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Why call your wife/partner a slut?
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We have never understood why guys call their wife a slut??? If the guy likes the wife being with other guy(s), couples or you swap as a couple or what ever....then I would say she is a good girl/naughty/greedy girl, but we hate the word slut.....
Why aren't the males that swap called slut husbands, but they are more likely to be classed as 'Players', 'Studs' or 'Geezers'.
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"I disagree.
Alice likes me calling her that, so I do.
Have you read The Ethical Slut? It's a slightly more positive take on the word. "
From the wiki summary of the book:
'The authors define the term slut as "a person of any gender who has the courage to lead life according to the radical proposition that sex is nice and pleasure is good for you." The term is reclaimed from its usual use as a pejorative and as a simple label for a promiscuous person.' |
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"I disagree.
Alice likes me calling her that, so I do.
Have you read The Ethical Slut? It's a slightly more positive take on the word.
From the wiki summary of the book:
'The authors define the term slut as "a person of any gender who has the courage to lead life according to the radical proposition that sex is nice and pleasure is good for you." The term is reclaimed from its usual use as a pejorative and as a simple label for a promiscuous person.'"
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"We have never understood why guys call their wife a slut??? If the guy likes the wife being with other guy(s), couples or you swap as a couple or what ever....then I would say she is a good girl/naughty/greedy girl, but we hate the word slut.....
Why aren't the males that swap called slut husbands, but they are more likely to be classed as 'Players', 'Studs' or 'Geezers'.
Agree or disagree?"
I like being called slut, usually pre fixed with "dirty little" ....
Or filthy bitch, naughty whore..
It depends where and why and how.I mean in sainsburies whilst shopping is a no no, or around the kids isn't ideal too.lol
But when I'm on my knees with my hair being pulled back, knowing I'm about to have his cock in my mouth is a different story.
And if he uses the word "my" first.. Well that's the biggest turn on ever for me.
I won't allow slag though.. Just an instant turn off.. |
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over a year ago
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"We have never understood why guys call their wife a slut??? If the guy likes the wife being with other guy(s), couples or you swap as a couple or what ever....then I would say she is a good girl/naughty/greedy girl, but we hate the word slut.....
Why aren't the males that swap called slut husbands, but they are more likely to be classed as 'Players', 'Studs' or 'Geezers'.
Agree or disagree?
I like being called slut, usually pre fixed with "dirty little" ....
Or filthy bitch, naughty whore..
It depends where and why and how.I mean in sainsburies whilst shopping is a no no, or around the kids isn't ideal too.lol
But when I'm on my knees with my hair being pulled back, knowing I'm about to have his cock in my mouth is a different story.
And if he uses the word "my" first.. Well that's the biggest turn on ever for me.
I won't allow slag though.. Just an instant turn off.. "
Exactly the same for us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love being called a slut by my husband, especialy when "my" is used beforehand. I think a lot of women have reclaimed the word for more positive means now and kinks x |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
milton keynes |
"I love being called a slut by my husband, especialy when "my" is used beforehand. I think a lot of women have reclaimed the word for more positive means now and kinks x"
Brilliant answer !! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like him calling me slut. Each to their own though, I wouldn't necessarily let anyone call me it.
Ditto, in context its a consensual word, although I acknowledge some see it as an insult"
Yes, same for me too  |
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Lucy likes it when she's in the right mood.
It's easy to determine when that mood is, it's when she changes from fucking like a skilled housewife to a cock crazed monster.
I call it engaging slut mode, and it's a beautiful thing
If you can't understand that people might have their own preferences in uses of words boy are you in for a shock when you see what some swingers enjoy :P
Perhaps less judgement and more open mindedness would do you good |
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"I disagree.
Alice likes me calling her that, so I do.
Have you read The Ethical Slut? It's a slightly more positive take on the word. "
Totally agree the wood needs to be rehabilitated so that it is a positive compliment like "stud" for a man |
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If you don’t like calling your wife a slut then don’t use that word. Other people really like it. Let them be - it is their life.
I think people should stop putting their prejudices of how the world works on other people. |
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"We have never understood why guys call their wife a slut??? If the guy likes the wife being with other guy(s), couples or you swap as a couple or what ever....then I would say she is a good girl/naughty/greedy girl, but we hate the word slut.....
Why aren't the males that swap called slut husbands, but they are more likely to be classed as 'Players', 'Studs' or 'Geezers'.
Agree or disagree?
I like being called slut, usually pre fixed with "dirty little" ....
Or filthy bitch, naughty whore..
It depends where and why and how.I mean in sainsburies whilst shopping is a no no, or around the kids isn't ideal too.lol
But when I'm on my knees with my hair being pulled back, knowing I'm about to have his cock in my mouth is a different story.
And if he uses the word "my" first.. Well that's the biggest turn on ever for me.
I won't allow slag though.. Just an instant turn off.. "
Exactly this!!!!
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Not meaning to sound aggressive but if my wife wants to be called slut then that's between me and her. That doesn't mean I'll go around calling every woman I have sex with a slut or worse unless she actually asks me to call her it.
End of the day we all have kinks that we like and kinks we don't understand or like but in this lifestyle it's about live and let live. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"We have never understood why guys call their wife a slut??? If the guy likes the wife being with other guy(s), couples or you swap as a couple or what ever....then I would say she is a good girl/naughty/greedy girl, but we hate the word slut.....
Why aren't the males that swap called slut husbands, but they are more likely to be classed as 'Players', 'Studs' or 'Geezers'.
Agree or disagree?
I like being called slut, usually pre fixed with "dirty little" ....
Or filthy bitch, naughty whore..
It depends where and why and how.I mean in sainsburies whilst shopping is a no no, or around the kids isn't ideal too.lol
But when I'm on my knees with my hair being pulled back, knowing I'm about to have his cock in my mouth is a different story.
And if he uses the word "my" first.. Well that's the biggest turn on ever for me.
I won't allow slag though.. Just an instant turn off.. "
Same for us too…but language is personal, especially in the bedroom. Understanding how to use it to enhance the experience for our guests and ourselves is an important part of the fun. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
Personally, I think that there is a world of difference between a couple being happy with the woman being called a slut and a random stranger calling a woman a slut. The former is perfectly acceptable, the latter insulting and presumptuous. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Personally, I think that there is a world of difference between a couple being happy with the woman being called a slut and a random stranger calling a woman a slut. The former is perfectly acceptable, the latter insulting and presumptuous. "
It’s almost as if language can have entirely different meanings, implications and effects depending on the context of its usage!  |
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A few women i have been with in the moment have liked been called a slut, and by in the moment i mean as im fucking them from behind whilst pulling their hair or sliding my cock in their mouths.
Im guessing alot of women like to be teated like a lady in the street and a "slut" between the sheets. |
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Couldn't agree more, it's all about context.
My man calling me a naughty slut when I'm being sexually promiscuous a real turn on.... when he tells me I've been a naughty slut on the way home after I've been riding him and sucking another cock... a turn on...
Someone I don't know calling me a slut in a derogatory way because they don't understand it... total no no....
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To us, a slut is not the same as a slag. Being slutty is kinda naughty and dirty with fun. Being a slag is unclean dirty and not overly nice in manner. This is just our opinion on the wording and how we peraonally use it
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By *ebbie69Couple
over a year ago
milton keynes |
"We have never understood why guys call their wife a slut??? If the guy likes the wife being with other guy(s), couples or you swap as a couple or what ever....then I would say she is a good girl/naughty/greedy girl, but we hate the word slut.....
Why aren't the males that swap called slut husbands, but they are more likely to be classed as 'Players', 'Studs' or 'Geezers'.
Agree or disagree?
I like being called slut, usually pre fixed with "dirty little" ....
Or filthy bitch, naughty whore..
It depends where and why and how.I mean in sainsburies whilst shopping is a no no, or around the kids isn't ideal too.lol
But when I'm on my knees with my hair being pulled back, knowing I'm about to have his cock in my mouth is a different story.
And if he uses the word "my" first.. Well that's the biggest turn on ever for me.
I won't allow slag though.. Just an instant turn off.. "
This is me to a tee |
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"We have never understood why guys call their wife a slut??? If the guy likes the wife being with other guy(s), couples or you swap as a couple or what ever....then I would say she is a good girl/naughty/greedy girl, but we hate the word slut.....
Why aren't the males that swap called slut husbands, but they are more likely to be classed as 'Players', 'Studs' or 'Geezers'.
Agree or disagree?"
Coz it turns them on perhaps? |
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I guess it's down to individual preference
To me good girl is something you'd say to a dog
But then I do call my husband a slut or a man whore
But if anyone else was to call either of us a slut, it's a firm no, unless you know us |
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