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I want to preface this by saying I'm not complaining, guilt tripping or questioning how anyone uses the site. Just curious! 
Has anyone else noticed (or does anyone do this, and can explain why) that you'll wink, mail or otherwise interact with folks in some way, and they won't respond (absolutely not an issue of course) but they'll frequently visit your profile over the following weeks?  |
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One explaination might be that they see someone on their viewed thing and forget who you are or why they didn't respond, then remember again.
Or that you are on the borderline of response and they are weighing it up.
Or that there is something about you that makes you unsuitable for meeting but they still like to rub one out to your pics.
Who knows |
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I get too many messages and fatigued at reading them. If their profile or start of message doesn't appeal. It's an auto delete. But no idea why they would bother checking you out later on. For a woman, there's litterly millions of male profiles to view so no idea why they would do this. Maybe really nosey about what you put on your profile, if you're the person who regularly uploads photos or status updates? |
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"I get too many messages and fatigued at reading them. If their profile or start of message doesn't appeal. It's an auto delete. But no idea why they would bother checking you out later on. For a woman, there's litterly millions of male profiles to view so no idea why they would do this. Maybe really nosey about what you put on your profile, if you're the person who regularly uploads photos or status updates?"
We do upload quite often! It's super strange, there's at least half a dozen couples this has happened with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t know who looks at me in a daily basis. But when I have looked it’s mostly dudes, that’s why I stopped looking at them that looked at me.
*see, it’s a lot of looking and not much doing!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I want to preface this by saying I'm not complaining, guilt tripping or questioning how anyone uses the site. Just curious!
Has anyone else noticed (or does anyone do this, and can explain why) that you'll wink, mail or otherwise interact with folks in some way, and they won't respond (absolutely not an issue of course) but they'll frequently visit your profile over the following weeks? "
Yeah I do this. I don’t respond when I’m not interested and I’m too busy to reply, or if I get the feeling that turning someone down will result in further “why?” type messages.
Then the profile viewing - I’ll see that person in my recent views/wink history etc. and press on their profile without realising that they are the person who messaged me before. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s nothing that mysterious, same people keep coming up in your searches and it’s quite easy to forget who’ve you’ve already looked at, especially so if a profile picture has been changed.
I quite often find until I look at a profile, I can’t remember if I’ve seen them before or not. |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
I've noticed that I end up checking out profiles of local people we have met at socials or clubs, that we have no intention of playing with.
But it's generally because we know they are real, so like to see their new verifications as they're probably real people too.
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"I want to preface this by saying I'm not complaining, guilt tripping or questioning how anyone uses the site. Just curious!
Has anyone else noticed (or does anyone do this, and can explain why) that you'll wink, mail or otherwise interact with folks in some way, and they won't respond (absolutely not an issue of course) but they'll frequently visit your profile over the following weeks? "
We get that a lot !
Better that than the ‘hi, how are you’ meerkat messages lol |
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"I want to preface this by saying I'm not complaining, guilt tripping or questioning how anyone uses the site. Just curious!
Has anyone else noticed (or does anyone do this, and can explain why) that you'll wink, mail or otherwise interact with folks in some way, and they won't respond (absolutely not an issue of course) but they'll frequently visit your profile over the following weeks?
We get that a lot !
Better that than the ‘hi, how are you’ meerkat messages lol"
What really . You don't appreciate those one liner, 3 word messages.. Well really
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is a guy on here that winks at us fairly regularly.
We look at his profile because we are amused and horrified in equal measure by his status and bio updates.
He’s too interesting to block but too angry to contemplate meeting. |
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"There is a guy on here that winks at us fairly regularly.
We look at his profile because we are amused and horrified in equal measure by his status and bio updates.
He’s too interesting to block but too angry to contemplate meeting. "
Some people are honestly fascinating!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I want to preface this by saying I'm not complaining, guilt tripping or questioning how anyone uses the site. Just curious!
Has anyone else noticed (or does anyone do this, and can explain why) that you'll wink, mail or otherwise interact with folks in some way, and they won't respond (absolutely not an issue of course) but they'll frequently visit your profile over the following weeks? "
YES, all the time, I find it very odd but I thought it was just me  |
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"I want to preface this by saying I'm not complaining, guilt tripping or questioning how anyone uses the site. Just curious!
Has anyone else noticed (or does anyone do this, and can explain why) that you'll wink, mail or otherwise interact with folks in some way, and they won't respond (absolutely not an issue of course) but they'll frequently visit your profile over the following weeks?
We get that a lot !
Better that than the ‘hi, how are you’ meerkat messages lol
What really . You don't appreciate those one liner, 3 word messages.. Well really
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They make our day  |
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By *risky FoxesCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle Emlyn/Stourport |
I’m guilty of this
I fall down the rabbit hole of reading verifications of people we are talking to and then end up nosing at their profile. And it’s like six degrees of separation because you then find someone you’ve verified and end up looking again.
I need to get out more |
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