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As a couple have you ever invited the 3rd party back again?
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We always like to invite them back as the sex will only get better and better as you learn more about eachother. Plus it's not just about the sex with us, if we sleep with someone it generally means we have already built a connection with that person in other more ways than just sex. |
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"We always like to invite them back as the sex will only get better and better as you learn more about eachother. Plus it's not just about the sex with us, if we sleep with someone it generally means we have already built a connection with that person in other more ways than just sex."
Absolutely THIS for us |
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I recently joined a couple as a +1 and we are already planning round 2, I think I did OK. I'm not the prettiest person in the world but I like to think I tickled them both in a place they won't forget in a hurry (figuratively, not literally you pervs) |
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"After having a threesome for the first time have you ever invited the 3rd person back again ? Or just one offs ?"
Never. We do this purely for sex and we fully understand that feelings can naturally develop. We've been clear from the start that we never want to feel like we "want to fuck *that* person". Ie, it's totally fine for her to say "I really want to fuck a guy this week" but it's not acceptable to say "I really want to fuck Joe bloggs this week".
If she ever wanted to start something regular with a guy, that's something we'd discuss, but it's not something we want to happen by accident. |
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"After having a threesome for the first time have you ever invited the 3rd person back again ? Or just one offs ?
Never. We do this purely for sex and we fully understand that feelings can naturally develop. We've been clear from the start that we never want to feel like we "want to fuck *that* person". Ie, it's totally fine for her to say "I really want to fuck a guy this week" but it's not acceptable to say "I really want to fuck Joe bloggs this week".
If she ever wanted to start something regular with a guy, that's something we'd discuss, but it's not something we want to happen by accident. "
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
Brighton |
Repeat visits are soooo much better. You get more relaxed and can push boundaries.
We have been playing on and off with one guy since 2008.
Another guy we played with once a month for over two years, inc weekends away.
There are couples we have played with multiple times over the years, including those we keep bumping into at parties.
It actually becomes easier with “regulars” as you know they are genuine.
Doesn’t mean you don’t occasionally crave the anticipation and excitement of meeting someone new. |
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over a year ago
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"Repeat visits are soooo much better. You get more relaxed and can push boundaries.
We have been playing on and off with one guy since 2008.
Another guy we played with once a month for over two years, inc weekends away.
There are couples we have played with multiple times over the years, including those we keep bumping into at parties.
It actually becomes easier with “regulars” as you know they are genuine.
Doesn’t mean you don’t occasionally crave the anticipation and excitement of meeting someone new. "
Our record is 2016 and still going strong. It’ll take some effort to beat yours…
Always looking for guys we see a few times, though the last few years have been lean. |
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"After having a threesome for the first time have you ever invited the 3rd person back again ? Or just one offs ?"
I have one lovely couple that invite me back often.. they are the only ones I'd feel happy doing that with though x
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
Brighton |
"Repeat visits are soooo much better. You get more relaxed and can push boundaries.
We have been playing on and off with one guy since 2008.
Another guy we played with once a month for over two years, inc weekends away.
There are couples we have played with multiple times over the years, including those we keep bumping into at parties.
It actually becomes easier with “regulars” as you know they are genuine.
Doesn’t mean you don’t occasionally crave the anticipation and excitement of meeting someone new.
Our record is 2016 and still going strong. It’ll take some effort to beat yours…
Always looking for guys we see a few times, though the last few years have been lean."
On and off since 2008. Off when he has a GF and back on when he doesn’t. One GF joined in a few times. He’ll get married eventually and unless she is a swinger (and there is mutual attraction) then it will all be over. |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
Durham |
"After having a threesome for the first time have you ever invited the 3rd person back again ? Or just one offs ?"
Once we have made that connection repeat meets just make fun better. We even invite the 3rd to come stay at ours for a weekend for fun once we get to know them better   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Repeat visits are soooo much better. You get more relaxed and can push boundaries.
We have been playing on and off with one guy since 2008.
Another guy we played with once a month for over two years, inc weekends away.
There are couples we have played with multiple times over the years, including those we keep bumping into at parties.
It actually becomes easier with “regulars” as you know they are genuine.
Doesn’t mean you don’t occasionally crave the anticipation and excitement of meeting someone new.
Our record is 2016 and still going strong. It’ll take some effort to beat yours…
Always looking for guys we see a few times, though the last few years have been lean.
On and off since 2008. Off when he has a GF and back on when he doesn’t. One GF joined in a few times. He’ll get married eventually and unless she is a swinger (and there is mutual attraction) then it will all be over."
That sounds excellent. It’ll be sad when it’s over but I imagine very horny when it is going on |
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I've had the pleasure of having had repeat/multiple meets with a handful of couples - there were also a few others who invited me back, but for various reasons further visits couldn't be arranged... |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
somerset |
yes if the fun is good and we all agree then great one of my regulars ive know for best part of 20 years and another over 10 years ...
some get invited back and become clingy then thats a instant stop and no more |
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Yes! Sadly he's not on here anymore. Hung like a can of monster, down to earth, even took and accidental spurt of cum to leg in good spirit.
Jon from around Doncaster, if your here on a new profile say hi!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After having a threesome for the first time have you ever invited the 3rd person back again ? Or just one offs ?"
Our preference is for repeat meets with the same people…don’t get me wrong, I’ve no doubt there will be one-off’s along the way, but building that relationship with others you click with means the sex will only get better, and you’ll have more fun in each others company
F (Mrs) |
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I've met up with one couple a few times now, and we are all finding the sex improves every time as we know each other better and are more comfortable together.
Different things suit different people, but I like this dynamic we currently have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We like to have people at home so we can relax into meets. It’s good to be able to have coffee or a glass of wine before getting down to it. Loads of possibilities for scenarios at home, too.  |
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Still waiting to find that special mature couple that would enjoy regular soft swing meets , seems impossible in this area ,yet I feel it’s the safest way forward and it’s about friendship as well, most important |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After having a threesome for the first time have you ever invited the 3rd person back again ? Or just one offs ?
Our preference is for repeat meets with the same people…don’t get me wrong, I’ve no doubt there will be one-off’s along the way, but building that relationship with others you click with means the sex will only get better, and you’ll have more fun in each others company
F (Mrs)"
This, for sure. We do if the first meet has gone well because the second is usually a lot better as everyone already feels relaxed and at ease.  |
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