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"Is it me or nowadays it’s hard to find cougars into younger lads? What’s people’s opinion on this? "
Perhaps try a website that is dedicated to finding women that consider themselves as 'cougars'?
As opposed to a swingers site
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"Is it me or nowadays it’s hard to find cougars into younger lads? What’s people’s opinion on this?
Perhaps try a website that is dedicated to finding women that consider themselves as 'cougars'?
As opposed to a swingers site
KM"
And can you suggest such a website .. cougars are defo the best  |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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OP..
1. Cougars are individual people with feelings.
2. It's not exactly good form to he on one website, and ask about other websites. Perhaps you could do your own Internet search?
Good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One dilemma I face is that I don’t accommodate and young men tend not to either anymore. That puts me off getting started most of the time as I want a regular play thing. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
somerset |
"i love younger guys but i wont answer to anyone who trys to call me a ''cougar'' or ''older woman'' or ''milf'' .. fuck me because you want to fuck me not because of a age kink"
and to add i fuck guys because they are hot i dont look for their age just hgappens to be that some are younger |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it me or nowadays it’s hard to find cougars into younger lads? What’s people’s opinion on this? "
My opinion on this is that maybe you should try joining a site aimed at cougars and younger lads, they are out there…probably not as easy to find on here
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I think this is a reflection of the permanent problem, of single men being in huge abundance, whatever type of woman they are looking to find.
Add to that, that many swingers are deterred from men who may be the same age as their kids.
Follow all the advice for single men struggling, asked by hundreds of single men.
Those of us that like younger guys are here but we'll often look out for those who really stand out, from great investment in their profiles and pics. |
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By *andJDubaiCouple
over a year ago
Dubai, with visits to Glasgow, Edinburgh and London |
We enjoy playing with swinging meets with an age gap, older or younger.
Male, female or couples and couples with their own age gap.
The search function is very helpful for you to set that age and reach out to people. Just not sure anyone especially on a UK based site would use the label cougar |
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"Is it me or nowadays it’s hard to find cougars into younger lads? What’s people’s opinion on this? "
'nowadays'? We have been here for a long time and haven't noticed any major change. Can you explain what time you are comparing your recent experience to? |
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"Is it me or nowadays it’s hard to find cougars into younger lads? What’s people’s opinion on this?
Perhaps try a website that is dedicated to finding women that consider themselves as 'cougars'?
As opposed to a swingers site
KM"
Such as ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i love younger guys but i wont answer to anyone who trys to call me a ''cougar'' or ''older woman'' or ''milf'' .. fuck me because you want to fuck me not because of a age kink
and to add i fuck guys because they are hot i dont look for their age just hgappens to be that some are younger"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it me or nowadays it’s hard to find cougars into younger lads? What’s people’s opinion on this?
'nowadays'? We have been here for a long time and haven't noticed any major change. Can you explain what time you are comparing your recent experience to?"
He’s 20 lol guessing he doesn’t have anything to compare it to! |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Is it me or nowadays it’s hard to find cougars into younger lads? What’s people’s opinion on this? "
Put on your big boy pants, go to a club, be clean, smart, polite, respectful and engage in intelligent conversation and you might get lucky. But please don't tell a woman you want to fuck her because she's old, and don't call her a cougar: it's a derogatory term coined in Canada to describe d*unken old slappers who grope young men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're more than happy to meet younger guys. Like most guys on Fab, there's a tiny percentage that are good looking, don't have dick pics as their profile pic or tonnes of them all over their profile, can construct a decent message and actually read our profile to see what we're looking for before messaging us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe somebody could host a club night
There are cubs n cougar nights in clubs….never been to one though although I do go to clubs regularly "
There was BC, but I'll have another look
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford... (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"What is the definition of a cougar? Could I be one? I’m not 40 yet but to someone I am an older lady "
Do you ever get Deja vu here... (deep breath...)
So, based on a woman's age, this scale classifies women (who prey on younger men for their sexual appetite) as felines.
The scale is as follows:
Age 0-12: Housecat
Age 13-17: Bobcat
Age 18-21: Wildcat
Age 22-29: Lynx
Age 30-39: Puma
Age 40-49: Cougar
Age 50-59: Jaguar
Age 60-68: Panther
Age 69: Pussycat
Age 70-79: Cheetah
Age 80-89: Leopard
Age 90-99: Tiger
Age 100+: Lioness
Think we can rule out house cat and Bob cat  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What is the definition of a cougar? Could I be one? I’m not 40 yet but to someone I am an older lady
Do you ever get Deja vu here... (deep breath...)
So, based on a woman's age, this scale classifies women (who prey on younger men for their sexual appetite) as felines.
The scale is as follows:
Age 0-12: Housecat
Age 13-17: Bobcat
Age 18-21: Wildcat
Age 22-29: Lynx
Age 30-39: Puma
Age 40-49: Cougar
Age 50-59: Jaguar
Age 60-68: Panther
Age 69: Pussycat
Age 70-79: Cheetah
Age 80-89: Leopard
Age 90-99: Tiger
Age 100+: Lioness
Think we can rule out house cat and Bob cat "
Ooh I'm a panther  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are tons, but if you're actually messaging them calling them a cougar or an old/older woman you'll probably just get ignored."
Why does Fromage have me blocked? Lol weird |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are tons, but if you're actually messaging them calling them a cougar or an old/older woman you'll probably just get ignored.
Why does Fromage have me blocked? Lol weird "
She has me blocked to haha |
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I just like other ladies on here do not like to be refered to as your kink. We are human beings with feelings and not just a mechanical aid to get your rocks off. I have always prefered older guys but i am not ageist in the slightest so would not rule out playing with a younger guy in a mf meet sinario. But 1-1 id not really search for another guy unless my sir and partner rolled in to one john asked me to do so. Stop treating ladies age as your kink and you might just find what you are after! Joanne |
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"How come so many people are offended by the term "cougar" when all it is, is a lady who's into younger men."
That might be all you see it as, but the term has a different origin.
It was originally used as a put-down for older women who would go to bars and go home with whoever was left at the end of the night. You might find it hard to believe but some women take offence at being labelled as a d*unken old slapper. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always try be polite (to whoever I speak with) and I wouldn't use the term cougar unless the lady has refered to herself as that as I know some do find it offensive!
And I agree alot of younger guys don't help with some messages they send to ladies on here and other sites, like "want to fuck" I mean I know it's a swingers site but come on, have some imagination! Have some fun with it! Ask questions!
Nobody likes recieving a message that just says "hi, how are you"
Just my opinion
Hope everyone is having a good weekend!! |
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