I just finished reading a book by Douglas Murray called The Madness Of Crowds, who is a gay man. In it he suggests that gay and lesbian sex is the best and most complete sexual experience a man or woman can have because it is possible to give pleasure and know exactly what the other person is recieving so the pleasure kind of goes around and around. Bisexuals who obviously enjoy both males and females sexually are probably best qualified to answer this as they know how each experience differs. Thoughts please. |
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Not necessarily. I wouldn't presume to act as if I knew for a fact that another guy would like what I like.
Plus, much of the pleasure in sex comes from our mental reaction to what's taking place, not just what is happening to our genitals. So, pain, excitement, affection, surprise, novelty, etc. all factor into it. |
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"Not necessarily. I wouldn't presume to act as if I knew for a fact that another guy would like what I like.
Plus, much of the pleasure in sex comes from our mental reaction to what's taking place, not just what is happening to our genitals. So, pain, excitement, affection, surprise, novelty, etc. all factor into it."
I think he was referring to knowing exactly what you are giving feels like in reverse. He suggests that heterosexuals can't know what the other is feeling exactly because they have never been the opposite sex. |
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"I think he was referring to knowing exactly what you are giving feels like in reverse. He suggests that heterosexuals can't know what the other is feeling exactly because they have never been the opposite sex. "
I get that, but I'm saying I *don't* know what my partner is feeling just because I've had the same action done to me.
For example, if my balls are played with a blowjob is infinitely better. I've been with some guys who did not like that at all. I adore my nipples be grabbed *hard* , but I can't presume other men do.
Some guys don't even like a finger up their bum during a blowjob, as it's a split focus thing. So, my answer to your question is no. |
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"I think he was referring to knowing exactly what you are giving feels like in reverse. He suggests that heterosexuals can't know what the other is feeling exactly because they have never been the opposite sex.
I get that, but I'm saying I *don't* know what my partner is feeling just because I've had the same action done to me.
For example, if my balls are played with a blowjob is infinitely better. I've been with some guys who did not like that at all. I adore my nipples be grabbed *hard* , but I can't presume other men do.
Some guys don't even like a finger up their bum during a blowjob, as it's a split focus thing. So, my answer to your question is no."
Men are not all the same. Women are not all the same. |
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"I think he was referring to knowing exactly what you are giving feels like in reverse. He suggests that heterosexuals can't know what the other is feeling exactly because they have never been the opposite sex.
I get that, but I'm saying I *don't* know what my partner is feeling just because I've had the same action done to me.
For example, if my balls are played with a blowjob is infinitely better. I've been with some guys who did not like that at all. I adore my nipples be grabbed *hard* , but I can't presume other men do.
Some guys don't even like a finger up their bum during a blowjob, as it's a split focus thing. So, my answer to your question is no."
As someone with really bad ADHD, split focus is the worst thing during sex!  too many stimulants can distract from the act itself and end up losing blood where it’s needed to continue… |
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Can't say I agree with his sentiment as he's basically saying we all like the same thing or it feels the same to everyone of that gender which isn't true.
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"I'm surprised by most of these replies because I have often heard woman say that nobody knows a woman's body like another woman. "
when you get a women who likes the same as the other woman then it's going to be amazing, the same if a man liked his cock sucking the exact same way as you did then I'm sure that would be amazing too.
But we're all different. |
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I agree with the general sentiment that it's rubbish.
Different people enjoy different things. What I enjoy might not be pleasurable to my sex partner.
In my opinion, the best sex is with a long-term partner, as you learn what makes each other tick and have the additional emotional attachment.
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"I agree with the general sentiment that it's rubbish.
Different people enjoy different things. What I enjoy might not be pleasurable to my sex partner.
In my opinion, the best sex is with a long-term partner, as you learn what makes each other tick and have the additional emotional attachment.
Nita"
Yeah Absolutely this |
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"I just finished reading a book by Douglas Murray called The Madness Of Crowds, who is a gay man. In it he suggests that gay and lesbian sex is the best and most complete sexual experience a man or woman can have because it is possible to give pleasure and know exactly what the other person is recieving so the pleasure kind of goes around and around. Bisexuals who obviously enjoy both males and females sexually are probably best qualified to answer this as they know how each experience differs. Thoughts please. "
If there is one thing everyone SHOULD have learned from FAB, is that we are all different. People like and dislike different things, and we can get different physical responses from the same stimulation... in fact, many people don't even experience the same stimulation the same from one day to the next.
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