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Was your first swinging experience a good one ?
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By *aughtycp1 OP Couple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
Our very first swinging experience was a MFM threesome with a gorgeous guy back in 2010. It was one of the best sexual experiences of both our lives.
Was your first swinging experience good or bad ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine wasn’t that great & had a couple of hit & misses since, but recently had a very enjoyable meet, so I guess it’s just about patience & getting the right people & chemistry who are all on the same page etc |
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Our first was amazing (for us)  Drinks in a bar with a lovely couple who we'd been chatting online with for a few weeks. We then went to a club and got naked in the hot tub together.
After a while, we all went off to explore the club together and found this tiny private room with one single bed. I still remember feeling the heat and sweat from their bodies as all four of us squeezed onto that bed and fucked our own partners. 
No swapping at all but it was incredibly sexy and still our favourite kind of meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my very first experience was with a couple back in 2009. I was nervous as he'll. they made me feel so at ease and they could see I was nervous and between them they decided that the wife and I would start things off on our own and he would join us half an hour or so later. we ended up having an amazing naughty night/morning. and today we are still Friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our first actual hotel meet threesome was great.
We all enjoyed it both during and afterwards.
We found a really nice guy that totally got the lifestyle and our wishes and fitted right in with us. He seemed very happy too.
The ridiculous messages, piss poor socials and fab fantasists leading up to that point were bloody tiresome though.
We were proper newbs! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ll let you know if it ever happens  "
Good luck to you.
Are you perhaps deliberately or subconsciously sabotaging yourself?
We just viewed your profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My first was with a couple from here who also was having their first time.
Fondly remembered! Was meant to be just a social but we got a little carried away! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My first 3 some was a MFM. I arrived home from work and my late wife said go and have a shower I have a surprise for you.
I showered and came down and she said lay over the foot stool, which I did. She then tied me to it and put a blindfold on me and my big headphones. We had done strap on play a lot before that.
She lubed me up and then after a while entered me.
I must have been begging to cum and fuck her. With that she whipped of my blindfold for me to focus on her in front of me with a black dildo in her. With a black guy using me…. |
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By *ancy38Woman
over a year ago
galway |
Talked about it for years but having a young family just never got the chance too. 2018 I think it was we booked a hotel, contacted a single black male and had my first ever threesome. I was very nervous. I wouldn't say it was amazing because of my nerves and the whole experience but it was nice. My second threesome he was massive and really enjoyed that too however my third threesome WOW! This is when I really let myself go and go all in. Loved it. We played for hours and did many things i thought I'd never be able to do including DP. Now, I don't think It won't be part of my life. I'm hooked lol. |
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Wasn’t great to be honest. Broke the rule about sticking to boundaries (ours) and went full swap. Hubby felt awful about it after.
We were at their house staying over, miles away from home and had been drinking so couldn’t drive home. Hubby just spent all night with his back turned from me and wouldn’t speak. Thought I’d fucked everything up!
Lots of talking the next day and then reclaim sex when we got home made it all ok again. Taken things a lot slower since then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Our first actual hotel meet threesome was great.
We all enjoyed it both during and afterwards.
We found a really nice guy that totally got the lifestyle and our wishes and fitted right in with us. He seemed very happy too.
The ridiculous messages, piss poor socials and fab fantasists leading up to that point were bloody tiresome though.
We were proper newbs!"
You sound very similar to my partner and myself so as newbies I have some questions that I qould hope you could help us with
But
I cant message you out of age range
Can you pm me please?
TIA
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Our first actual hotel meet threesome was great.
We all enjoyed it both during and afterwards.
We found a really nice guy that totally got the lifestyle and our wishes and fitted right in with us. He seemed very happy too.
The ridiculous messages, piss poor socials and fab fantasists leading up to that point were bloody tiresome though.
We were proper newbs!
You sound very similar to my partner and myself so as newbies I have some questions that I qould hope you could help us with
But
I cant message you out of age range
Can you pm me please?
TIA
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Your profile is a single guy and your bio is completely first person “me’s” and I’s and not a single mention of “we”
We’re not such “newbs” anymore buddy.
Jeez (face palm) |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
My first meet was great, it was with a tv, nice relaxed evening at her place.
2nd meet was with a couple exploring cuckold fun and there began my very strong interest in cuckold meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met a couple and they were friendly and polite. The wife was really stunning...blonde hair, blue eyes and really fit. We got to know each other and it was going really well until she went to the toilets. When she came back there was powder all over her nose. It was a deal breaker for me and I left quickly.
My first and only experience so far. |
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"I met a couple and they were friendly and polite. The wife was really stunning...blonde hair, blue eyes and really fit. We got to know each other and it was going really well until she went to the toilets. When she came back there was powder all over her nose. It was a deal breaker for me and I left quickly.
My first and only experience so far."
That would put me right off too. |
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"I met a couple and they were friendly and polite. The wife was really stunning...blonde hair, blue eyes and really fit. We got to know each other and it was going really well until she went to the toilets. When she came back there was powder all over her nose. It was a deal breaker for me and I left quickly.
My first and only experience so far.
That would put me right off too. "
Deal breaker too.
Our first experience as a couple was good and she loved it. Our second less so whilst our third was superb. |
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First time was a party ?
Sat chatting to everyone trying to calm my nerves , as things were warming up and people starting to take things upstairs!! A d*unk lady dived at me and gave me a blow job !! Scared the life out of me and didn’t really want to have anything to do with her ! Just took it and then had a great night taking pictures for the hostess and having some relaxed fun |
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First time- arranged a fuck'n'go meet with a couple, where I should do creampie cleanup duty. I thought it will be a threesome, where I will enjoy the lady after her bloke have finished, but when I turned up, there was already 5 guys working on her and it was more than expected to deal with |
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"It was fantastic. I was unsure about it at first, but he was experienced in mfm and a bit older. We met on holiday and I just thought let's do it and see if we like it. Xxxxxxxx "
That’s awesome you had such a good introduction mmmmmmm
Abigail |
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By *lad98Man
over a year ago
Burton Upon Trent |
I only went round for a cup of tea and a chat! Got a lot more than I bargained for from the minute I walked in the door. First time with a couple, they were so nice with me as well. Think my face must have been a picture when I walked in the door to find them both naked, her on all fours and being passed a vibe to 'keep her going mate while I make the tea'. |
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By *KentMan
over a year ago
Canterbury |
First experience via this site was with an ex, ended up going to a house party for our first time.
Was great watching her enjoy herself with three different guys. Would definitely do it again! |
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"Our first was amazing (for us) Drinks in a bar with a lovely couple who we'd been chatting online with for a few weeks. We then went to a club and got naked in the hot tub together.
After a while, we all went off to explore the club together and found this tiny private room with one single bed. I still remember feeling the heat and sweat from their bodies as all four of us squeezed onto that bed and fucked our own partners.
No swapping at all but it was incredibly sexy and still our favourite kind of meet "
That sounds amazing and very hot I deed |
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As a single I suppose it depends what you mean. I've had lots of encounters with women off and on the site but I wouldn't really count that as swinging. In my mind my first swinging experience as a single was going to a club. Once I got over the social anxiety it turned out to be a great success.
As a couple first time was at a club. It started off great. Met a couple we fancied and got on well. Then went off to a room with them. It was our first time but the other couple were reasonably experienced. However the other woman got upset with her guy with My Girl and she kicked off with him. It was all very awkward to be in the middle of and not really what you want to happen on your first time. But second time at a club was a lot better. |
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Was in a club in Germany we did not know it was a swinging club we thought it was a night club the doorman let us in we only realised when we heard no music that something was strange we walked along dark corridors rooms on each side people fucking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Our first actual hotel meet threesome was great.
We all enjoyed it both during and afterwards.
We found a really nice guy that totally got the lifestyle and our wishes and fitted right in with us. He seemed very happy too.
The ridiculous messages, piss poor socials and fab fantasists leading up to that point were bloody tiresome though.
We were proper newbs!
You sound very similar to my partner and myself so as newbies I have some questions that I qould hope you could help us with
But
I cant message you out of age range
Can you pm me please?
TIA
Your profile is a single guy and your bio is completely first person “me’s” and I’s and not a single mention of “we”
We’re not such “newbs” anymore buddy.
Jeez (face palm)"
A chat wouldn't hurt
Jeez face palm back at ya
I have a partner and we have visited 1 club. Looking to visit another
Just wanted some prospective from another couple that sounded similar to us.
Never mind
At least you responded
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First experience as a single was a threesome with an much older couple I met through the adult contact section of a buy/sell paper when I was 18,was a fantastic experience that led to many many more meets,and we are still friends now
First experience as a couple was a trip to Chameleons when I was 21 and was also a fantastic experience,played with a few couples and took part in my first ever orgy |
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Was our first swinging experience a good one ?
God yes , I broke my swinging cherry with a French gymnast and C shagged a young guy from Argentina, we worked for Royal Mail then and he worked for DPD so she was literally shagging the competition..
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This meet was run in an old Admiralty flat in London by a guy with a wooden leg .
We didn't need to drive home , we floated back on waves of euphoria.
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Our first one was a mfm, it's was OK and the lead us was a thrill but the guy could have been a bit more eager.
We have had a couple of meets since but struggle to find a male that wants to engage more socially and be more of a regular.
We live in hope. X |
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Oh definitely
I met a couple for some dogging fun with another younger single male. I followed them to a secluded car park in the car. When there, we met up with the other younger lad and all had a walk into the woods.
Once in there, the hubby lay down a blanket and his naughty, buxom Mrs got her ample boobs out for us. She took delight in sucking me and their other guest in turn, before we both had the pleasure of fucking her from behind. She then finished us both off with another good blow each and we rewarded her with lots of hot cum over those hot tits!
That’s what got me hooked on this lifestyle  |
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My first was a bit half and half. All three of us (mfm) were nervous and uncertain how to start, even though the extra guy was my wife's lover. The sex was OK but my wife wasn't that enthusiastic, but a few months later she decided to give it another go and that really blew our minds. Never looked back after that. |
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By *exy BeckyCouple
over a year ago
near Bergerac, France |
Our first meet was a complete disaster, single guy. Turned up at his and Becky, not being the shy one, stripped off and laid on the sofa.
The other guy came on the carpet as he was putting on his condom.
Out the door 5 minutes after we arrived..!
The second meet (we weren't beaten by that experience..) came a few days later and was great.
We still see him now nearly 25 years on...!
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My first was great
Answered what was very vanilla ad in the paper, seemed very normal
But when we chatted on the phone, the lady said she was married and her and husband wanted a threesome - fell off my chair
Met up and had great time. Met a few times and then lost contact
Great times!
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By *oumlacaMan
over a year ago
waterford |
First time mfm was fantastic, best sex ever, met a nice guy off B&S mag went to a hotel, few drinks, my partner liked him, up to the room, she was very nervous, still dressed they lay on the bed and kissed I watched as he lifted her skirt, then had to hold her hand as he fucked her, a wonderful night spent fucking till the early hours of the morning. The start of a wonderful journey into swinging. |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
No. It was not, but as with all new issues in life, it is a matter to taking that crucial first step, after having planned and carefully thought about it.
Frankly, looking back it is embarrassing to think about it; fortunately the lady was very experienced and persuaded my to go bareback, which proved to be a mistake, STI-wise, though the infection was not serious.
In choosing a new untried path in life, the first step is the most difficult but each increment after that is easier; and builds one's confidence. |
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We shared our first swinging experience not too long after we got together in 2008. We had talked about it as neither of us had done anything before and then decided we would go to a club in Amsterdam.
We went to Someplace and had a wonderful time. It was a great introduction with such a variety of people and tastes and yet so relaxed and open.
It certainly worked for us and though we have had some not so good experiences since on the whole we have loved it and met lovely people and had great fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ours wasn't incredible, we maybe didn't express enough how we'd liked to have played out our first meet or we did and the fella didn't get the whole thing.
Either way it was OK but not great.
We learned to talk alot more to our potential play mates after that and to make sure we were all on the same song sheet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ours was great. We went to a swingers club for our first time. We met a lovely couple who had been regular swingers for 5 years and they told us all about their journey.
We went that night thinking we'd just soak up the atmosphere. But we really clicked with that couple and within 20 mins my wife was naked and the man was licking her lovely large boobs. What a night. |
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By *jk1978Couple
over a year ago
Cheshire |
First experience was in a club we went to for first time after talking about it for 6 months and was amazing ffm and m watching us before asking if he could join the fun, watching a guy fuck sexy k for the first time after 22 years together was a massive turn on, couldn’t have asked for a better first experience |
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We are actually looking to delve deeper into this and have our first experience whilst away next week. I mean we have played and had foreplay and been clubs but that’s it. After a talk with hubby the other night I thought what the hell life is short and said let’s do it and agreed to go the whole way. So I have given him control of what happens, as they say I’m his slut who does as she’s told hehe.
He wants to watch me play with boys and girls. I still can’t believe I’ve agreed to be fucked infront of him, that’s something we have never done but it does turn me on the thought. We cannot wait.
Jess and Marco xx    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Came off a bad experience at a club. Never been to a club before and I went with an ex partner. We met a couple and things went well (for my ex).
I ended up meeting a couple who were in the club that night and finally they showed me thing could be positive |
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