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"I wonder if single men actually know how lucky they are that another man shares his wife so intimately with them?"
I mean, it isn’t just single men that play with hotwives, so this sentiment is kinda off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No one’s ‘lucky’ it should all be mutual. Said wife is also lucky single men choose to play with her.
I find the whole thing around men being lucky to play with someone’s wife weird. She’s not some prize to be won and she gets just as much out of it. |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
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"No one’s ‘lucky’ it should all be mutual. Said wife is also lucky single men choose to play with her.
I find the whole thing around men being lucky to play with someone’s wife weird. She’s not some prize to be won and she gets just as much out of it."
Exactly 
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"No one’s ‘lucky’ it should all be mutual. Said wife is also lucky single men choose to play with her.
I find the whole thing around men being lucky to play with someone’s wife weird. She’s not some prize to be won and she gets just as much out of it."
Got it in one  |
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"No one’s ‘lucky’ it should all be mutual. Said wife is also lucky single men choose to play with her.
I find the whole thing around men being lucky to play with someone’s wife weird. She’s not some prize to be won and she gets just as much out of it."
Exactly. I don't understand why some women are put on pedestals. They are no different to any other human.  |
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"No one’s ‘lucky’ it should all be mutual. Said wife is also lucky single men choose to play with her.
I find the whole thing around men being lucky to play with someone’s wife weird. She’s not some prize to be won and she gets just as much out of it.
Exactly. I don't understand why some women are put on pedestals. They are no different to any other human. "
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I guess it depends on the manner in which the OP considers them lucky.
You are right if any woman considers a man lucky to have the opportunity to fuck her, that’s just a bit conceited.
However I would say any man would be lucky to get the opportunity to fuck my wife. He would be lucky just because of the vast number of competing males on here. |
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over a year ago
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"I guess it depends on the manner in which the OP considers them lucky.
You are right if any woman considers a man lucky to have the opportunity to fuck her, that’s just a bit conceited.
However I would say any man would be lucky to get the opportunity to fuck my wife. He would be lucky just because of the vast number of competing males on here."
See! I still disagree, it’s not a competition, it’s about mutual satisfaction and let’s talk plainly. Any woman, no matter how they look/are is going to get a tonne more messages than the hottest male. When men outnumber women by I’d guess 100/1 that’s always going to be the case. |
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I would say lucky is the wrong word, perhaps more privilege ?
If you are the male of the couple you are letting the most sacred thing in your life, your wife/girlfriend get fucked by another man or men, the intensity of that is probably is what makes cuckolding more popular these days. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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Why should they think they are lucky. That sentence alone reeks of entitlement by the op.
Without men who are willing to meet you both then you would not be able to play out your fantasies either. Men and women on here are not play things for couples. It should be about mutual pleasure and respect not one side acting like they are doing the other a favour by allowing them to join. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No one’s ‘lucky’ it should all be mutual. Said wife is also lucky single men choose to play with her.
I find the whole thing around men being lucky to play with someone’s wife weird. She’s not some prize to be won and she gets just as much out of it."
Summed it up perfectly! Although I am very grateful for it |
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"Why should they think they are lucky. That sentence alone reeks of entitlement by the op.
Without men who are willing to meet you both then you would not be able to play out your fantasies either. Men and women on here are not play things for couples. It should be about mutual pleasure and respect not one side acting like they are doing the other a favour by allowing them to join. "
Perfectly put! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why should they think they are lucky. That sentence alone reeks of entitlement by the op.
Without men who are willing to meet you both then you would not be able to play out your fantasies either. Men and women on here are not play things for couples. It should be about mutual pleasure and respect not one side acting like they are doing the other a favour by allowing them to join. "
At last someone talking sense! |
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I think you missed my point entirely.
They would be lucky because most messages get instantly deleted without even being read, we just don’t have the time. It depends entirely on the day, time and/or mood we are in. Time it right and you might be “lucky” you message gets read and it’s game on.
I would never think of anyone as lucky to be granted our time, just lucky they were there at the right time.
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"I think you missed my point entirely.
They would be lucky because most messages get instantly deleted without even being read, we just don’t have the time. It depends entirely on the day, time and/or mood we are in. Time it right and you might be “lucky” you message gets read and it’s game on.
I would never think of anyone as lucky to be granted our time, just lucky they were there at the right time.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When me and K have played with another couple seperately we have considered it a privilege to be invited to be part of thier intimate sex life even just for that night.
Hopefully they appreciate us as well though   |
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I wouldn't call it lucky, more a case of 3 adults enjoying each others company with the guys ensuring the woman is the centre of attention and made to feel amazing. Always a privilege to join a couple and have a great time. |
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I guess there’s a reason why we’ve used the term “get lucky” to refer to achieving a sexual encounter.
Regardless of a few personal opinions that differ here and there I would be willing to bet my house that the majority of single men would consider themselves lucky to take part in almost any sexual encounter that they enjoy. I get the point people are making but on the whole most single men wouldn’t see it that way. |
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The minute I became aware of ever feeling lucky for any reason on here I would pack up and leave.
Any man or woman with an ounce of self respect would never claim to be lucky.
We aren't a commodity.
How many couples bemoan their lack of success in finding that elusive unicorn?
Do they claim to be lucky when they find one or do they see the woman as the lucky one?
Mutual pleasure seems to have different definitions on here at times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The minute I became aware of ever feeling lucky for any reason on here I would pack up and leave.
Any man or woman with an ounce of self respect would never claim to be lucky.
We aren't a commodity.
How many couples bemoan their lack of success in finding that elusive unicorn?
Do they claim to be lucky when they find one or do they see the woman as the lucky one?
Mutual pleasure seems to have different definitions on here at times. "
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"I wonder if single men actually know how lucky they are that another man shares his wife so intimately with them?"
every time I meet I consider myself special because of the fact someone is sharing there partner with me
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think you missed my point entirely.
They would be lucky because most messages get instantly deleted without even being read, we just don’t have the time. It depends entirely on the day, time and/or mood we are in. Time it right and you might be “lucky” you message gets read and it’s game on.
I would never think of anyone as lucky to be granted our time, just lucky they were there at the right time.
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Well. I feel so ‘lucky’  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wonder if single men actually know how lucky they are that another man shares his wife so intimately with them?"
There's no luck in it, you want someone to join into your fantasy, they may wish to join a couple, it's just consenting adults playing and having fun.
Swinging by my definition isn't about anyone being superior to me or visa versa |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No one’s ‘lucky’ it should all be mutual. Said wife is also lucky single men choose to play with her.
I find the whole thing around men being lucky to play with someone’s wife weird. She’s not some prize to be won and she gets just as much out of it."
there needs to be a like button on these forums.
We're the same, nobody is lucky, it's all about mutual fun, and everybody should be enjoying it and wanting to have fun. Not one person out of them is lucky. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I consider myself to fortunate to be allowed into another couples intimate life in way that isn't normally allowed in our society. It is of course for mutual pleasure, both the man and woman's in the couple as well as mine. |
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