Is it just me or is it happening to anybody else?
Last two meets, the connection seems is there. I'm polite, I message to thank for time and they get the verification and nothing!
I can see they are online but don't respond. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They aren’t interested then
Well, that's obvious, but are males just on here to get the verifications?"
I guess some will be, some won’t be. It’s not an issue I’ve come across before. |
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By *s1981Couple
over a year ago
halifax |
We've had it many times recently. Chatted and got on really well, plan meets and then nothing. Not even a no th ak you anymore. Weird.
All from so called single guys, who when they have a free night are all for it but most likely bwcasie the wofe isn't home! |
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"We've had it many times recently. Chatted and got on really well, plan meets and then nothing. Not even a no th ak you anymore. Weird.
All from so called single guys, who when they have a free night are all for it but most likely bwcasie the wofe isn't home! "
Think the OP is talking about being ghosted after a meet! |
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over a year ago
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"They aren’t interested then
Well, that's obvious, but are males just on here to get the verifications?"
I've had it happen a few times, we meet, have fun, I leave a verification, and then poof, nothing, I won't leave a verification for anyone now, as much as I'd love to, unless they leave one first, that's why I'd love a button so you can delete it from their account lol |
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"They aren’t interested then
Well, that's obvious, but are males just on here to get the verifications?
I've had it happen a few times, we meet, have fun, I leave a verification, and then poof, nothing, I won't leave a verification for anyone now, as much as I'd love to, unless they leave one first, that's why I'd love a button so you can delete it from their account lol"
I know exactly what you mean. |
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"They aren’t interested then
Well, that's obvious, but are males just on here to get the verifications?"
Possibly they think they have better chances with others after being verified
I don't know if the meet was social or play but for many it's a notches on bedpost thing, they've had their fun and now they want to find someone else to play with |
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"They aren’t interested then
Well, that's obvious, but are males just on here to get the verifications?
I've had it happen a few times, we meet, have fun, I leave a verification, and then poof, nothing, I won't leave a verification for anyone now, as much as I'd love to, unless they leave one first, that's why I'd love a button so you can delete it from their account lol
I know exactly what you mean."
Both after play. They were newbies but they caught my eye. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They aren’t interested then
Well, that's obvious, but are males just on here to get the verifications?
I've had it happen a few times, we meet, have fun, I leave a verification, and then poof, nothing, I won't leave a verification for anyone now, as much as I'd love to, unless they leave one first, that's why I'd love a button so you can delete it from their account lol
I know exactly what you mean."
Admin, are you listening lol |
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"They aren’t interested then
Well, that's obvious, but are males just on here to get the verifications?
I've had it happen a few times, we meet, have fun, I leave a verification, and then poof, nothing, I won't leave a verification for anyone now, as much as I'd love to, unless they leave one first, that's why I'd love a button so you can delete it from their account lol
I know exactly what you mean.
Admin, are you listening lol"
What would be ideal is, the verification can't be displayed until they do one in return. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They aren’t interested then
Well, that's obvious, but are males just on here to get the verifications?
I've had it happen a few times, we meet, have fun, I leave a verification, and then poof, nothing, I won't leave a verification for anyone now, as much as I'd love to, unless they leave one first, that's why I'd love a button so you can delete it from their account lol
I know exactly what you mean.
Admin, are you listening lol
What would be ideal is, the verification can't be displayed until they do one in return."
Block them ladies and it disappears |
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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago
Uttoxeter |
"They aren’t interested then
Well, that's obvious, but are males just on here to get the verifications?
I've had it happen a few times, we meet, have fun, I leave a verification, and then poof, nothing, I won't leave a verification for anyone now, as much as I'd love to, unless they leave one first, that's why I'd love a button so you can delete it from their account lol
I know exactly what you mean.
Admin, are you listening lol
What would be ideal is, the verification can't be displayed until they do one in return."
Know that's a great idea  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find that so strange!
But I'd just take it as a sign they got sex and that's purely all they wanted.
I can't imagine going to all the effort of having a meet then completely blanking them afterwards... even just a small message to say thanks, it was fun etc.
Don't worry about it anyway.  |
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"They aren’t interested then
Well, that's obvious, but are males just on here to get the verifications?
I've had it happen a few times, we meet, have fun, I leave a verification, and then poof, nothing, I won't leave a verification for anyone now, as much as I'd love to, unless they leave one first, that's why I'd love a button so you can delete it from their account lol
I know exactly what you mean.
Admin, are you listening lol
What would be ideal is, the verification can't be displayed until they do one in return.
Block them ladies and it disappears "
It still shows in their summary so It would still show one veri by meet |
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The verification is only meant for verifying the user.
1, being a legit user
2, have been met by other users
3, there pics are of the user themselves
To remove the verification is kinda a little vindictive
When its not there to be used like that.
Weve all had users that have met many of us then moved on because we dont fit with each other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They aren’t interested then
Well, that's obvious, but are males just on here to get the verifications?
I've had it happen a few times, we meet, have fun, I leave a verification, and then poof, nothing, I won't leave a verification for anyone now, as much as I'd love to, unless they leave one first, that's why I'd love a button so you can delete it from their account lol
I know exactly what you mean.
Admin, are you listening lol
What would be ideal is, the verification can't be displayed until they do one in return.
Block them ladies and it disappears
It still shows in their summary so It would still show one veri by meet "
True…but least they can’t show the verification |
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"They aren’t interested then
Well, that's obvious, but are males just on here to get the verifications?
I've had it happen a few times, we meet, have fun, I leave a verification, and then poof, nothing, I won't leave a verification for anyone now, as much as I'd love to, unless they leave one first, that's why I'd love a button so you can delete it from their account lol"
There is it’s called the block button  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They aren’t interested then
Well, that's obvious, but are males just on here to get the verifications?
I've had it happen a few times, we meet, have fun, I leave a verification, and then poof, nothing, I won't leave a verification for anyone now, as much as I'd love to, unless they leave one first, that's why I'd love a button so you can delete it from their account lolThere is it’s called the block button "
There is, but it still shows that they've had a veri even if they can't show it |
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"Is it just me or is it happening to anybody else?
Last two meets, the connection seems is there. I'm polite, I message to thank for time and they get the verification and nothing!
I can see they are online but don't respond."
Some guys (not all) will say anything to get into your knickers. Some guys (not all) are looking for notches on the bedpost. Some guys (not all) will look for the next new woman to meet after meeting you.
Hopefully, if you make guys spend time getting to know you online before meeting you will get rid of the guys looking for another notch on the bedpost. |
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Happens to me often with people. They are worried meeting ts will deter other meets from seeing them. Why i rarely leave verifications anymore and just say I have no interest in it .
Irony is they usually want me to leave one that they don’t display but shows on the number and flags recent veri in updates .
Had one meet really try hard to pressure me to verify them while at meet yet they said they will do mine following day as need time to reflect on how to write it .. I thanked them for the entertaining sex but said they just sound like imbeciles with that statement .. instant atmosphere killer for them and that was end of meet .
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"Happens to me often with people. They are worried meeting ts will deter other meets from seeing them. Why i rarely leave verifications anymore and just say I have no interest in it .
Irony is they usually want me to leave one that they don’t display but shows on the number and flags recent veri in updates .
Had one meet really try hard to pressure me to verify them while at meet yet they said they will do mine following day as need time to reflect on how to write it .. I thanked them for the entertaining sex but said they just sound like imbeciles with that statement .. instant atmosphere killer for them and that was end of meet .
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Shame you’ve had bad experiences we aren’t all bad |
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"Happens to me often with people. They are worried meeting ts will deter other meets from seeing them. Why i rarely leave verifications anymore and just say I have no interest in it .
Irony is they usually want me to leave one that they don’t display but shows on the number and flags recent veri in updates .
Had one meet really try hard to pressure me to verify them while at meet yet they said they will do mine following day as need time to reflect on how to write it .. I thanked them for the entertaining sex but said they just sound like imbeciles with that statement .. instant atmosphere killer for them and that was end of meet .
Shame you’ve had bad experiences we aren’t all bad "
Oh I am not concerned by it as ultimately I got what I wanted with the sex , I just find the faux nonsense of embarrassed by the wrong veri left for some of these idiots . The mentality behaviour of it is mildly amusing for me to observe is all .
There are some smashing people in here absolutely though . |
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"Is it just me or is it happening to anybody else?
Last two meets, the connection seems is there. I'm polite, I message to thank for time and they get the verification and nothing!
I can see they are online but don't respond."
Judging from your verifications you’ve no shortage of meets or men that are willing to stay in touch.
Don’t worry about it (though I know it’s hard not to feel like you’ve done something wrong) |
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"Happens to me often with people. They are worried meeting ts will deter other meets from seeing them. Why i rarely leave verifications anymore and just say I have no interest in it .
Irony is they usually want me to leave one that they don’t display but shows on the number and flags recent veri in updates .
Had one meet really try hard to pressure me to verify them while at meet yet they said they will do mine following day as need time to reflect on how to write it .. I thanked them for the entertaining sex but said they just sound like imbeciles with that statement .. instant atmosphere killer for them and that was end of meet .
Shame you’ve had bad experiences we aren’t all bad
Oh I am not concerned by it as ultimately I got what I wanted with the sex , I just find the faux nonsense of embarrassed by the wrong veri left for some of these idiots . The mentality behaviour of it is mildly amusing for me to observe is all .
There are some smashing people in here absolutely though . "
Well as long as you got what you wanted from it then I guess that’s a positive, even if you do have to put up with some of their crap |
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By *8v3nCouple
over a year ago
Coventry |
Well we never verified before receiving one.
Things happen - some are jealous, kick drama, sometimes they are just jerks, sometimes life outside of fabs becomes priority. Just move on, their loss. |
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By *jk1978Couple
over a year ago
Cheshire |
We are new but everyone we have met for social we are still in contact with and planning the next meet and where we had a social and meet swap we are still in contact with them, seems strange that you would speak to someone for a while get on,meet and because you had sex they then don’t bother acknowledging you again, |
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