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over a year ago
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"Ummm is swinging not just a turm for being ENM
So true"
For me I see swinging as well as all the different types of polyamorous relationships under the umbrella of ENM
I'm a Swinger as well as being in one of the types of Poly relationships so yea I'm definitely ENM |
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We are looking to an ENM/poly relationship but finding it difficult to get people to understand the type of relationship we want.
Most people think they understand a poly relationship but it appears what they really want is someone to have sex with when they are feeling horny and not communicate the rest of the time.
They don't seem to understand that we need regular communication...not just when they are feeling horny! |
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"We are looking to an ENM/poly relationship but finding it difficult to get people to understand the type of relationship we want.
Most people think they understand a poly relationship but it appears what they really want is someone to have sex with when they are feeling horny and not communicate the rest of the time.
They don't seem to understand that we need regular communication...not just when they are feeling horny! "
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"We are looking to an ENM/poly relationship but finding it difficult to get people to understand the type of relationship we want.
Most people think they understand a poly relationship but it appears what they really want is someone to have sex with when they are feeling horny and not communicate the rest of the time.
They don't seem to understand that we need regular communication...not just when they are feeling horny! "
I think being poly is super hard for guys, especially when dealing with couples.
It been hard for me when dealing with the female in a couple as they always seem to want everything on their terms (which is fair, she's holding the best cards)
But I don't bother with couples anymore as it's too much hassle prefer single poly women they're a lot more straightforward to communicate with than couples. |
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