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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How do you see it op? What's your opinion on fuck buddies? "
good question I see it as someone you know well and can call upon for regular sex with no strings or emotional attachment. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"How do you see it op? What's your opinion on fuck buddies?
good question I see it as someone you know well and can call upon for regular sex with no strings or emotional attachment. "
I know some people who feel it also involves going out for the day spending time together with sex at the end but that seems more like dating than just sex.. just my opinion tho.  |
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By *msmithWoman
over a year ago
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i personally prefer the social bit plus sex at the end.. you may call it dating, but i dont, purely on the basis that i dont want a relationship with any of the mens i've met for these 'dates'.. its purely for fun.. some i meet more regular than others, but i think that what swinging is to me as a single girl..
i'm 'dating' these men without the emotional and heavy stuff of a relationship..  |
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Id say it depends on the fb Ive been to some and just had sex (with intimacy)but I prefer to spend time with the person which could be watch a dvd have a drink or go out for the day...... Then kiss,caress and cuddle till part deux/trois etc or even do the candles,music,chocolates,champagne/wine etc and flower thing. It all depends on the individual.......  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"i personally prefer the social bit plus sex at the end.. you may call it dating, but i dont, purely on the basis that i dont want a relationship with any of the mens i've met for these 'dates'.. its purely for fun.. some i meet more regular than others, but i think that what swinging is to me as a single girl..
i'm 'dating' these men without the emotional and heavy stuff of a relationship.. "
I can see how that can work for you and good on you.
but what if the other person was married who wanted a fb does that still seem ok or should they be doing the more social side with there other half... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Id say it depends on the fb Ive been to some and just had sex (with intimacy)but I prefer to spend time with the person which could be watch a dvd have a drink or go out for the day...... Then kiss,caress and cuddle till part deux/trois etc or even do the candles,music,chocolates,champagne/wine etc and flower thing. It all depends on the individual....... "
See that is also my idea of a fuck buddy... I like to get to know them too and see if we can try new things together as I can trust them more |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How do you see it op? What's your opinion on fuck buddies?
good question I see it as someone you know well and can call upon for regular sex with no strings or emotional attachment.
I know some people who feel it also involves going out for the day spending time together with sex at the end but that seems more like dating than just sex.. just my opinion tho. "
Personally, what you have just described would have crossed the line to being Friends with Benefits.
A Fuck Buddy to me is someone you meet up with purely for no-strings sex together, or with others, but there is little or no social side to the relationship.
Just my own perspective. Other perspectives are also available.
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There are two really special men in my life who I would class as fbs. One is married and we see each other for fun and laughs and hopefully in the future go to some socials/clubs. The other I have the wining/dining/flowers/champagne and whole weekends with. I have the best of both worlds, without the hassles of a "relationship". The only down side is I never see them often enough! But when I do, boy is it something else! lol |
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By *msmithWoman
over a year ago
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"fun,sex,laughter.
leave it at that because it gets complicated after and thats no good."
true.. i realise sometimes i tend to think to much about it.. fuck buddies, friends with benefits, dates, swinging, shagging..
at the end of the day, its all about having fun.. if i had fun at a meet, and there's mutual wants of another meet, then why not..
i hate to really want someone, i think it makes me vulnerable.. but if the sex is really that good, then, why not.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"fun,sex,laughter.
leave it at that because it gets complicated after and thats no good.
true.. i realise sometimes i tend to think to much about it.. fuck buddies, friends with benefits, dates, swinging, shagging..
at the end of the day, its all about having fun.. if i had fun at a meet, and there's mutual wants of another meet, then why not..
i hate to really want someone, i think it makes me vulnerable.. but if the sex is really that good, then, why not.. "
you learn that it is best to remove all attachments.
save them for the fun together and leave it there.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"fun,sex,laughter.
leave it at that because it gets complicated after and thats no good.
true.. i realise sometimes i tend to think to much about it.. fuck buddies, friends with benefits, dates, swinging, shagging..
at the end of the day, its all about having fun.. if i had fun at a meet, and there's mutual wants of another meet, then why not..
i hate to really want someone, i think it makes me vulnerable.. but if the sex is really that good, then, why not.. "
fair point and as you say why not indeed.  |
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"Id say it depends on the fb Ive been to some and just had sex (with intimacy)but I prefer to spend time with the person which could be watch a dvd have a drink or go out for the day...... Then kiss,caress and cuddle till part deux/trois etc or even do the candles,music,chocolates,champagne/wine etc and flower thing. It all depends on the individual.......
See that is also my idea of a fuck buddy... I like to get to know them too and see if we can try new things together as I can trust them more "
I agree. There are some good threads on various types of relationship on the forums at the moment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How would u describe a fuck buddy is it someone who you just have regular sex or is it also more social.
just wondered how people see it.  "
We have met people who are both of the above and class themselves as fuck buddies. The word fuckbudy is just that a word or a title and isn't that important. So if you want to use it for you and a friend go for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well I've had the buddies who come shag and leave and the ones who come and talk and be more social alone at mine before having fun, bit of a built with tension and flirting first
Either is fine with me as long as there is no interference into each others lifes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Im not sure
I used to meet a guy regular who i found on here, i met him every week for about 3 months but i didnt class him as a fuck buddie, tho im sure a lot of people would, so i have no idea what i would class as a fuck buddie
If i had to put it into words id say a fuck buddie would be more a friend that i knew from out side swinging that i had sex with, a buddie i fucked??
people i meet thro swinging are just guys i fuck off the net be that once or 10 times and i would not class them as a fuck buddle or a friend with benifits etc as they are just guys i shag off fab
i suppose it depends how much emphasise you put on the word buuddie or friend i guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
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thay can be anything...just not an exclusive...
some of my past/recent ones..we have the understanding we like meeting new people...so theres no set days set times etc..we are free'riding' our way through swinging , nothing more.
Now when u start making promises about being more than passing acquaintances in life...thats where u have to tread carefully.Oh and when they find a partner...dont try ruining it by getting sneaky fucks in lol |
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