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Where Are The Women Who Play Alone?
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So on fab we see at the very least 300 new profiles per day for each gender section across UK joining fabswingers. Some are genuine, some are time wasters, and then their are the obvious fakes too.
We normally look at the females joining within the Northwest. With the amount of couples looking for a single female, or females in a couple who play solo, the odds are we should all be able to find what we are looking for at the very least once every three months.
So where are all these females and who are they meeting?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Here but being on this scene a while has taught me to be painfully selective. I stopped meeting for one off casual meets. I found I got better sex if I get to know people or negotiate boundaries upfront and not many people have that kind of patience anymore.
I struggled with couples where I can’t keep track of whose sleeping with who on what terms, and it’s not worth putting myself at that kind of risk so largely ruled out couples play entirely.
The result is that I rarely meet anymore and beyond forums am not quite sure why I’m still here!
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I play on my own but I don't meet couples any more. Got fed up with jumping through hoops. And I'm sorry, OP, but even if I was meeting couples, the very length of your profile would put me off (says she knowing full well her profile is a mini essay  ) |
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"With the amount of couples looking for a single female, or females in a couple who play solo, the odds are we should all be able to find what we are looking for at the very least once every three months."
Your logic is off. Just because lots of people are looking for them, doesn't mean they are lots of them out there.
Or, perhaps there are so many couples out there that they now hide the fact they play alone. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Meeting people who they want to meet. I don't really understand the maths of once every few months. I'm a single woman who meets alone. Only alone. Men. Women.
Even couples sometimes but it's more nuanced than just meeting couples alone - there's got to be attraction, the right kind of dynamic. Schedules aligning. Yes, there are lots of *single* women who only meet with others but there are women who are happily meeting couples. |
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"There’s more to attraction than numerical possibility though."
Exactly this, it might sound harsh but the unicorns can afford to be very picky so that makes it very unlikely that us over 50 guys would get a look in when they have a huge choice of fit thirty somethings on here.
Probably even harder for a couple as the single woman has to find both of the couple attractive to be interested. |
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By *elloWoman
over a year ago
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Meeting a couple as a single fem is in my experience very one sided, favouring the couple, acting out their fantasies, and the chance of meeting a couple where you are equally attracted to the male as well as the female is so rare.
meeting up for a 3some with a single male and a single female is alot more fun and satisfying |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Meeting a couple as a single fem is in my experience very one sided, favouring the couple, acting out their fantasies, and the chance of meeting a couple where you are equally attracted to the male as well as the female is so rare.
meeting up for a 3some with a single male and a single female is alot more fun and satisfying "
That’s so interesting! I’ve found the opposite. One threesome I had…the couple had taken the time to find out my favourite cocktail, music, chocolate… and they just did their best to seduce me - it was a feast for the senses. |
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"I play on my own but I don't meet couples any more. Got fed up with jumping through hoops. And I'm sorry, OP, but even if I was meeting couples, the very length of your profile would put me off (says she knowing full well her profile is a mini essay )"
Same, i no longer meet couples either. It was always about them and what they wanted, rather than 3 equals. I also found the female of the couple often got jealous and thought I wanted to steal her man… I can’t be doing with the drama of it all so I only meet single people now. |
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