I look at pics to see how they look. But that doesn't stop me meeting them if I like the sound of their conversation
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to be attracted to the face first and foremost the rest kind of follows, but also I tend to get to like people from personalities too x.each to there own isn't it x |
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think wot generally transpires on these type of threads is that peoples interpretation of a description ie 'curvy' seems to vary quite drastically and for that reason i tend not to take too much notice of how a person describes themselves but look at the pics |
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"I've classed myself as curvy, well I hope I've got that right.
Curby is a strange one, some women use it if they are 'bigger' than average, whilst some it if they have a slim figure shaped like an hourglass, because I suppose the curves are there. Thats why I always check pics to see how it is being used.
Well I have an hourglass figure....just all the sand has fallen to the bottom "
I lol'ed at that
Love that shape by the say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've classed myself as curvy, well I hope I've got that right.
Curby is a strange one, some women use it if they are 'bigger' than average, whilst some it if they have a slim figure shaped like an hourglass, because I suppose the curves are there. Thats why I always check pics to see how it is being used.
Well I have an hourglass figure....just all the sand has fallen to the bottom
I lol'ed at that
Love that shape by the say"
Haha ty, I say that all the time, but it's true |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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To be honest I dont look at body type I dont really have a preference its more about the person (the whole package) and if theres chemistry and an attraction .....and if they dont call the cops on me for harassment..thats a bonus  |
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"I have to be attracted to the face first and foremost the rest kind of follows, but also I tend to get to like people from personalities too x.each to there own isn't it x "
Me too, if I don't find face attractive I'll not be interested and I expect same back, if they don't fancy me, what's the point? Chemistry only happens when there's an attraction on both sides imo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Body type is not the first thing I look at, I like a handsome face and an intelligent mind.
I like my partners build, soft tummied with strong arms and muscular thighs. I'm not usually attracted to very slim men, but I've met a guy who was recently and he was very lov ely, so its not something that's set in stone for me. I would say ideally a man with a bit of meat on him, strong hands, arms and thighs, one that looks as if he could manhandle you and not break in half |
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I like tall and muscular and say so in the first line of my profile.
But I am frequently amazed at guys who think they fit the bill! Or who say that I don't really mean it, do I! 
The instances when I have changed my preferences are generally when I have met someone in a club and been enticed by their personality. But when meeting through a website looks will always win out for me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to be attracted to the face first and foremost the rest kind of follows, but also I tend to get to like people from personalities too x.each to there own isn't it x
Me too, if I don't find face attractive I'll not be interested and I expect same back, if they don't fancy me, what's the point? Chemistry only happens when there's an attraction on both sides imo"
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By *aulusMan
over a year ago
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Personality is the main thing I go for, as a connection there is the sexiest thing, but if pushed on it I would have to say my favourite is for a curvy, cuddly lady. Mind you I am a bit cuddly myself!! So I think there is a lot of like going for like.
As the song says - 'I like bug butts and cannot lie'.
Skinny ladys also very welcome though!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I definitely need to be attracted to the face firstly. Then body wise I like anything as long as they aren't too slim or too big. Anything in between is fine for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like really muscly guys, just doesn't do anything for me. To look at I love slender, tall guys but if I'm going to have sex with someone, personality wins out and I'm past caring about body type
As I'm curvy, yes yes all subjective I know - a politer way of saying fat perhaps? Well anyway, as a size 18, I know I'm not everyone's cup of tea but it hasn't done me any harm really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many of you look at body types when you look for meets and what do you look for. "
nope, just the overall picture and attitude, then chat and see if they are on the same wavelength really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well both individuals need to be attracted to each other in some sense. So, body shape may not necessarily be the first thing you think about but it is definately ticking away in the back of your head i think..subconsciously.
I aint no psychologist so may not be true lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well both individuals need to be attracted to each other in some sense. So, body shape may not necessarily be the first thing you think about but it is definately ticking away in the back of your head i think..subconsciously.
I aint no psychologist so may not be true lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont like skinny men or fat men, anything inbetween is fine tho"
Nice face for me first of all, then personality/sense of humour/intelligence. All of these come before body shape when I decide whether to meet someone, but yes it is still a factor. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First thing I look for is eyes, then bum in the physical sense. Personality plays the most important factor, I like to have fun, a laugh and a joke. If you can't make me laugh then there's no getting in my bed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm under no illusions about my body...how I see it is different to how others _iew it...I asked some of my previous playmates how they describe me knowing they would be brutally honest and curvy came out of all their mouths....my personality gets me laid more than my looks....I'm ok with that cos I know they really enjoying my company and not just the fuck... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We struggled with this because I know athletic typically means slim and toned for men... Well hubby is muscle bound but as a strong man is very big and broad but putting large to us indicated fat lol. I also started out as ample but now changed to curvy as I've lost weight and it seems curvy is quite commonly used! So where I thought of myself as ample before, I needn't have. |
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"First thing I look for is eyes, then bum in the physical sense. Personality plays the most important factor, I like to have fun, a laugh and a joke. If you can't make me laugh then there's no getting in my bed"
That is so right when meeting in person ,however on a website we all have to use subjective "cut off" points whether that's body shape or more importantly no one has yet mentioned AGE! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many of you look at body types when you look for meets and what do you look for. "
Absolutely. Don't want to be searching through fat for the right bits. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"First thing I look for is eyes, then bum in the physical sense. Personality plays the most important factor, I like to have fun, a laugh and a joke. If you can't make me laugh then there's no getting in my bed
That is so right when meeting in person ,however on a website we all have to use subjective "cut off" points whether that's body shape or more importantly no one has yet mentioned AGE!"
Probably because the OP asked about body types |
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