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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello,
I think I know what submitting to someone is but I would like some help and advice...
My girlfriend wants to fully submit to me...what does this mean and what do I do?
Please help me as I want her to be satisfied... |
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She wants you to control everything. She doesn't want to think, she wants to give herself over.
This is a massive compliment, she trusts you.
Only do what you feel comfortable with, if being dominant is not your thing, be honest.
Good luck
Shazx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I get this but I'm quite a compassionate person so I don't just doing things sexually without consent...if you get me? If was to.donsomething I'd always want to ask if they are ok with it first...? |
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"I get this but I'm quite a compassionate person so I don't just doing things sexually without consent...if you get me? If was to.donsomething I'd always want to ask if they are ok with it first...? "
a few suggestions would be to discuss with her what her boundaries are beforehand, you can use a safe word or action and ask her to tell you some of the fantasys that involve that aspect. Hope this helps. Mr |
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Submission and consent go together it’s not a case of you doing you want regardless
Communication is the key understand her hard limits and soft limits and work slowly on developing her as your submissive
M |
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There are various levels of submission.
For you it might be case of not always asking just doing it. Think of it as sweeping her off her feet . Don't order or slap her but use a firm voice and actions.
Think of film where the guy walks in rips open the women's top then throws her onto the bed.
From there you can work you way up to what ever leave you are comfortable with. |
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