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Has swinging given you more body confidence?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It has taught me that most people don't care as much as I do about my insecurites. There is definitely more acceptance of every type of body shape which does help confidence for sure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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100% more body confidence. Love to flaunt what I have now. Yet in Mt 20s/30s I would hide it away hated holidays, going swimming. But my confidence now is unbelievable knowing that guy find me attractive  |
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"I feel swinging has given me massive confidence that I never would have had without being in the lifestyle. Has swinging given you more body confidence ?"
Definitely, we both have a few extra pounds and getting on in years yet seem to get plenty of attention when in clubs !. It must be our amazing personalities lol . It was difficult the first time (dragged kicking and screaming into one by a couple we met a few years ago), yet our fears soon subsided and that was the first of many visits. You can naturally look down on yourselves then a minute later find you're chatting or playing with the most gorgeous girl or couple in the whole club ! (with a thousand jealous eyes upon us). It seems surreal looking back at some of our encounters, time for more... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It hasn't had such a result on Mrs A regarding body confidence, instead she believes it just proves Men will fuck anything.
She has though always had sexual confidence, and that helps her in the moment. |
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By *atnat85Woman
over a year ago
northwest |
In some ways yes.....
I was on a completly vanilla works do and I was worried that my dress was too short(it wasn't) my chunky knees being on display (they were) or if I looked young/cool enough......
Was going to not go, but then I thought if I can strut around a club in heels and lingerie/body and approach strangers....I can wear a dress to a works do x |
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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago
Not all that North of North London |
Swinging also got me into naturist events and yes it definitely has given me confidence. Not in thst I think I have a great body (I dont) but being around people with body confidence is definitely contagious! |
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I'm very body confident, which is something I got from the kink scene long before I joined Fab.
If I'd done it the other way round, I think Fab might have destroyed any shreds of confidence I might have dared to muster. |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
In reality, it is a double edged sword: it has raised my confidence levels very considerably, but the profile pics of extremely fit and lean couples, in particular, make me realise that my fitness regime needs to ramped up! |
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By *risky FoxesCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle Emlyn/Stourport |
It’s helping get me over my body hang ups very slowly. I do compare myself to the leggy stocking clad beauties still….. but my curves and the fact that I’m short really do it for some guys which is really flattering . in this environment I’m learning that I’m a person as a whole, rather than a mix of good and bad body parts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel swinging has given me massive confidence that I never would have had without being in the lifestyle. Has swinging given you more body confidence ?"
Yes I was always a tomboy in highschool. I bloomed late in life not ashamed now as I was back then.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. In some respects it has made me more self critical; in other respects it’s made me feel comfortable about being naked around others and appreciating physical differences even more. |
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Not really. I’ve always been pretty confident about what I’ve been given. I guess the difference is that via swinging I’ve found more opportunities to be naked in front of people, and more scenarios where being naked sets the ball rolling! |
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The opposite. I was above average looking in my 20s and 30s. Less so now.
The last couple I met, she said "I don't fancy you but you're a really cool guy so I want to fuck you."
Honestly, she could have left the first part of that sentence out. |
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