Hi everyone,
I need a little bit of advice please. I enjoy meeting both females and couples and I enjoy the bi side when I am with a bi couple but I won’t meet a male alone. If I put straight on my profile I get blocked by bi couples as they don’t believe me if I put bi I get blocked by females and straight couples, does anyone have any ideas how I can resolve this issue!!!! |
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Put bi on your profile. We hate it when men say they are straight and then say we are bi when we say looking for a bi or bicurious guy. Also if a female or couple are looking for a straight guy then you should respect that not not lie when you know you are bi. |
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By *elloWoman
over a year ago
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Put that you're Bi and in profile text say happy to play bi or straight. People who won't meet bi's annoy me, it's not like you're going to force yourself on to them, dos and don'ts should be well established in messages before a meet so everyone knows the limits and expectations |
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Yeah honesty is the best policy here, will definitely help you find the people who you will get on best with and have the most with 
People might have their reasons for not wanting to meet bi guys, but that is mostly because there is a stigma against bisexual men, even on here
Hopefully, if more people like you are open and honest about your sexuality then that will start to change
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"Hi everyone,
I need a little bit of advice please. I enjoy meeting both females and couples and I enjoy the bi side when I am with a bi couple but I won’t meet a male alone. If I put straight on my profile I get blocked by bi couples as they don’t believe me if I put bi I get blocked by females and straight couples, does anyone have any ideas how I can resolve this issue!!!!"
I had same problem. So I put bi curious as I don't kiss men. Put bi het exible/ bi top after asking the same question. Then blocked males. You can't have everything. The straights don't wanna know but that's up to them.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People on here say that if a man has sex with man or sucks his dick, he can still identify as straight.
So just put straight until you message a couple looking for bi men and then change it to say bi. |
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I would say put bi/cur. Block single men if needs be. When a guy messages us and says he’s bi but his profile says straight we get suspicious I’m afraid. Way too many have pretended to be bi just to get some off the Mrs.
And if you get messages off blokes? Just delete & block?
Anyone that won’t play because you’ve said you’re bi isn’t your type anyway. Right? |
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If people can’t be honest on here, then you are in the wrong place.
People are allowed to choose who they want to meet, but profiles should show honesty and reflect who you are and what you are after.
A well thought out bio will explain your preferences and if you aren’t for them then so be it.
We have seen profiles where the man will change his sexual preference depending on who he is messaging. Instant block.
Just be honest and it will be respected.
Good luck and enjoy. |
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"Put bi on your profile. We hate it when men say they are straight and then say we are bi when we say looking for a bi or bicurious guy. Also if a female or couple are looking for a straight guy then you should respect that not not lie when you know you are bi. "
This^^ |
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"Hi everyone,
I need a little bit of advice please. I enjoy meeting both females and couples and I enjoy the bi side when I am with a bi couple but I won’t meet a male alone. If I put straight on my profile I get blocked by bi couples as they don’t believe me if I put bi I get blocked by females and straight couples, does anyone have any ideas how I can resolve this issue!!!!
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It's not just the thought you might try something "gay" why people say they don't want to play with bi men.
There are many reasons why people don't want to, monkeypox for example or previously it affected your ability to donate blood.
In the context of this, it's informed consent in my opinion, and the question is really "do you have sexual activity with men" not "do you fancy men".
That's my thoughts anyway.
I wish fab would make it so you could only change your orientation once every 6 months and display the change history. |
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