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By *ull English with tea OP Man over a year ago

London

Says they are not looking for single guys…. yet all their veris are from single guys! I’m confused as seen a lot of this!

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By *aomilatteCouple over a year ago

Midlands

They may message the guys themselves. But have the filter on as they don't want their inbox inundated.

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple over a year ago

Sunderland

Maybe they used to look for single guys but aren't any more? People change tastes and moods

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By *rnypairCouple over a year ago

south Yorkshire

We stopped playing with single guys for quite a while so we changed our profile stating we were not looking for them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ours states that we’re looking for single guys but some days……

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By *andb69Couple over a year ago

leeds

"Says they are not looking for single guys…. yet all their veris are from single guys! I’m confused as seen a lot of this!

It simply means they meet guys in clubs, or choose the guys they want to meet themselves, or don't want to be inundated with messages from guys, or all three.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They may message the guys themselves. But have the filter on as they don't want their inbox inundated."

This…. Turn off the filter and we get hundreds of men after just the wife

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple over a year ago

Lincoln

Maybe they only meet them in clubs to avoid flakers, or it's just socials

LvM

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple over a year ago

Exeter

"Says they are not looking for single guys…. yet all their veris are from single guys! I’m confused as seen a lot of this!

We don't plan to meet singles guys but we have chatted to them in clubs which quite often leads to verifications. No harm in that.

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By *ixenandhoundCouple over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

We don't look for single guys, but we have met them/ had fun with them at clubs which might lead to a veri x

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By *assing Fancies xCouple over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

We aren't looking for single guys or couples but we have verifications from both that we have met and spoken with at social events

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By *layTimeEssexCouple over a year ago

Stansted

"They may message the guys themselves. But have the filter on as they don't want their inbox inundated."

Yes that is us. Sometimes we set as looking for a single guy for a day or two. We get flooded. Also sometimes interested but don’t want our Update feed clogged with crappy updates and cock pics from single men.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It says on our verifications met men even though we don’t seek singletons , but there isn’t a heading for borrowed husband

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By *carletnsparksMan over a year ago

halifax

Might be from webcam views or as others have suggested they find the men they want to speak to and meet themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They may message the guys themselves. But have the filter on as they don't want their inbox inundated."
This probably sums it up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They may message the guys themselves. But have the filter on as they don't want their inbox inundated.This probably sums it up."

Yup

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

So it could be simple as don’t look for single guys on fabs but will meet them at clubs or parties, and sometimes the veri may be from a single guy but it may not be a play one

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe just from socials (like ours)

Mrs

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan over a year ago

Coventry

Generally it's a case they're not looking for single at that specific time (peoples often go thorough moods) and/or its just a case they're being very specific with single guys and finding them on their own.

I know with My Girl we find it very hard to find the right single guy (actually we've had far more success finding the right single women than single guys). So I totally understand couples who want singles guys putting no single guys to prevent the avalanche of messages. Then just approaching the guys they fancy.

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By *kyblue1878Couple over a year ago

Southport

"Says they are not looking for single guys…. yet all their veris are from single guys! I’m confused as seen a lot of this!

They simply don't want approaches from single guy's. We will play in a MMF but our profile says we're not looking for single guy's. It doesn't deter everyone but those that can read hopefully don't message. You aren't making allowances for the couples that might meet a guy in a club or have been recommended someone by trusted friends and they make the approach.

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