we have been swinging for a long time we have never been to a club but we are finding it near impossible to find a meet and have been wasting our time contacting people that seam interested at start but then never reply to our messages
We are just looking to visit a club to see what its like and would love some advice from people that go to either Chams or Xtasia
Xtasia is closer for us as we are south Brum but looking for advice on both clubs
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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what i would say about any club is actually don't listen to anyone and just go out there and try them for yourself...
people will always big up their favourite... and clubs with vary and can be different on different nights, so its a case of finding what works for you...... |
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over a year ago
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I've been to both and it depends on what you want? Xtaisa has more of a night club feel and Chams is more of a spa feel.
Xtasia is an easier venue to just watch and get a feel for things.
Chams has more privacy if you do want to do anything.
Which ever you choose you will have a good time. The atmosphere in these places are great, you feel free to do what you want/ wear what you want and you don't feel judged.
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Well I'm a member of Xtasia and I like that club. As another poster said Xtasia is a nightclub style club which means in practice it has a large dance floor, it's own bar rather than a BYOB, several themed private playrooms and a couples room plus large areas for social chit chat. You also dress in smart casual for the guy and as sexy as you dare for the lady.
While I've not been to Chams, I've heard from plenty of people whom love the place, the biggest difference being thats it's a towel club which basically means you strip to towel or shorts for the guy and towel of lingerie normally for the ladies upon entry.
With the soon arriving Christmas season both clubs will have special nights on, for example I know Xtasia have a Foam Party on 21st December and their NYE do on 31st, while Chams will also have a NYE party and no doubt some Xmas party nights.
Party nights tend to be busier than normal night as I'm sure you'd expect.
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"what i would say about any club is actually don't listen to anyone and just go out there and try them for yourself...
people will always big up their favourite... and clubs with vary and can be different on different nights, so its a case of finding what works for you......"
As per usual a reasoned and logical suggestion 
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