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Not a pity me post but just how I feel
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Sometimes you’ve got to shake your head and take this site with a HUGE pinch of salt
Iv been on here for around four years and every so often I think of binning it off bevause of the timewasters and idiots that plague this site.
I honestly don’t know what they get out of it!!!
Last week alone talking to a new couple who wanted to experience cuckolding and spoke about maybe if it worked me taking the lady out and sending videos back. All well and good, they had one veri that was a social that I thought looked false but carried on chatting they even asked for my WhatsApp to talk further and then nothing….no message on what’s app and completely ghosted on here. They’re still on and I suppose winding someone else up.
A few days I got a reply to a message saying I’m not for them as I have too many veris, some of my veris are socials, physical meets average around 5 a year!!
As a male it’s difficult to meet genuine people and my veris good or bad are there to show everyone that I’m not a messer, timewaster, or cheating on someone, I’m single and although I feel like walking away….sometimes if you look hard enough there’s diamonds buried in the shite x |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
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"Sometimes you’ve got to shake your head and take this site with a HUGE pinch of salt
Iv been on here for around four years and every so often I think of binning it off bevause of the timewasters and idiots that plague this site.
I honestly don’t know what they get out of it!!!
Last week alone talking to a new couple who wanted to experience cuckolding and spoke about maybe if it worked me taking the lady out and sending videos back. All well and good, they had one veri that was a social that I thought looked false but carried on chatting they even asked for my WhatsApp to talk further and then nothing….no message on what’s app and completely ghosted on here. They’re still on and I suppose winding someone else up.
A few days I got a reply to a message saying I’m not for them as I have too many veris, some of my veris are socials, physical meets average around 5 a year!!
As a male it’s difficult to meet genuine people and my veris good or bad are there to show everyone that I’m not a messer, timewaster, or cheating on someone, I’m single and although I feel like walking away….sometimes if you look hard enough there’s diamonds buried in the shite x "
Too many veris?   well, going by that, I definitely would say I won't stand a chance in hell then lol just be you bud 
Not everyone is everyone's cup of tea but like you said, there are gems hidden among the dirt and someone will see that soon. Get yourself to group socials or clubs and get socialising and people will see the person behind the profile a lot better. Good luck though bud |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You say it was a new couple so (being kind here) maybe they bottled it, or are unsure about what they really want and are finding their feet. This site can be a bit intimidating at times especially for those of use who are new or relatively new to this. But maybe focus less on a single interaction and focus on are you finding it positive overall? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You say it was a new couple so (being kind here) **maybe they bottled it, or are unsure about what they really want and are finding their feet. This site can be a bit intimidating at times especially for those of use who are new or relatively new to this. **
But maybe focus less on a single interaction and focus on are you finding it positive overall? "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sometimes you’ve got to shake your head and take this site with a HUGE pinch of salt
Iv been on here for around four years and every so often I think of binning it off bevause of the timewasters and idiots that plague this site.
I honestly don’t know what they get out of it!!!
Last week alone talking to a new couple who wanted to experience cuckolding and spoke about maybe if it worked me taking the lady out and sending videos back. All well and good, they had one veri that was a social that I thought looked false but carried on chatting they even asked for my WhatsApp to talk further and then nothing….no message on what’s app and completely ghosted on here. They’re still on and I suppose winding someone else up.
A few days I got a reply to a message saying I’m not for them as I have too many veris, some of my veris are socials, physical meets average around 5 a year!!
As a male it’s difficult to meet genuine people and my veris good or bad are there to show everyone that I’m not a messer, timewaster, or cheating on someone, I’m single and although I feel like walking away….sometimes if you look hard enough there’s diamonds buried in the shite x "
You have too many veris in show for me, I wouldn't meet you either. That doesn't make you a bad person, we're just not compatible. 
A total stranger now has your phone number.
Perhaps they changed their mind. Don't take it personally.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Was your phone number a burner phone?
If it’s your own phone maybe they had a peek at your Facebook or Insta and didn’t like what they found?
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"Sometimes you’ve got to shake your head and take this site with a HUGE pinch of salt
Iv been on here for around four years and every so often I think of binning it off bevause of the timewasters and idiots that plague this site.
I honestly don’t know what they get out of it!!!
Last week alone talking to a new couple who wanted to experience cuckolding and spoke about maybe if it worked me taking the lady out and sending videos back. All well and good, they had one veri that was a social that I thought looked false but carried on chatting they even asked for my WhatsApp to talk further and then nothing….no message on what’s app and completely ghosted on here. They’re still on and I suppose winding someone else up.
A few days I got a reply to a message saying I’m not for them as I have too many veris, some of my veris are socials, physical meets average around 5 a year!!
As a male it’s difficult to meet genuine people and my veris good or bad are there to show everyone that I’m not a messer, timewaster, or cheating on someone, I’m single and although I feel like walking away….sometimes if you look hard enough there’s diamonds buried in the shite x
Too many veris? well, going by that, I definitely would say I won't stand a chance in hell then lol just be you bud
Not everyone is everyone's cup of tea but like you said, there are gems hidden among the dirt and someone will see that soon. Get yourself to group socials or clubs and get socialising and people will see the person behind the profile a lot better. Good luck though bud "
Cheers bud, off to the Leeds social in a couple of weeks so looking forward to that |
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