The key word is "premature". The word means something occurring before it is planned, predicted or expected. I think in sexual terms this is a female construct that is born out of frustration or sadly just used as a way to belittle men. This can cause "performance" anxiety in some men. For those woman that are capable of achieving an orgasm from intercourse the solution is to not be critical and instead simply allow a man to do his best even if that's just 2 pumps and a squirt. Then when he is spent, quickly follow up with a dildo to get her where she wants to go. |
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I have always struggled with cumming to quickly, seemed nautral to become a sissy and a cuck so any female partners past and present get to enjoy propper sex from real men.
Hoped the chastity cage wouls stop the early cumming and it did for a short while.
These days i can cum in the cage quickly and hands free and out of it in seconds. |
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"In answer to my own question, I believe premature ejaculation is when a man cums during intercourse before his partner does. "
Is this just during penetration? Most of my partners cum most often during foreplay rather than penetration. |
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"The key word is "premature". The word means something occurring before it is planned, predicted or expected. I think in sexual terms this is a female construct that is born out of frustration or sadly just used as a way to belittle men. This can cause "performance" anxiety in some men. For those woman that are capable of achieving an orgasm from intercourse the solution is to not be critical and instead simply allow a man to do his best even if that's just 2 pumps and a squirt. Then when he is spent, quickly follow up with a dildo to get her where she wants to go. "
Too much focus on penetration again. Dildos have their place, vibrators are much better in getting her where she wants to go. |
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"In answer to my own question, I believe premature ejaculation is when a man cums during intercourse before his partner does.
Is this just during penetration? Most of my partners cum most often during foreplay rather than penetration."
During intercourse only. During oral both giving and receiving the main aim is to make each other cum whereas with intercourse there are opposing objectives particularly when the woman is capable of vaginal orgasm. Basically the man is trying to resist stimulation in order to last long enough for the woman to achieve orgasm. |
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"I dont think it has anything to do with cumming before a woman.
When i was younger, i would literally last 30 seconds! At least some advantages to getting older"
So what does the "premature" phrase refer too? |
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By *oxy jWoman
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Premature ejaculation is a condition that has many different reasons mental and psychical ... there is no one type of Premature ejaculation ..
a cheap attempt at blaming the woman for to much pressure is not going to work and will only make yourself look very silly ... what ever next will us woman blame men for not making us orgasm because the put us at to much pressure ?
no its a medical problem that for most can be sorted sadly some wont ... but the biggest problem is of course the age old problem of men going to there gp /dr to talk about it thats the real problem ... |
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"The key word is "premature". The word means something occurring before it is planned, predicted or expected. I think in sexual terms this is a female construct that is born out of frustration or sadly just used as a way to belittle men. This can cause "performance" anxiety in some men. For those woman that are capable of achieving an orgasm from intercourse the solution is to not be critical and instead simply allow a man to do his best even if that's just 2 pumps and a squirt. Then when he is spent, quickly follow up with a dildo to get her where she wants to go.
Too much focus on penetration again. Dildos have their place, vibrators are much better in getting her where she wants to go. "
I agree. But most men and woman love intercourse and penetration is essential for those woman lucky enough to have vaginal as well as clitoral orgasms. Saying that, the stimulation of the G-spot with fingers is also a great way for a woman to orgasm vaginally. |
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"Premature ejaculation is a condition that has many different reasons mental and psychical ... there is no one type of Premature ejaculation ..
a cheap attempt at blaming the woman for to much pressure is not going to work and will only make yourself look very silly ... what ever next will us woman blame men for not making us orgasm because the put us at to much pressure ?
no its a medical problem that for most can be sorted sadly some wont ... but the biggest problem is of course the age old problem of men going to there gp /dr to talk about it thats the real problem ..."
The key point though is what exactly does the "premature" phrase mean in relation to sex? Whether it's mental or physical, why is it a problem if a man cums quickly? My "cheap attempt" to blame woman for applying too much pressure was simply an observation based on the ridicule some men receive from woman either in a serious or joking manner. As for men making woman cum, much of the time it's down to a woman not relaxing enough and letting herself go. Although woman will often cover that by claiming the man simply doesn't know what he's doing, which is also sometimes true. |
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One gf I had would get me to wear a strap on to finish her off because I came too quickly, because the strap on was bigger than my cock we used the strap on more often than my cock.
Chastity soon followed |
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