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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok ladies, which of you would consider a married man and which of you say it’s a definite no-no. Be interested to see what the consensus is. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am looking forward to this thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I say 80% say no way cheating mean are c#%ts and 20% dont judge.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

Not for me personally, I'm sure there's plenty who will though, no drama easy life

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always struggle on fab even though I have full consent to be here as it's hard to prove I'm not just cheating, but at a club I find mine and the wifes arrangement a very good talking point and get a lot more interest. Nick

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By *oxy jWoman over a year ago

somerset

i dont judge ... we also learnt a very very long time ago that you think your meeting a single guy but your not there is no real way of knowing ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i dont judge ... we also learnt a very very long time ago that you think your meeting a single guy but your not there is no real way of knowing ..

I salute you

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By *arried BifemWoman over a year ago

somewhere in the midlands

I don’t judge, but if a man is single I’m not interested

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan over a year ago

Norwich

"I don’t judge, but if a man is single I’m not interested

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If only I was younger and nearer, you're the unjudgmental girl I'm looking for x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don’t judge, but if a man is single I’m not interested

I salute you

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By *outhwalesbbwWoman over a year ago

Bridgend,

Nope,nope,nope

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *annibal_LickedherMan over a year ago

The Side of the Mersey

“Opens popcorn and slips off wedding ring”

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By *arried BifemWoman over a year ago

somewhere in the midlands

Nnnooooooo, you have to keep the ring on

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By *ames5169Man over a year ago

Birmingham

"Nnnooooooo, you have to keep the ring on

I promise to !! Xx

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By *tranger swings 69Couple over a year ago

cheshire

No judgement with us, just don’t bring drama to us lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nnnooooooo, you have to keep the ring on

I don’t have one!

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By *uliette500Woman over a year ago

Hull

I don't judge.

I have met married men, generally they are more likely to be discreet and less likely to get clingy and possessive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definitely prefer married men over singles as often there's a reason why they are single...

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By *moothforestMan over a year ago

New Forest

There's a reasonable percentage of ladies on here that are partnered or married and looking for fun without their partners knowledge but won't meet up with married men in similar position. Why is that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Definitely prefer married men over singles as often there's a reason why they are single...

Very true

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By *arried BifemWoman over a year ago

somewhere in the midlands

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By *arried BifemWoman over a year ago

somewhere in the midlands

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By *arried BifemWoman over a year ago

somewhere in the midlands

"There's a reasonable percentage of ladies on here that are partnered or married and looking for fun without their partners knowledge but won't meet up with married men in similar position. Why is that?"

Worried about potential drama or it not being very sisterly I imagine, but as I’m not one of them your guess is as good as mine

( ha third time replying lucky )

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By *acial giverMan over a year ago

hull

"I don't judge.

I have met married men, generally they are more likely to be discreet and less likely to get clingy and possessive. "

Think we're on same wavelenth

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By *annibal_LickedherMan over a year ago

The Side of the Mersey

"Nnnooooooo, you have to keep the ring on

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fair enough

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like to rub my wedding ring on other women's clits... Just sayin haha

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By *arried BifemWoman over a year ago

somewhere in the midlands

"I like to rub my wedding ring on other women's clits... Just sayin haha"

I hope it’s a tight fitting ring otherwise that could end very badly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Guilty I have

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have, never had a problem with them

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By *annylickerMan over a year ago

Chester-le-Street

I openly tell people I'm married, and she doesn't know I'm on here. There's reasons why. But 99.9% of the time, it's deleted, blocked or a polite no. Out of the 3, polite no goes a long way x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I openly tell people I'm married, and she doesn't know I'm on here. There's reasons why. But 99.9% of the time, it's deleted, blocked or a polite no. Out of the 3, polite no goes a long way x"

Least your honest and put it on your profile lots don't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok ladies, which of you would consider a married man and which of you say it’s a definite no-no. Be interested to see what the consensus is. Thanks. "

We've met married men, as others have said they are generally more discreet.

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By *portbilly1976Man over a year ago

manchester

"I like to rub my wedding ring on other women's clits... Just sayin haha

I hope it’s a tight fitting ring otherwise that could end very badly

Similar theme, but I love a married lady to wank me off with her left hand and allow some to flow over her rings

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By *annylickerMan over a year ago

Chester-le-Street

"I openly tell people I'm married, and she doesn't know I'm on here. There's reasons why. But 99.9% of the time, it's deleted, blocked or a polite no. Out of the 3, polite no goes a long way x

Least your honest and put it on your profile lots don't. "

Find it best to be as honest as possible x

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By *JstarsoloWoman over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

Only if the wife knows. Not interested in sneaking about behind the wife's back.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No judgment and in some cases we prefer married guys!

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

Their personal life is none of my concern.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I openly tell people I'm married, and she doesn't know I'm on here. There's reasons why. But 99.9% of the time, it's deleted, blocked or a polite no. Out of the 3, polite no goes a long way x

Least your honest and put it on your profile lots don't.

Find it best to be as honest as possible x "

Some do say when they chat to you even if they don't have it written down on their profile.

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple over a year ago

Rushden

If the married guy is going to fuck someone anyway, I might aswell have some fun.

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By *annylickerMan over a year ago

Chester-le-Street

"I openly tell people I'm married, and she doesn't know I'm on here. There's reasons why. But 99.9% of the time, it's deleted, blocked or a polite no. Out of the 3, polite no goes a long way x"

There you go, someone looked. So sent message, and straight up deleted.

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By *uliette500Woman over a year ago

Hull

I was waiting to get the backlash for my previous comment but it seems there's a lot of us out there who prefer married men.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve been honest and it’s gone against me

But I definitely annoyed that I don’t live closer to some women on this forum lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve been honest and it’s gone against me

But I definitely annoyed that I don’t live closer to some women on this forum lol

Yeah me too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We never use to mind until we had some guys wife messaging us as she found his account. Avoid like the plague now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve been honest and it’s gone against me

But I definitely annoyed that I don’t live closer to some women on this forum lol

So you assume that because they will meet married men, they are guaranteed to fuck you??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok ladies, which of you would consider a married man and which of you say it’s a definite no-no. Be interested to see what the consensus is. Thanks. "

If the only thing going for him is that he's married, then no.

Or if he whines about his situation, no.

Or if he's half of a Swinger couple, no.

Otherwise I couldn't care less if they are attached.

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By *r_Mrs_FoxCouple over a year ago

Wantage

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By *iss KinkWoman over a year ago

North West

No unless the wife knows

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By *r_Mrs_FoxCouple over a year ago

Wantage

"I openly tell people I'm married, and she doesn't know I'm on here. There's reasons why. But 99.9% of the time, it's deleted, blocked or a polite no. Out of the 3, polite no goes a long way x

There you go, someone looked. So sent message, and straight up deleted. "

You know there are other reasons your message could be deleted.

Your profile picture and username gives me the ick for example.

We don’t judge but if a wife would approach us and ask I would be honest to her and tell the truth.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman over a year ago

Thurrock

"Ok ladies, which of you would consider a married man and which of you say it’s a definite no-no. Be interested to see what the consensus is. Thanks.

If the only thing going for him is that he's married, then no.

Or if he whines about his situation, no.

Or if he's half of a Swinger couple, no.

Otherwise I couldn't care less if they are attached. "

Out of curiosity why a straight no to the male half of a swinging couple

I'd always consider them to be reliable, as they wouldn't want to be messed about in their couple, guaranteed no agro as the wife already knows etc

Wondering what warning bells I may be missing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Married and wife does not know im here totaly up front and honest about it but not a sniff so i just enjoy the pics and forums now

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By *arried BifemWoman over a year ago

somewhere in the midlands

"I was waiting to get the backlash for my previous comment but it seems there's a lot of us out there who prefer married men. "

The amount of shit I’ve had ( from women and single men ) over it in the past, they’ve probably used it all up lol as I’m very open about my preference and don’t care what people think. My body, my choice

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By *r_Mrs_FoxCouple over a year ago

Wantage

"Ok ladies, which of you would consider a married man and which of you say it’s a definite no-no. Be interested to see what the consensus is. Thanks.

If the only thing going for him is that he's married, then no.

Or if he whines about his situation, no.

Or if he's half of a Swinger couple, no.

Otherwise I couldn't care less if they are attached.

Out of curiosity why a straight no to the male half of a swinging couple

I'd always consider them to be reliable, as they wouldn't want to be messed about in their couple, guaranteed no agro as the wife already knows etc

Wondering what warning bells I may be missing

Yeah, would be interesting to know. I like it when J goes out on his own

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By *layTimeEssexCouple over a year ago

Stansted

"Ok ladies, which of you would consider a married man and which of you say it’s a definite no-no. Be interested to see what the consensus is. Thanks. "

I would also like to know if men would consider a married lady or a definite no-no

We would and have for men and ladies BUT the big problem is always scheduling as much less likely to be free weekends which is generally when we meet.

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By *arried BifemWoman over a year ago

somewhere in the midlands

"Ok ladies, which of you would consider a married man and which of you say it’s a definite no-no. Be interested to see what the consensus is. Thanks.

I would also like to know if men would consider a married lady or a definite no-no

We would and have for men and ladies BUT the big problem is always scheduling as much less likely to be free weekends which is generally when we meet. "

I love sending hubs off to married ladies as he has the same kink as me for the marrieds

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By *layTimeEssexCouple over a year ago

Stansted

"I’ve been honest and it’s gone against me

But I definitely annoyed that I don’t live closer to some women on this forum lol

So you assume that because they will meet married men, they are guaranteed to fuck you??

To be fair he realy didn't say that. Of course we like to all like to chat to people who might consider us and who live relatively close.

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By *penbicoupleCouple over a year ago

Northampton

Alice hasn't got a problem with it. We don't know someone's situation and we don't exactly carry out a full investigation before a meet any way.

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By *weetiepie99Woman over a year ago

cardiff

People are so selfish, no drama, not my problem, more discreet, its our kink etc etc...all me me me. What about the wife or husband at home and the absolute devastation that could follow...Selfish

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wouldn't meet married guys because everything has to be on their terms like when they can get out, can't talk etc etc etc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok ladies, which of you would consider a married man and which of you say it’s a definite no-no. Be interested to see what the consensus is. Thanks.

If the only thing going for him is that he's married, then no.

Or if he whines about his situation, no.

Or if he's half of a Swinger couple, no.

Otherwise I couldn't care less if they are attached.

Out of curiosity why a straight no to the male half of a swinging couple

I'd always consider them to be reliable, as they wouldn't want to be messed about in their couple, guaranteed no agro as the wife already knows etc

Wondering what warning bells I may be missing

Sounds like it works for you. It's just not my thing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People are so selfish, no drama, not my problem, more discreet, its our kink etc etc...all me me me. What about the wife or husband at home and the absolute devastation that could follow...Selfish"

The married person is the one cheating. Not my problem.

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By *weetiepie99Woman over a year ago

cardiff

"People are so selfish, no drama, not my problem, more discreet, its our kink etc etc...all me me me. What about the wife or husband at home and the absolute devastation that could follow...Selfish

The married person is the one cheating. Not my problem."

Yea...selfish like i said...you are complicit

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By *penbicoupleCouple over a year ago

Northampton

"The amount of shit I’ve had ( from women and single men ) over it in the past, they’ve probably used it all up lol as I’m very open about my preference and don’t care what people think. My body, my choice

When my partner first suggested intentionally looking for a married man, I was more than a little shocked.

However, it's probably fair to say that it's become one of her favourite things these days.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple over a year ago

Weymouth

Not for me definitely. Would never rip into someone that plays with married men, that's their choice. But it wouldn't sit right with me personally - Xeno

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By *inkylipsWoman over a year ago

Debauchery

It’s a no from me, Im not going to go into some moral high ground because I’ve done things in my past that I’m not proud of. I just prefer a clear conscience

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By *penbicoupleCouple over a year ago

Northampton

"People are so selfish, no drama, not my problem, more discreet, its our kink etc etc...all me me me. What about the wife or husband at home and the absolute devastation that could follow...Selfish

The married person is the one cheating. Not my problem.

Yea...selfish like i said...you are complicit"

Why is anyone obliged to care about the person at home? That sounds harsh, but I mean it literally. Why would I care about someone I've never met and have no intention of having in my life?

Living like that sounds like a recipe for poor mental health!

It's their partner's job to care, but if they don't it's got nothing to do with any of the rest of us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People are so selfish, no drama, not my problem, more discreet, its our kink etc etc...all me me me. What about the wife or husband at home and the absolute devastation that could follow...Selfish

The married person is the one cheating. Not my problem.

Yea...selfish like i said...you are complicit

Why is anyone obliged to care about the person at home? That sounds harsh, but I mean it literally. Why would I care about someone I've never met and have no intention of having in my life?

Living like that sounds like a recipe for poor mental health!

It's their partner's job to care, but if they don't it's got nothing to do with any of the rest of us."

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By *arried BifemWoman over a year ago

somewhere in the midlands

"People are so selfish, no drama, not my problem, more discreet, its our kink etc etc...all me me me. What about the wife or husband at home and the absolute devastation that could follow...Selfish

The married person is the one cheating. Not my problem.

Yea...selfish like i said...you are complicit"

The only person being selfish in that situation is the one cheating. As they know what could happen through their actions to their life and the ones they are close too.

But what is being selfish? Living your life thereby you want to live it? Yeah I’m selfish me

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By *weetiepie99Woman over a year ago

cardiff

"People are so selfish, no drama, not my problem, more discreet, its our kink etc etc...all me me me. What about the wife or husband at home and the absolute devastation that could follow...Selfish

The married person is the one cheating. Not my problem.

Yea...selfish like i said...you are complicit

Why is anyone obliged to care about the person at home? That sounds harsh, but I mean it literally. Why would I care about someone I've never met and have no intention of having in my life?

Living like that sounds like a recipe for poor mental health!

It's their partner's job to care, but if they don't it's got nothing to do with any of the rest of us."

Yea poor mental health if you choose to become part of it...see its a choice, choose to be part od the reason to rip a family apart...or choose not to. You have a very naive way of looking at it and are part of the possible devastation that could ensue..because you choose to be involved

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By *weetiepie99Woman over a year ago

cardiff

"People are so selfish, no drama, not my problem, more discreet, its our kink etc etc...all me me me. What about the wife or husband at home and the absolute devastation that could follow...Selfish

The married person is the one cheating. Not my problem.

Yea...selfish like i said...you are complicit

The only person being selfish in that situation is the one cheating. As they know what could happen through their actions to their life and the ones they are close too.

But what is being selfish? Living your life thereby you want to live it? Yeah I’m selfish me

Yep you totally are...see how it feels if the shoe is on the other foot...

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By *penbicoupleCouple over a year ago

Northampton

"Yea poor mental health if you choose to become part of it...see its a choice, choose to be part od the reason to rip a family apart...or choose not to. You have a very naive way of looking at it and are part of the possible devastation that could ensue..because you choose to be involved"

You know me so well after one forum post!

Not naive in the slightest, actually. In fact, as I've had more experience with this issue than you, it's possible that you're the naive one.

Hint: he's not going to NOT cheat if we don't get involved.

However, I'll leave it there. You must be very busy on your high ground.

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By *weetiepie99Woman over a year ago

cardiff

You know me so well after one forum post!

Not naive in the slightest, actually. In fact, as I've had more experience with this issue than you, it's possible that you're the naive one.

Hint: he's not going to NOT cheat if we don't get involved.

However, I'll leave it there. You must be very busy on your high ground."

I never said he/she wasn't going to cheat. Very defensive of you...whats the old saying, thou protesteth too much...and well done for having more experience...good on you

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It would be a no from me ,unless his wife was aware of him meeting.

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By *arried BifemWoman over a year ago

somewhere in the midlands

You know me so well after one forum post!

Not naive in the slightest, actually. In fact, as I've had more experience with this issue than you, it's possible that you're the naive one.

Hint: he's not going to NOT cheat if we don't get involved.

However, I'll leave it there. You must be very busy on your high ground."

I think you need to change your username to Anakin

As the post above alluded to, I fear it might be your mental health that might be in question. Passing judgement and telling people how they must conform to your view and beliefs.

My husband plays solo as sex is that, sex and if it ever led to more than that, then so is life. I’m not his master or keeper, it’s his life to live the way he chooses but I’m not going to force him to live a life he doesn’t want to.

I guess that’s where being 100% open and honest comes into it with each other, something a lot of people lack in a relationship as they would rather settle than find the best thing ever ( as I have and many others on the site have done. Ps we’ve been married 20+ years ).

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By *weetiepie99Woman over a year ago

cardiff

You know me so well after one forum post!

Not naive in the slightest, actually. In fact, as I've had more experience with this issue than you, it's possible that you're the naive one.

Hint: he's not going to NOT cheat if we don't get involved.

However, I'll leave it there. You must be very busy on your high ground.

I think you need to change your username to Anakin

As the post above alluded to, I fear it might be your mental health that might be in question. Passing judgement and telling people how they must conform to your view and beliefs.

My mental health is fine thanks. I have my opinion. You have yours. I'm not telling people how to live their lives...i'm giving my opinion which i'm entitled to. You do you...i'll do me.

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By *heekyredsoloWoman over a year ago

bromborough

Well!

I find playing with a married man kinky!

Especially if he leaves his wedding ring on!

Something about the forbidden fruit etc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *ritishAsianMan over a year ago

Leeds

I am single where i am looking for nsa fun with a female or a couple.

Regular encounters can be on

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By *arried BifemWoman over a year ago

somewhere in the midlands

You know me so well after one forum post!

Not naive in the slightest, actually. In fact, as I've had more experience with this issue than you, it's possible that you're the naive one.

Hint: he's not going to NOT cheat if we don't get involved.

However, I'll leave it there. You must be very busy on your high ground.

I think you need to change your username to Anakin

As the post above alluded to, I fear it might be your mental health that might be in question. Passing judgement and telling people how they must conform to your view and beliefs.

My mental health is fine thanks. I have my opinion. You have yours. I'm not telling people how to live their lives...i'm giving my opinion which i'm entitled to. You do you...i'll do me."

Do me a favour, if you ever get married, give your husband my profile. After I’ve fucked him you can tell me how it feels and I’ll probably still have the same, don’t give a shit attitude

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By *hroatitboyMan over a year ago

GLA

Well if you’re on here and see a married man that’s interested and you are too you’re as well going for it he’s going to cheat on his Mrs regardless lol

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By *ustyWoman over a year ago

inverclyde

Nope if wife don't know..its cheating

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By *weetiepie99Woman over a year ago

cardiff

You know me so well after one forum post!

Not naive in the slightest, actually. In fact, as I've had more experience with this issue than you, it's possible that you're the naive one.

Hint: he's not going to NOT cheat if we don't get involved.

However, I'll leave it there. You must be very busy on your high ground.

I think you need to change your username to Anakin

As the post above alluded to, I fear it might be your mental health that might be in question. Passing judgement and telling people how they must conform to your view and beliefs.

My mental health is fine thanks. I have my opinion. You have yours. I'm not telling people how to live their lives...i'm giving my opinion which i'm entitled to. You do you...i'll do me.

Do me a favour, if you ever get married, give your husband my profile. After I’ve fucked him you can tell me how it feels and I’ll probably still have the same, don’t give a shit attitude"

Good on you...but you def won't be his type

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dont judge people here that are cheating, but i wont meet them

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By *uliette500Woman over a year ago

Hull

"I was waiting to get the backlash for my previous comment but it seems there's a lot of us out there who prefer married men.

Absolutely I'm with you on that.

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By *arried BifemWoman over a year ago

somewhere in the midlands

You know me so well after one forum post!

Not naive in the slightest, actually. In fact, as I've had more experience with this issue than you, it's possible that you're the naive one.

Hint: he's not going to NOT cheat if we don't get involved.

However, I'll leave it there. You must be very busy on your high ground.

I think you need to change your username to Anakin

As the post above alluded to, I fear it might be your mental health that might be in question. Passing judgement and telling people how they must conform to your view and beliefs.

My mental health is fine thanks. I have my opinion. You have yours. I'm not telling people how to live their lives...i'm giving my opinion which i'm entitled to. You do you...i'll do me.

Do me a favour, if you ever get married, give your husband my profile. After I’ve fucked him you can tell me how it feels and I’ll probably still have the same, don’t give a shit attitude

Good on you...but you def won't be his type"

Yeah I’m real where he’s just imaginary I guess

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By *uliette500Woman over a year ago

Hull

"People are so selfish, no drama, not my problem, more discreet, its our kink etc etc...all me me me. What about the wife or husband at home and the absolute devastation that could follow...Selfish

The married person is the one cheating. Not my problem.

Yea...selfish like i said...you are complicit

Why is anyone obliged to care about the person at home? That sounds harsh, but I mean it literally. Why would I care about someone I've never met and have no intention of having in my life?

Living like that sounds like a recipe for poor mental health!

It's their partner's job to care, but if they don't it's got nothing to do with any of the rest of us."

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By *arried BifemWoman over a year ago

somewhere in the midlands

"I was waiting to get the backlash for my previous comment but it seems there's a lot of us out there who prefer married men.

Absolutely I'm with you on that. "

Hi five

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By *weetiepie99Woman over a year ago

cardiff

You know me so well after one forum post!

Not naive in the slightest, actually. In fact, as I've had more experience with this issue than you, it's possible that you're the naive one.

Hint: he's not going to NOT cheat if we don't get involved.

However, I'll leave it there. You must be very busy on your high ground.

I think you need to change your username to Anakin

As the post above alluded to, I fear it might be your mental health that might be in question. Passing judgement and telling people how they must conform to your view and beliefs.

My mental health is fine thanks. I have my opinion. You have yours. I'm not telling people how to live their lives...i'm giving my opinion which i'm entitled to. You do you...i'll do me.

Do me a favour, if you ever get married, give your husband my profile. After I’ve fucked him you can tell me how it feels and I’ll probably still have the same, don’t give a shit attitude

Good on you...but you def won't be his type

Yeah I’m real where he’s just imaginary I guess

Whatever you say...hi five

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

It's a no from me, have the balls to be honest with your wife.

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By *penbicoupleCouple over a year ago

Northampton

" thou protesteth too much...and well done for having more experience...good on you

Didn't protest for a second. No reason to do so.

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By *penbicoupleCouple over a year ago

Northampton

"Do me a favour, if you ever get married, give your husband my profile. After I’ve fucked him you can tell me how it feels and I’ll probably still have the same, don’t give a shit attitude"

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By *weetiepie99Woman over a year ago

cardiff

"Do me a favour, if you ever get married, give your husband my profile. After I’ve fucked him you can tell me how it feels and I’ll probably still have the same, don’t give a shit attitude

I know...its hysterical

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve been honest and it’s gone against me

But I definitely annoyed that I don’t live closer to some women on this forum lol

So you assume that because they will meet married men, they are guaranteed to fuck you??

To be fair he realy didn't say that. Of course we like to all like to chat to people who might consider us and who live relatively close. "

Really don’t assume anything

I respect the delete or polite no as I understand it’s not for everyone

But you haven’t a clue about my circumstance

And if you would like to come and fuck my brains out then I’ll happily decline

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By *layTimeEssexCouple over a year ago

Stansted

Emotions running high on this topic as usual.

Haven't scrolled everything but didn't see a man saying he wouldn't meet one of the many married women here

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By *alkthattalkMan over a year ago

Darlington

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By *alkthattalkMan over a year ago

Darlington

"Nnnooooooo, you have to keep the ring on

Amen to that!

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By *otwife and MasterCouple over a year ago

Derby

No. If he hasn’t the balls to tell the person he’s married to, he won’t be man enough for us. Not judgmental, just fact.

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By *oodles09Woman over a year ago

Newark

Gosh who knew this subject could explode haha!

I don't have a preference....at least the openly married ones are being honest...something I value in all that I meet.

Guaranteed there's many married/partnered people on here that profess to be single!

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By *ust me 999Man over a year ago

near you

"I am looking forward to this thread "

Can feel something bars going to happen lol

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Gosh who knew this subject could explode haha!

I don't have a preference....at least the openly married ones are being honest...something I value in all that I meet.

Guaranteed there's many married/partnered people on here that profess to be single!"

I agree. I imagine many guys on here have said they are single and have sex with people who don’t want sex with married guys and simply don’t know that they have.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because it’s so hard to find somewhere to meet if you can’t use either of your houses

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By *ndyn50000Man over a year ago

Birmingham

I'd say more ladies than not are non-judgemental on this. Some actually prefer it and some don't (just like any other characteristic)

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By *ndyn50000Man over a year ago

Birmingham

Because it’s so hard to find somewhere to meet if you can’t use either of your houses"

Where there is a will there is usually a way!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Honest from the start as the username suggests. If you are not interested fair enough. If you are then even better x

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By *wales_hotwifeCouple over a year ago

Cardiff

I can’t stand the thought of being “the other woman” though I’m starting to think that genuinely single men are the new unicorns

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Emotions running high on this topic as usual.

Haven't scrolled everything but didn't see a man saying he wouldn't meet one of the many married women here

Totally agree

And I guarantee there’s a few that aren’t honest about it

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By *penbicoupleCouple over a year ago

Northampton

Jack told me about this thread, so I just HAD to pop along and see what all the fuss was all about.

I am currently writing my first book. It is on How to Have an Affair.

Does that answer your question, OP?

Alice x

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By *ndyn50000Man over a year ago

Birmingham

"I can’t stand the thought of being “the other woman” though I’m starting to think that genuinely single men are the new unicorns

Not at all, both single and married men only have one horn....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I play alone with 100% permission of my better half. We have zero drama as we are extremely relaxed and 100% honest with each other. I never remove my wedding ring. I would love her to play on her own too but it’s not something she’s interested in. People who have met us on n clubs etc. get how we are. But I completely understand those who won’t play with attached guys and you don’t know what lies beneath. For me, it’s honesty all the way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh it is haha. Women love it

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By * F 2018Couple over a year ago

shropshire

"Ok ladies, which of you would consider a married man and which of you say it’s a definite no-no. Be interested to see what the consensus is. Thanks. "

It's a no no

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By *ittlebirdWoman over a year ago

The Big Smoke

It’s a no from me

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By *oonMagicManMan over a year ago

Newcastle under Lyme

Because it’s so hard to find somewhere to meet if you can’t use either of your houses"

This is what hotel "day room" bookings are for.

I'm meeting my also married girlfriend in one tomorrow. Makes live very easy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I never judge. I should imagine the majority of the single men I have met probably had partners but I consider other people's relationships to be their own and not for me to ask or interfere in.

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By *rivervaderMan over a year ago

bolton

Finally a post that doesn’t hate us married men

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By *ddfellowMan over a year ago

Newferry, wirral

"I don’t judge, but if a man is single I’m not interested

"
Top answer

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By *iss KinkWoman over a year ago

North West

"Finally a post that doesn’t hate us married men "

I think you will find it’s a mixed reaction.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't ever fool around with men who're cheating, but neither do I judge them. I'm friends with a few married men and it's rarely black and white.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not for me, as my profile states!

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By *ab FunstersCouple over a year ago

Midlands

No thanks..we always feel sorry for any unsuspecting partners.

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By *tarburst babydollMan over a year ago

Dingwall

Definitely not for us

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By *ilverBiBlondeCouple over a year ago

Suffolk

In the reverse situation, I get a kick out of having someone else's wife without him knowing.

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By *abfipsMan over a year ago

chester

"No. If he hasn’t the balls to tell the person he’s married to, he won’t be man enough for us. Not judgmental, just fact. "

Wow, and you say you’re not judgmental lol.

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple over a year ago

Middle England

Not wanting to be judgmental but we wouldn't arrange or knowingly meet a married man.

Why is ok to play with other women and not let others play with your wife? It's not in the true essence of swinging and as many other posts have said it's actually cheating.

Yes, there are a million and one excuses ete etc but it's not for us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don’t judge, but if a man is single I’m not interested

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nnnooooooo, you have to keep the ring on

Makes it a lot naughtier...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Definitely prefer married men over singles as often there's a reason why they are single...

That's a good way of looking at it

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By *yphodMan over a year ago

London

I'd say attitudes to cheating have swapped these days. If a man cheats he is nothing but a swine. When a woman cheats it's "Go Grrrrl"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok ladies, which of you would consider a married man and which of you say it’s a definite no-no. Be interested to see what the consensus is. Thanks.

I would also like to know if men would consider a married lady or a definite no-no

We would and have for men and ladies BUT the big problem is always scheduling as much less likely to be free weekends which is generally when we meet. "

I have met married ladies most are doing it behind their hubbies back but only a few with consent, it doesn't bother me so long as there is no backlash...

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple over a year ago

Weymouth

"Not wanting to be judgmental but we wouldn't arrange or knowingly meet a married man.

Why is ok to play with other women and not let others play with your wife? It's not in the true essence of swinging and as many other posts have said it's actually cheating.

I imagine their excuse will be along the lines of her being "frigid" etc

Yes, there are a million and one excuses ete etc but it's not for us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You know me so well after one forum post!

Not naive in the slightest, actually. In fact, as I've had more experience with this issue than you, it's possible that you're the naive one.

Hint: he's not going to NOT cheat if we don't get involved.

However, I'll leave it there. You must be very busy on your high ground.

I think you need to change your username to Anakin

As the post above alluded to, I fear it might be your mental health that might be in question. Passing judgement and telling people how they must conform to your view and beliefs.

My mental health is fine thanks. I have my opinion. You have yours. I'm not telling people how to live their lives...i'm giving my opinion which i'm entitled to. You do you...i'll do me.

Do me a favour, if you ever get married, give your husband my profile. After I’ve fucked him you can tell me how it feels and I’ll probably still have the same, don’t give a shit attitude

Good on you...but you def won't be his type"

He would be crazy not to fancy Bifem, have you seen how fit she is.

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

cahoots

Definitely a no from us with anyone who is cheating. It's happened before unknowingly when I was single and they just wanted out of their relationship so we're looking for someone new to latch onto. Too much drama for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Quite to opinion divider, I know women on both sides, it depends if you empathise with the woman being cheated on or just enjoy the absolute power that you have over the man in question. In the end its your opinion of the behaviour and you never really know why the man or woman in question is in that position nor there true desires. If they work for you then enjoy and if not then move on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have to say I will meet married men.

From a sexual point of view they are having sex with me because myvattitude to sex is not what their partners is.

They will want to do things with me that they cant or dont want to ask their wives to do.

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple over a year ago

Ryde

We prefer to meet married guys. This isn't anything to do with the thrill of luring someone away from their wife, but it's for the more practical reason that they are much more inclined to be discrete and keep their mouths shut about things.

There are usually less alpha-male traits to contend with, too. We also tend to go for those with little experience of playing away, as there is less chance of STIs.

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By *ilthy fun bareCouple over a year ago

Ripon

"Definitely prefer married men over singles as often there's a reason why they are single...

Totally agree with this…

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Definitely prefer married men over singles as often there's a reason why they are single...

Totally agree with this…"

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple over a year ago

Exeter

"Definitely prefer married men over singles as often there's a reason why they are single...

Totally agree with this…

Avoid like a rabbid Dog!

If they have no respect for their own partner then they aren't obviously going to have any respect for random people they hope to meet on here!

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan over a year ago

Norwich

"We prefer to meet married guys. This isn't anything to do with the thrill of luring someone away from their wife, but it's for the more practical reason that they are much more inclined to be discrete and keep their mouths shut about things.

There are usually less alpha-male traits to contend with, too. We also tend to go for those with little experience of playing away, as there is less chance of STIs."

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By *etefromderbyMan over a year ago

Derby

There are usually less alpha-male traits to contend with, too. We also tend to go for those with little experience of playing away, as there is less chance of STIs.

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By *penbicoupleCouple over a year ago

Northampton

"If they have no respect for their own partner then they aren't obviously going to have any respect for random people they hope to meet on here!"

That doesn't follow as logically as I think you think it does.

Perhaps the reason they have no respect for their partner is because they know them!

Alice has met married men (not on here, tbf) and *every single one of them* has been incredibly respectful.

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By *rivervaderMan over a year ago

bolton

"Finally a post that doesn’t hate us married men

I think you will find it’s a mixed reaction. "

Always positive

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By *otwifeandcuck123Couple over a year ago

london

Makes no difference to us to be honest

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By *arried BifemWoman over a year ago

somewhere in the midlands

Do me a favour, if you ever get married, give your husband my profile. After I’ve fucked him you can tell me how it feels and I’ll probably still have the same, don’t give a shit attitude

Good on you...but you def won't be his type

He would be crazy not to fancy Bifem, have you seen how fit she is."

Ah bless you

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By *hrops56Man over a year ago

Telford

I'm married and I'm not here to be judged , if people don't want to meet married men I respect their decision

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By *agicfingers1Man over a year ago

near Brighton

"I'm married and I'm not here to be judged , if people don't want to meet married men I respect their decision "

Totally agree!

Hence why I'm straight forward and honest about it on my profile

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple over a year ago

Exeter

"I'm married and I'm not here to be judged , if people don't want to meet married men I respect their decision

Totally agree!

Hence why I'm straight forward and honest about it on my profile "

But you've got consent so the majority won't have an issue with that.

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By *agicfingers1Man over a year ago

near Brighton

"I'm married and I'm not here to be judged , if people don't want to meet married men I respect their decision

Totally agree!

Hence why I'm straight forward and honest about it on my profile

But you've got consent so the majority won't have an issue with that."

You'd be surprised, but each to their own and I have the upmost respect for people's decisions. We can't all be for everyone after all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

just interested what is the reason a married man will use swingers? just curious

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By *lean_CutMan over a year ago

Rasen area

Great. I love these threads..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

for me is a no. don't get married or find someone who is going to accept your lifestyle, but don't destroy someone's life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just to be devils advocate, isn’t letting someone who’s not your wife or husband fucking you wrong in the first place, just saying

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By *penbicoupleCouple over a year ago

Northampton

"for me is a no. don't get married or find someone who is going to accept your lifestyle, but don't destroy someone's life"

What if it doesn't destroy someone's life? What if their life is already being destroyed and this is a vital outlet?

What if we don't get to judge other people based on our own morals?

What if I just really really wanna?

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By *annibal_LickedherMan over a year ago

The Side of the Mersey

"for me is a no. don't get married or find someone who is going to accept your lifestyle, but don't destroy someone's life

What if it doesn't destroy someone's life? What if their life is already being destroyed and this is a vital outlet?

What if we don't get to judge other people based on our own morals?

What if I just really really wanna?

This is so true. This could be the thing that keeps a marriage together.

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

If I like someone I like them. Doesn’t bother me.

I’ve said it before that in my experience the married ones have been less hassle and probably more respectful to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well this is my opinion, you don't get married if your partner is not going to accept your lifestyle. Sorry for me it is a big noooo

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"for me is a no. don't get married or find someone who is going to accept your lifestyle, but don't destroy someone's life

What if it doesn't destroy someone's life? What if their life is already being destroyed and this is a vital outlet?

What if we don't get to judge other people based on our own morals?

What if I just really really wanna?

This is so true. This could be the thing that keeps a marriage together. "

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By *olvesfunguyMan over a year ago

WOLVERHAMPTON

"just interested what is the reason a married man will use swingers? just curious "

Probably the same reason a married women does.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"just interested what is the reason a married man will use swingers? just curious "
how about ‘so they can have recreational sex with men and women’?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone has their own reason for being here . I dont judge anyone , how can I ? I have not messaged anyone yet for the reason that a lot of women don’t like the idea. I’m not married but I am in a long term relationship.

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I think the best thing to do is to be honest about it. If not on your profile then in the first message. Then people can choose whether to carry on chatting to you or not. I don’t see why anyone would give abuse if you do that. Besides it’s none of their bloody business anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think the best thing to do is to be honest about it. If not on your profile then in the first message. Then people can choose whether to carry on chatting to you or not. I don’t see why anyone would give abuse if you do that. Besides it’s none of their bloody business anyway. "
this! If everyone is honest from the start and both parties don't mind then enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bet you half the women on here are just as filthy as men and wanna cheat themselves , not just men yerno haha

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By *igtone2310Man over a year ago

Beverley

"just interested what is the reason a married man will use swingers? just curious "
My reasoning is i don't want any drama, i love my wife but after illness she no longer enjoys sex, i just want the fun i miss with no ties

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Definitely prefer married men over singles as often there's a reason why they are single...

Totally agree with this…

Avoid like a rabbid Dog!

If they have no respect for their own partner then they aren't obviously going to have any respect for random people they hope to meet on here!"

It's rabid. And I think you're making a big jump assuming those who cheat have no respect for anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Amen!!!!

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By *alum 62Man over a year ago

Dunstable

Good Answer so very true My experience is women don't ask especially if the sex is good

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"just interested what is the reason a married man will use swingers? just curious how about ‘so they can have recreational sex with men and women’?"

so what is the point of getting married. you can have recreational sex and not doing it behind someone's back

and of course I am only talking about married guys who don't tell their wives

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By *olvesfunguyMan over a year ago

WOLVERHAMPTON

"just interested what is the reason a married man will use swingers? just curious how about ‘so they can have recreational sex with men and women’?

so what is the point of getting married. you can have recreational sex and not doing it behind someone's back

and of course I am only talking about married guys who don't tell their wives "

So you're not talking about married women who dont tell their husbands?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nah. I don't make judgements, people can have perfectly valid reasons for being here and shouldn't need to justify themselves. But I generally try to live my life along the lines of not doing to someone anything that I wouldn't want done to me.

And I most certainly wouldn't want someone to fuck my man.

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By *layTimeEssexCouple over a year ago

Stansted

"just interested what is the reason a married man will use swingers? just curious how about ‘so they can have recreational sex with men and women’?

so what is the point of getting married. you can have recreational sex and not doing it behind someone's back

and of course I am only talking about married guys who don't tell their wives

So you're not talking about married women who dont tell their husbands? "

Ssssshhhhh that is it first rule of Fab - it is only single men that can do wrong. Single ladies are perfect and if ever a problem it is the fault of the single men/couples

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"just interested what is the reason a married man will use swingers? just curious how about ‘so they can have recreational sex with men and women’?

so what is the point of getting married. you can have recreational sex and not doing it behind someone's back

and of course I am only talking about married guys who don't tell their wives

So you're not talking about married women who dont tell their husbands? "

the topic was married man not women

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By *P4SEXMan over a year ago

preston

"I don't judge.

I have met married men, generally they are more likely to be discreet and less likely to get clingy and possessive.

Think we're on same wavelenth"

Exactly.

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By *P4SEXMan over a year ago

preston

"for me is a no. don't get married or find someone who is going to accept your lifestyle, but don't destroy someone's life

What if it doesn't destroy someone's life? What if their life is already being destroyed and this is a vital outlet?

What if we don't get to j

udge other people based on our own morals?

What if I just really really wanna?

This is so true. This could be the thing that keeps a marriage together. "

Exactly right. It would be interesting to know how many marriages survive exactly because people are on here. I suppose that is another debate for another post.

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"Bet you half the women on here are just as filthy as men and wanna cheat themselves , not just men yerno haha "

We know women do it too ,its a man who asked the question about married men though .

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