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So last night I went out with a female friend, she's always said no to anything anal when we've all been together as a group. So we was all out, but i ended up back at hers. One thing led to another and my tongue slipped when I was going down on her and she moaned more. So I kept doing it then, and she never said stop. So I then gently pressed my thumb against her arse hole and ended up licking and sucking her clit and pussy while fingering her arse. She loved it as she was moaning louder but wouldn't let me fuck her in the arse. Am I missing something here? She's always said no to her arse being used in anyway. I'm just grateful for the night. Has anyone else experienced this or ladies what's your thoughts on it? |
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Well unless your cock is the same size as your thumb, there’s a massive difference.
Sometimes you just go with what feels good in the moment. Just know that that may well be as comfortable as she’ll ever be with bum fun |
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"So last night I went out with a female friend, she's always said no to anything anal when we've all been together as a group. So we was all out, but i ended up back at hers. One thing led to another and my tongue slipped when I was going down on her and she moaned more. So I kept doing it then, and she never said stop. So I then gently pressed my thumb against her arse hole and ended up licking and sucking her clit and pussy while fingering her arse. She loved it as she was moaning louder but wouldn't let me fuck her in the arse. Am I missing something here? She's always said no to her arse being used in anyway. I'm just grateful for the night. Has anyone else experienced this or ladies what's your thoughts on it?"
Yep, you're missing the fact that she said she's not interested in being fucked in the arse. Although she clearly said that when you asked? |
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"So last night I went out with a female friend, she's always said no to anything anal when we've all been together as a group. So we was all out, but i ended up back at hers. One thing led to another and my tongue slipped when I was going down on her and she moaned more. So I kept doing it then, and she never said stop. So I then gently pressed my thumb against her arse hole and ended up licking and sucking her clit and pussy while fingering her arse. She loved it as she was moaning louder but wouldn't let me fuck her in the arse. Am I missing something here? She's always said no to her arse being used in anyway. I'm just grateful for the night. Has anyone else experienced this or ladies what's your thoughts on it?
Yep, you're missing the fact that she said she's not interested in being fucked in the arse. Although she clearly said that when you asked? "
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I’m very similar. Would only entertain anything anal with someone I trust and definitely not in group situations cause things can get out of hand. So if I were you, I’d probably be flattered that it’s you she trusts. |
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"So last night I went out with a female friend, she's always said no to anything anal when we've all been together as a group. So we was all out, but i ended up back at hers. One thing led to another and my tongue slipped when I was going down on her and she moaned more. So I kept doing it then, and she never said stop. So I then gently pressed my thumb against her arse hole and ended up licking and sucking her clit and pussy while fingering her arse. She loved it as she was moaning louder but wouldn't let me fuck her in the arse. Am I missing something here? She's always said no to her arse being used in anyway. I'm just grateful for the night. Has anyone else experienced this or ladies what's your thoughts on it?"
A finger tip is not the same size or width as a cock. |
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Good on her. I see no desire to fuck anally or take anything in my bum. She might not like it, find it painful or just nasty.
My partners rubbed on my asshole but she got a slap on the ass trying to put a finger in there.
Sorry. No entry! Lol and neither do I have anything to do with hers unless a soft caress or I’m going at her pussy with my tongue and get carried away slightly, accidentally licking her. |
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"So last night I went out with a female friend, she's always said no to anything anal when we've all been together as a group. So we was all out, but i ended up back at hers. One thing led to another and my tongue slipped when I was going down on her and she moaned more. So I kept doing it then, and she never said stop. So I then gently pressed my thumb against her arse hole and ended up licking and sucking her clit and pussy while fingering her arse. She loved it as she was moaning louder but wouldn't let me fuck her in the arse. Am I missing something here? She's always said no to her arse being used in anyway. I'm just grateful for the night. Has anyone else experienced this or ladies what's your thoughts on it?"
Yes you are missing something. She doesn't want anal sex, she said she doesn't but you seem to have missed that she doesn't want it.
Compare your finger to your cock and you will get an idea of the reason. |
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"She doesn't want anal sex, she said she doesn't but you seem to have missed that she doesn't want it.
I feel like I can get this because - hey - I don’t want it up my bum, either. "
I'm a firm believer that if a person wants their partner to try anal, man or woman, they should demonstrate how easy and enjoyable it is by experiencing it themselves first. |
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A ‘no’ to anal isn’t always just about preference. Sometimes there are medical conditions to take into account.
While the person may enjoy some anal foreplay and really want to go further, sometimes it’s impossible and could lead to some rather painful injury. |
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"Well unless your cock is the same size as your thumb, there’s a massive difference.
Sometimes you just go with what feels good in the moment. Just know that that may well be as comfortable as she’ll ever be with bum fun"
I'm happy just to rim it, pussy feels better to be in
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By *ltra72Man
over a year ago
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"So last night I went out with a female friend, she's always said no to anything anal when we've all been together as a group. So we was all out, but i ended up back at hers. One thing led to another and my tongue slipped when I was going down on her and she moaned more. So I kept doing it then, and she never said stop. So I then gently pressed my thumb against her arse hole and ended up licking and sucking her clit and pussy while fingering her arse. She loved it as she was moaning louder but wouldn't let me fuck her in the arse. Am I missing something here? She's always said no to her arse being used in anyway. I'm just grateful for the night. Has anyone else experienced this or ladies what's your thoughts on it?"
If it doesn’t turn her on then you need to respect her decision, just be grateful she let you shove a finger in. |
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Whenever I have given a woman oral & obviously slipped the tongue down to the bum I have found none of them objected to a tongue or finger massaging their bum, I can see why they would object to a guy wanting to stick his knob in though as that is totally different, I have no issue with rimming & playing with a lady's bum but I never try to stick my know in, I'm happy with the oral pleasure of being allowed down there. |
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I have a fwb that chats up anal....it takes so much trust that when she desires it, we will have fun for sure...a tongue and a finger is so different ....enjoy what your lover wants, sounds like a fun lady |
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"Well unless your cock is the same size as your thumb, there’s a massive difference.
Sometimes you just go with what feels good in the moment. Just know that that may well be as comfortable as she’ll ever be with bum fun"
Lmao. This sums it up well |
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What is it with anal, I'm not a fan, my ex husband continually asked for it to the point it became nagging and I just got repulsed by him! A finger or tounge is much different than a cock.
Let her peg you after popping a finger in see if you notice the difference |
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There is a big difference between anal sex and "anything anal"..My guess is she is used to guys thinking because she enjoyed a tongue in there that is an open pass to put your cock in there.
When ever we meet, we will tend to say that we aren't into anything anal to not get to that point. Albeit very rare that a guy can refrain from trying a tongue or finger wonder |
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"I'm a firm believer that if a person wants their partner to try anal, man or woman, they should demonstrate how easy and enjoyable it is by experiencing it themselves first."
I suggested this to an old friend of mine once, her bf wanted to try it but she said no. He wouldn't listen to her so I suggested she offer him to be fucked by her with her dildo. As I pointed out there are severla outcomes,
1) he likes it wants it more
2) he likes it wants to try with men
3) she started to enjoy doing it to him
4) they'd spilt up
5) she'd have to do it as she said him first.
6) she enjoys it and becomes a new thing.
They split up. |
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"I'm a firm believer that if a person wants their partner to try anal, man or woman, they should demonstrate how easy and enjoyable it is by experiencing it themselves first.
I suggested this to an old friend of mine once, her bf wanted to try it but she said no. He wouldn't listen to her so I suggested she offer him to be fucked by her with her dildo. As I pointed out there are severla outcomes,
1) he likes it wants it more
2) he likes it wants to try with men
3) she started to enjoy doing it to him
4) they'd spilt up
5) she'd have to do it as she said him first.
6) she enjoys it and becomes a new thing.
They split up. "
There is a 7th he'd realise he was being unreasonable and shut the hell up.  |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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There is a massive difference between someone having someone play with their ass with their finger and sticking a cock up it .And op if you cannot see the difference than that's pretty sad. |
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Huuuge difference between rimming and a thumb than a cock !
I never do anal first meet.. I've really got to trust someone sexually to do it but I enjoy my asshole being played with. Everyone has different preferences. Because a dude enjoys a finger doesn't mean he will enjoy a cock in his ass.. x |
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"So last night I went out with a female friend, she's always said no to anything anal when we've all been together as a group. So we was all out, but i ended up back at hers. One thing led to another and my tongue slipped when I was going down on her and she moaned more. So I kept doing it then, and she never said stop. So I then gently pressed my thumb against her arse hole and ended up licking and sucking her clit and pussy while fingering her arse. She loved it as she was moaning louder but wouldn't let me fuck her in the arse. Am I missing something here? She's always said no to her arse being used in anyway. I'm just grateful for the night. Has anyone else experienced this or ladies what's your thoughts on it?"
No means no. Which means no. Which really does mean NO.
Just because she humoured you one time to the limit of her patience, it doesn't mean she has changed her mind. |
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