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"A huge amount is dreamers and fantasist wannabees but that's them doing fab their way we suppose. Possibly why a quick hook up doesn't work for us unless at a club and the time we spend chatring s out some of these." Odd isn’t the amount of excuses why people don’t do clubs? | |||
"A huge amount is dreamers and fantasist wannabees but that's them doing fab their way we suppose. Possibly why a quick hook up doesn't work for us unless at a club and the time we spend chatring s out some of these. Odd isn’t the amount of excuses why people don’t do clubs?" Agreed but as we can only make clubs 3/4 times a year we'd probably come under this too. People also have busy lives and lots don't swing/play often or much. Tis what it is. | |||
"I adore the forums, there are great discussions and immense fun. Then there is an element, from my perspective, from those whose reality is not within swinging reality values. Kind of makes me think, is there a void between swinging and dreamers? How much of fab is dreamers?" What do you mean by 'swinging reality values'? | |||
"A huge amount is dreamers and fantasist wannabees but that's them doing fab their way we suppose. Possibly why a quick hook up doesn't work for us unless at a club and the time we spend chatring s out some of these. Odd isn’t the amount of excuses why people don’t do clubs? Agreed but as we can only make clubs 3/4 times a year we'd probably come under this too. People also have busy lives and lots don't swing/play often or much. Tis what it is." Yes exactly. Logistics wise meeting locally where can set the time, place, people etc much more practical for us. Not to mention the cost which can mount up. Swinging is about far more than clubs. That said there are a lot of dreamers here of course and lots of people who just want the odd one on one NSA hook-up every once in a while. Nothing wrong with that of course but we struggle to call that swinging. | |||