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Why do guy's think it's the be all and end all when playing.
It's like they think if they don't try to finger with such ferocity that they are no good, and making a woman squirt is the holy grail.
The vagina is a very sensitive area with many nerve endings and ways to stimulate a lady you don't need to go at it like a bull in a China shop.
I joke on various threads but in this case I really do blame porn.
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over a year ago
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I think it’s all about what the receiver prefers! Most of my partners have preferred a nice, slow fingering with my fingers curled and rubbing at just the right spot but, there was one lover who insisted I finger banged her until she squirted |
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"Why do guy's think it's the be all and end all when playing.
It's like they think if they don't try to finger with such ferocity that they are no good, and making a woman squirt is the holy grail.
The vagina is a very sensitive area with many nerve endings and ways to stimulate a lady you don't need to go at it like a bull in a China shop.
I joke on various threads but in this case I really do blame porn.
Guys word of advice,ask first before steaming in."
Being a fan of squirting myself I feel I should share my opinion.
I get hugely turned on if a woman squirts, however it is not the be all an end all for me if it doesn’t happen. I do agree with what you say about blaming it on porn that SOME men are quite rough or Vigourous towards the “ finger blasting” in order to get the squirting scenario. I myself have learned that you can make a woman achieve a much more intense squirting orgasm without needing to be like why you see on porn. It’s all about finding out what the woman likes and enjoys rather than just copying what you see on porn.
I quite liked that this topic has been raised from a woman’s point of view |
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"I think it’s all about what the receiver prefers! Most of my partners have preferred a nice, slow fingering with my fingers curled and rubbing at just the right spot but, there was one lover who insisted I finger banged her until she squirted"
This wasn't a thing until recent years 20 years ago finger banging/blasting wasn't even a word same with squirting. |
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Personally I’ve always taken the slow and gentle to start and watch/listen for feedback/encouragement approach and change tempo to suit. The same goes for when women give guys oral, some have watched far too much porn and think that approach works on all guys. |
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"I think it's for their own personal ego boost."
To some degree you are right as it is an ego boost for a man if that happens but for me personally I enjoy being able to give pleasure more than I enjoy receiving it |
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"Why do guy's think it's the be all and end all when playing.
It's like they think if they don't try to finger with such ferocity that they are no good, and making a woman squirt is the holy grail.
The vagina is a very sensitive area with many nerve endings and ways to stimulate a lady you don't need to go at it like a bull in a China shop.
I joke on various threads but in this case I really do blame porn.
Guys word of advice,ask first before steaming in."
Amen to this, shout it louder for those at the back that might not hear. I have been cut badly inside and been very sore for days from idiots doing this. They have no bloody idea and safe to say I didn’t want to see them again. Getting me to squirt seems to be the only thing they are Interested in and it’s also scary how many think that when you squirt you have cum.  |
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"Why do guy's think it's the be all and end all when playing.
It's like they think if they don't try to finger with such ferocity that they are no good, and making a woman squirt is the holy grail.
The vagina is a very sensitive area with many nerve endings and ways to stimulate a lady you don't need to go at it like a bull in a China shop.
I joke on various threads but in this case I really do blame porn.
Guys word of advice,ask first before steaming in.
Being a fan of squirting myself I feel I should share my opinion.
I get hugely turned on if a woman squirts, however it is not the be all an end all for me if it doesn’t happen. I do agree with what you say about blaming it on porn that SOME men are quite rough or Vigourous towards the “ finger blasting” in order to get the squirting scenario. I myself have learned that you can make a woman achieve a much more intense squirting orgasm without needing to be like why you see on porn. It’s all about finding out what the woman likes and enjoys rather than just copying what you see on porn.
I quite liked that this topic has been raised from a woman’s point of view "
There is something satisfying about making a lady squirt however down to experience I tend to find a gentle approach works wonders certain ways of using fingers helps  |
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If someone is doing something I don't like I ask them nicely to stop.
If I'm going to do something that I'm unsure someone will like I ask them first.
If I'm doing something and the person asks me to stop, I do.
It's really that easy. |
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I'm sure whether a woman squirts or not, even assuming that she has a propensity to do this in the first place, has more to do with what is going on in her mind than how much effort the guy is expending. |
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"I'm sure whether a woman squirts or not, even assuming that she has a propensity to do this in the first place, has more to do with what is going on in her mind than how much effort the guy is expending. "
Very wrong |
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When I see videos on here of guys doing that, it makes me cringe!!
I just don't get how the ladies put up with it, surely it's got to be sore. Obviously there must be some ladies who like it, but I could never be that vigorous. |
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"I'm sure whether a woman squirts or not, even assuming that she has a propensity to do this in the first place, has more to do with what is going on in her mind than how much effort the guy is expending.
Very wrong "
We'll agree to disagree. |
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"Why do guy's think it's the be all and end all when playing.
It's like they think if they don't try to finger with such ferocity that they are no good, and making a woman squirt is the holy grail.
The vagina is a very sensitive area with many nerve endings and ways to stimulate a lady you don't need to go at it like a bull in a China shop.
I joke on various threads but in this case I really do blame porn.
Guys word of advice,ask first before steaming in."
To be fair, ive seen lots of videos on here of women being finger blasted and squirting, so its hardly just a porn thing. The average joe and josephine 6pack do it as well |
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By *abfipsMan
over a year ago
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"Why do guy's think it's the be all and end all when playing.
It's like they think if they don't try to finger with such ferocity that they are no good, and making a woman squirt is the holy grail.
The vagina is a very sensitive area with many nerve endings and ways to stimulate a lady you don't need to go at it like a bull in a China shop.
I joke on various threads but in this case I really do blame porn.
Guys word of advice,ask first before steaming in."
Unfortunately some guys have as much sophistication
as a dingo. |
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