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How do you characterize a swinger.
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By *ohnny-D OP Man
over a year ago
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As a single gent, new to this lifestyle, read comments about Fab
not being a dating site, or for commitment..
Would I be correct in saying swinging is unattached friends who enjoy sex with each other no attachment..
Is it still acceptable to invite opposite,members for a drink towards getting to know and friendship... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I categorize myself as more of a lounge swinger, A bit like Michael Bubbles and Dean Martin. I'm not quite a Jazz swinger or even a soul swinger. I considered myself once a bit of a rock n roll swinger but that was in my youth. |
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My view is that swinging has to involve at least 3 people to qualify otherwise it is just sex with another person and no different than the usual 1-2-1 arrangement. As time has gone on there does seem to be more people using fab for 1-2-1s but that’s understandable.
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For me it’s as much about the social side as the play side. I have swinging friends who are just that, friends, we socialise together in and out of clubs but don’t play with each other.
There’s also friends who I do play with. It’s a lifestyle and attitude towards sex more than anything else in my experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In my opinion, a lot of people on Fab just want to fuck, that's not swinging. Swinging is a lifestyle where people socialise, have fun, swap, have sex etc etc"
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"In my opinion, a lot of people on Fab just want to fuck, that's not swinging. Swinging is a lifestyle where people socialise, have fun, swap, have sex etc etc"
this is our view also ,way better to become good friends and party ??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In my opinion, a lot of people on Fab just want to fuck, that's not swinging. Swinging is a lifestyle where people socialise, have fun, swap, have sex etc etc"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People often think it's about lots of random hook ups. I've had men get quite rude because I won't drop my knickers after a "hey".
I'm here looking for people who I can get on with in the vanilla world, and have earth moving sexy times with. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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depends on the people/person alot of us just want extra sex with a friendship that has its borders and some as you see from the forums want more but dont let the high amount looking for more on the forums kid you its a very very small part of a much bigger scene even the club scene is very small compared to the masses who meet privately its that bulk that want no fuss fun/sex ...
so youll have to judge each differently as we are all very different there are even people looking for forever partners on here ...we are all different |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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"In my opinion, a lot of people on Fab just want to fuck, that's not swinging. Swinging is a lifestyle where people socialise, have fun, swap, have sex etc etc"
yet the majority of swinger dont do socials they just have fun there is no rule to how you swing ultimately swinging is about sex with others that all it is the rest is down to each individual how they get that they are all swingers tho |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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"In my opinion, a lot of people on Fab just want to fuck, that's not swinging. Swinging is a lifestyle where people socialise, have fun, swap, have sex etc etc
yet the majority of swinger dont do socials they just have fun there is no rule to how you swing ultimately swinging is about sex with others that all it is the rest is down to each individual how they get that they are all swingers tho "
just imagine if one weekend every swinging couple and singles wanted to go to a club on that one weekend 99% would not be able to get in as all the clubs would be full in no time the scene has always been way bigger than clubs/socials .... if you go back 30 years there were hardly any clubs there were no socials it was all private meets or if lucky a house party ...the social side has crept in.. back then a house party was rocking with in a hour of getting there now you go to a house party nothing gets going until early hours of the morning
when we started 30+ years ago a social was dogging at locations all around the southwest nearest club was west midlands |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me like to see one man sometimes but then I go to party's for fun with couples and single men there so it definitely depends on how u look at it.
For me think I am a swinger  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a single gent, new to this lifestyle, read comments about Fab
not being a dating site, or for commitment..
Would I be correct in saying swinging is unattached friends who enjoy sex with each other no attachment..
Is it still acceptable to invite opposite,members for a drink towards getting to know and friendship... "
The term “ swing “ cames from the “ goin side to side “( share ) not in a straight line …( closed 1o1 commitment .
Like swap wifes in same room or swap lovers in a club or in seperate meets . So many diversions n styles . Freedoms .
Is a life style like mentioned earlier .
I don’t consider myself a swinger .
First I’m single and I don’t have anyone to swing or share .
Then I’m not really going into the clubs or the swing scene .
Think a real swinger lives the swinger life style .
Being on fabs doesn’t make me a swinger .
Fabs found me on dating app looking for FFM lovers .
I’m on fabs as a free spirit looking for someone nice …
I don’t consider myself a swinger . I’m not even sleeping around . |
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