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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Everytime i get with a woman she always asks me how many people i have slept with and i always tell i little white lie to make it sound not as bad as it is but i was curious, r u women as bad as us men?? My current number is 36 women and 0 guys... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women I think about 15. Men about 100! I genuinely have no idea I know I stopped counting at 60 and that was a long time ago so its probably over 100 now!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being totally honest ....im still a virgin and don't know what sex is really ....honest ....really im not lying....I not even seen a ladys front bum yet and as for another mans thingy wotsit ....I think id fait at sight of one ........... there again im a lying toe rag lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everytime i get with a woman she always asks me how many people i have slept with and i always tell i little white lie to make it sound not as bad as it is but i was curious, r u women as bad as us men?? My current number is 36 women and 0 guys..."
I haven't had sex since 1995... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everytime i get with a woman she always asks me how many people i have slept with and i always tell i little white lie to make it sound not as bad as it is but i was curious, r u women as bad as us men?? My current number is 36 women and 0 guys...
I haven't had sex since 1995..."
What's sex ????????  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everytime i get with a woman she always asks me how many people i have slept with and i always tell i little white lie to make it sound not as bad as it is but i was curious, r u women as bad as us men?? My current number is 36 women and 0 guys...
I haven't had sex since 1995...
What's sex ???????? "
Well I've just heard it involves more than just yourself ...in which case I'm still a virgin... |
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We honestly don't know, he kept count once but stopped long before we started swinging together. We were both very free and easy when younger and we've been swinging very regularly for 10 years, so the answer is lots. Our same-sex count is less but still high. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends how you count them 
I had a girlfriend at Uni who after a year said to me we'd only had sex twice. When I queried this (I can't have been that d*unk)she said she only counted the times when we didn't use a condom, made me wonder if I truly was her second lover........
Also, if you're blindfolded it doesn't count according to Tor |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"They're not sleeping when they're with me. 
A lot, but not saying because people still judge others for being promiscuous, even on here.
I've noticed that too. WTHonestF is that about?  "
No idea. It's like 'why are you having so much sex on this sex site?' Hmmmmmm..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They're not sleeping when they're with me.
A lot, but not saying because people still judge others for being promiscuous, even on here.
I've noticed that too. WTHonestF is that about? "
Lol!! You can swing but only with a limited number!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In all seriousness - I have totally lost count; but would guess if I knew the numbers of men/women (inc couples) slept with and told you all id be called a slag/slapper ....im neither just a horny bisexual man  |
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Honestly? I haven't got a clue. But I must be into the thousands.
Funny thing is that when people meet me they think butter wouldn't melt! So there's not point trusting your judgement cos everyone gets it wrong with me.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Feck knows ..... I only count the really exceptional ones anyway.
(bound to make them up their game a little now) "
Selective counting! that's the
way forward! |
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"They're not sleeping when they're with me.
A lot, but not saying because people still judge others for being promiscuous, even on here.
I've noticed that too. WTHonestF is that about?
Lol!! You can swing but only with a limited number!! "
I know
It happens though, I also know for a fact some people will warn others off from meetings by private message with rumours and heresay about them.
Pathetic isn't it?  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"They're not sleeping when they're with me.
A lot, but not saying because people still judge others for being promiscuous, even on here.
I've noticed that too. WTHonestF is that about?
Lol!! You can swing but only with a limited number!!
I know
It happens though, I also know for a fact some people will warn others off from meetings by private message with rumours and heresay about them.
Pathetic isn't it? "
That Invictus is a right tart isn't he.....oh poo, meant to send this privately.
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"They're not sleeping when they're with me.
A lot, but not saying because people still judge others for being promiscuous, even on here.
I've noticed that too. WTHonestF is that about?
Lol!! You can swing but only with a limited number!!
I know
It happens though, I also know for a fact some people will warn others off from meetings by private message with rumours and heresay about them.
Pathetic isn't it?
That Invictus is a right tart isn't he.....oh poo, meant to send this privately.
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thanks for the recommendation Wyrd! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"They're not sleeping when they're with me.
A lot, but not saying because people still judge others for being promiscuous, even on here.
I've noticed that too. WTHonestF is that about?
Lol!! You can swing but only with a limited number!!
I know
It happens though, I also know for a fact some people will warn others off from meetings by private message with rumours and heresay about them.
Pathetic isn't it?
That Invictus is a right tart isn't he.....oh poo, meant to send this privately.
thanks for the recommendation Wyrd!"
Oy, mitts off. I've been trying to tempt him up here for ages!!! |
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"They're not sleeping when they're with me.
A lot, but not saying because people still judge others for being promiscuous, even on here.
I've noticed that too. WTHonestF is that about?
Lol!! You can swing but only with a limited number!!
I know
It happens though, I also know for a fact some people will warn others off from meetings by private message with rumours and heresay about them.
Pathetic isn't it?
That Invictus is a right tart isn't he.....oh poo, meant to send this privately.
thanks for the recommendation Wyrd!
Oy, mitts off. I've been trying to tempt him up here for ages!!! "
Fight!!!
Good things come to those who wait
You're still on my harem list, don't panic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know exactly how many people I've shagged and I remember each and every time.
(166 men & 17 women)
But like _nvictus, I'd give anything, to just sleep with one man for the rest of my life.
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"They're not sleeping when they're with me.
A lot, but not saying because people still judge others for being promiscuous, even on here.
I've noticed that too. WTHonestF is that about?
Lol!! You can swing but only with a limited number!! "
Come in No. 4 your time is up ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I looked at this and thought "oooh this might be interesting " ....... i have read it , and now going to keep very very quiet  "
Just saw where you're from! Went to school in Weybridge in 80's and St Georges Hills was the centre of the swinging and even as a teenager I knew that.... so, in your defence, culturally the number of partners in Weybridge is expected to be higher.......... Does that help? |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Everytime i get with a woman she always asks me how many people i have slept with and i always tell i little white lie to make it sound not as bad as it is but i was curious, r u women as bad as us men?? My current number is 36 women and 0 guys..."
more than 1..... less than 1 million.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everytime i get with a woman she always asks me how many people i have slept with and i always tell i little white lie to make it sound not as bad as it is but i was curious, r u women as bad as us men?? My current number is 36 women and 0 guys..."
Seriously!!! I stoped counting when I was 12! ........... only joking seriously mate I have no idea how many women iv had stoped counting at about 20 counting is not cool lol |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"Everytime i get with a woman she always asks me how many people i have slept with and i always tell i little white lie to make it sound not as bad as it is but i was curious, r u women as bad as us men?? My current number is 36 women and 0 guys..."
I dont have a problem with the number but... I would want to know why this information was important to them. In terms of risk... well, 5 can be as risky as 55... and I cannot really see a reason to discuss my past. But hey that is just me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think I'm my 4 figure number yet. but have had over 100 guys this month sexually.
slept with its really not a lot lol. had sexual contact its lots.
only 8 of same sex though. |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"I have slept with 2 men but 0 on here yet 
youre joking?
I know you cant accom though someones got to take to fancying your cherry?
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No hun I'm being honest only 2 |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"I have slept with 2 men but 0 on here yet
youre joking?
I know you cant accom though someones got to take to fancying your cherry?
No hun I'm being honest only 2 "
I'm off to find another 3 inches and lose a few years |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have slept with 2 men but 0 on here yet
youre joking?
I know you cant accom though someones got to take to fancying your cherry?
No hun I'm being honest only 2 "
timewaster!!!!!!!!!! |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
"I have slept with 2 men but 0 on here yet
youre joking?
I know you cant accom though someones got to take to fancying your cherry?
No hun I'm being honest only 2 "
was more surprised youve not met anyone off here yet - blimey.. its a lotta fun you know |
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Does anyone seriously keep count... sorry but I find it a little immature like notches on the bed post. As for me I know its more than a few, other than that I have no idea and don't see how its anyones business but mine. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
"Does anyone seriously keep count... sorry but I find it a little immature like notches on the bed post. As for me I know its more than a few, other than that I have no idea and don't see how its anyones business but mine. "
yeah questions like these alwats irritate me - they suck the fun out of everything. I mean - urrgh, its such an unholy place to chat freely about sexual stuff. Id much prefer it if we talked about bed linen myself. |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
A guy asked me this question earlier this year and I estimated 100 plus before I ever started swinging - tried to make a list and got upto about 70 by the time I'd got divorced but odd ones keep popping into my head every so often...Definately well over 100 now, probably nudging towards 200 seeing as last time I had my tests at the clap clinic I'd had 30 guys in the 12 week period. I don't care whether someone thinks it's too many or not enough - and it's something I've never asked any bloke before, but if someone asks I'll give a true guesstimate - after that, it's up to them whether they want to proceed or not |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"I have slept with 2 men but 0 on here yet
youre joking?
I know you cant accom though someones got to take to fancying your cherry?
No hun I'm being honest only 2
was more surprised youve not met anyone off here yet - blimey.. its a lotta fun you know "
Well I'm talking with someone on the site whom I connect with so fingers crossed as the mutual attraction is there |
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"Does anyone seriously keep count... sorry but I find it a little immature like notches on the bed post. As for me I know its more than a few, other than that I have no idea and don't see how its anyones business but mine.
yeah questions like these alwats irritate me - they suck the fun out of everything. I mean - urrgh, its such an unholy place to chat freely about sexual stuff. Id much prefer it if we talked about bed linen myself. "
What a strange response! |
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"A guy asked me this question earlier this year and I estimated 100 plus before I ever started swinging - tried to make a list and got upto about 70 by the time I'd got divorced but odd ones keep popping into my head every so often...Definately well over 100 now, probably nudging towards 200 seeing as last time I had my tests at the clap clinic I'd had 30 guys in the 12 week
period. I don't care whether someone
thinks it's too many or not enough - and
it's something I've never asked any
bloke before, but if someone asks I'll
give a true guesstimate - after that, it's
up to them whether they want to
proceed or not "
Make a list...... |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"Does anyone seriously keep count... sorry but I find it a little immature like notches on the bed post. As for me I know its more than a few, other than that I have no idea and don't see how its anyones business but mine. "
I keep a diary of meets now, just in case I ever catch an STD and need to let the folk I've played with know...it's not a notches on the bedpost for me, just trying to be a responsible adult...As I previously said, it's not something I've ever asked anyone about, apart from when me and my mates have been having d*unken chats that get round to our sex lives - most of them seem to find mine fascinating for some strange reason |
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"Does anyone seriously keep count... sorry but I find it a little immature like notches on the bed post. As for me I know its more than a few, other than that I have no idea and don't see how its anyones business but mine.
I keep a diary of meets now, just in case I ever catch an STD and need to let the folk I've played with know...it's not a
notches on the bedpost for me, just
trying to be a responsible adult...As I
previously said, it's not something I've
ever asked anyone about, apart from
when me and my mates have been
having d*unken chats that get round to
our sex lives - most of them seem to
find mine fascinating for some strange
reason "
It's not strange! I like women who enjoy a good sex life! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone seriously keep count... sorry but I find it a little immature like notches on the bed post. As for me I know its more than a few, other than that I have no idea and don't see how its anyones business but mine. "
not that many then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me its somewhere over 100 and im new to the swinging scene so thats ladies from the everyday world although most my shagging antics were done when i was younger arhhh the memorys lol |
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By *ecret ladyWoman
over a year ago
South Manchester...where no-one reads profile's !!! |
"They're not sleeping when they're with me.
A lot, but not saying because people still judge others for being promiscuous, even on here.
I've noticed that too. WTHonestF is that about?
No idea. It's like 'why are you having so much sex on this sex site?' Hmmmmmm....."
Funny thing with swinging I have found... women are known as sluts/slags/easy... men are studs ....seems like women aren't allowed to shag around...well that's what I've come across ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You people count? Really?
Confession time. I once read a profile and then saw a verification I left for said profile holder. I couldn't remember ever meeting them.
Is that really bad?"
Pmsl....that is quality Fornix.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You people count? Really?
Confession time. I once read a profile and then saw a verification I left for said profile holder. I couldn't remember ever meeting them.
Is that really bad?"
lol I've done that a few times. also had someone ask me for a meet. I've turned them down as not my type to be told didn't I remember them from the club a few days before. lol
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"You people count? Really?
Confession time. I once read a profile and then saw a verification I left for said profile holder. I couldn't remember ever meeting them.
Is that really bad?
Pmsl....that is quality Fornix.x "
I know! And I've only been here since May! |
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"They're not sleeping when they're with me.
A lot, but not saying because people still judge others for being promiscuous, even on here."
Yep. I said but noone seems to want to comment! Funny that...
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"They're not sleeping when they're with me.
A lot, but not saying because people still judge others for being promiscuous, even on here.
I've noticed that too. WTHonestF is that about?
No idea. It's like 'why are you having so much sex on this sex site?' Hmmmmmm.....
Funny thing with swinging I have found... women are known as sluts/slags/easy... men are studs ....seems like women aren't allowed to shag around...well that's what I've come across ... "
There's still men out there uneasy about female emancipation. The fact we might be having more sex than them makes them foam at the mouth. |
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Hmmm seems like I'm thread death for this topic!
Too much honesty just takes the shine off. It's all well and good if they're horny - a count that rivals hefner is amusing when horny.
But in the cold clear light of day the reality of the power of a woman's libido (remember men may be horny but how often can they get that attended to? A horny halfway presentable woman can ALWAYS get that attended too!) in a sexually liberated world.
We're on a swingers site. I can't be the only one to be in four figures - I'm just the only one to state it with no shame or attempt to fudge the numbers or get coy.
So why the tumble around this thread since I made the.point?
How many of you have realised that you're not as open-minded as you thought and have put me in a box and labelled it slut and taped it up with bio-hazard all over it?
I play safe, I get tested. I just own up to having played a lot. And I will continue to do so.
But I won't lie about it or fib coyly.
Just in the last two days I have been really horny so I went out and found an answer - I got two shags (the first was disappointing). I'm not even in the UK.
Does that make me a slag? If I was a man and bragged about the sex on my holiday would I be a slag or a stud?
As always I had condoms and used them. I was sober when I pulled (yes I had a drink but I would have been borderline for driving) so made informed choices.
If I was in a relationship and he could keep up with me I would be monogamous. Few men can. So I swing.
And yet it seems there are swingers and swingers. Guess I must be one of the hardened swingers that profiles are biased against. But I don't feel any shame for who and what I am.
And I challenge any of you who have made any judgement of me due to "The Number" to induce any feeling of shame.
I'm a woman with a high libido, stamina and time to explore both with a wide variety of men so that is what I do.
And yes I did say four figures.  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Hmmm seems like I'm thread death for this topic!
Too much honesty just takes the shine off. It's all well and good if they're horny - a count that rivals hefner is amusing when horny.
But in the cold clear light of day the reality of the power of a woman's libido (remember men may be horny but how often can they get that attended to? A horny halfway presentable woman can ALWAYS get that attended too!) in a sexually liberated world.
We're on a swingers site. I can't be the only one to be in four figures - I'm just the only one to state it with no shame or attempt to fudge the numbers or get coy.
So why the tumble around this thread since I made the.point?
How many of you have realised that you're not as open-minded as you thought and have put me in a box and labelled it slut and taped it up with bio-hazard all over it?
I play safe, I get tested. I just own up to having played a lot. And I will continue to do so.
But I won't lie about it or fib coyly.
Just in the last two days I have been really horny so I went out and found an answer - I got two shags (the first was disappointing). I'm not even in the UK.
Does that make me a slag? If I was a man and bragged about the sex on my holiday would I be a slag or a stud?
As always I had condoms and used them. I was sober when I pulled (yes I had a drink but I would have been borderline for driving) so made informed choices.
If I was in a relationship and he could keep up with me I would be monogamous. Few men can. So I swing.
And yet it seems there are swingers and swingers. Guess I must be one of the hardened swingers that profiles are biased against. But I don't feel any shame for who and what I am.
And I challenge any of you who have made any judgement of me due to "The Number" to induce any feeling of shame.
I'm a woman with a high libido, stamina and time to explore both with a wide variety of men so that is what I do.
And yes I did say four figures. "
I haven't read all of the posts but I will now. Why do you think you are being judged?
I used to know the number of people I had had sex with before I started swinging. Since I have no clue how many there were at my first club experience I have stopped keeping numerical track.
I could do with more than I get but that is my fault as I get too fussy. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"And yes I did say four figures. "
Pfffft, I'll only take you seriously when it hits 5 figures.
(Thats a joke by the way, but go for it all the same).
I don't think people ARE judging us, although who knows what tomorrow might bring. However people are coy about it. Maybe they think its not enough when they are on a swinging site, maybe like me they'll think its because everyone thinks 'slut'.
Both you and me are highly sexed single women. We have t get our jollies from somewhere. I can state with honesty that not one man has looked at me askance for being highly sexed. Its more likely to be women I am afraid. (Not you of course hun). |
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"Hmmm seems like I'm thread death for this topic!
Too much honesty just takes the shine off. It's all well and good if they're horny - a count that rivals hefner is amusing when horny.
But in the cold clear light of day the reality of the power of a woman's libido (remember men may be horny but how often can they get that attended to? A horny halfway presentable woman can ALWAYS get that attended too!) in a sexually liberated world.
We're on a swingers site. I can't be the only one to be in four figures - I'm just the only one to state it with no shame or attempt to fudge the numbers or get coy.
So why the tumble around this thread since I made the.point?
How many of you have realised that you're not as open-minded as you thought and have put me in a box and labelled it slut and taped it up with bio-hazard all over it?
I play safe, I get tested. I just own up to having played a lot. And I will continue to do so.
But I won't lie about it or fib coyly.
Just in the last two days I have been really horny so I went out and found an answer - I got two shags (the first was disappointing). I'm not even in the UK.
Does that make me a slag? If I was a man and bragged about the sex on my holiday would I be a slag or a stud?
As always I had condoms and used them. I was sober when I pulled (yes I had a drink but I would have been borderline for driving) so made informed choices.
If I was in a relationship and he could keep up with me I would be monogamous. Few men can. So I swing.
And yet it seems there are swingers and swingers. Guess I must be one of the hardened swingers that profiles are biased against. But I don't feel any shame for who and what I am.
And I challenge any of you who have made any judgement of me due to "The Number" to induce any feeling of shame.
I'm a woman with a high libido, stamina and time to explore both with a wide variety of men so that is what I do.
And yes I did say four figures. "
I applaud you! You only have yourself to answer to. You seem the most together person we have seen on here. Those that judge, look inward! This site is about meeting people and taking the agenda forward. It's fun, ffs. Would love to meet you, you sound interesting, erodite, fun. Xxxx |
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Why do I think I'm being judged?
By the fear that makes people post jokey answers on an honesty thread - why the fear?
By the fact that so many profiles defensively claim they're not hardened swingers - what's so wrong with that?
By the way that (and people have stated on previous threads) guys prefer a woman who doesn't have loads of veris - though I could hide all but one!
Yes people judge. Even on here where we SHOULD be able to be able to relax and be honest.
Am I a slag? Do I really care? But if somewhere, deep inside, part of you wants to say yes TD you are a slag then it's time to take that thought out and expose it to daylight and examine it to see if it's grubby and biased and perhaps even bigoted.
But I won't judge you for a guilty, grubby thought like that. Why not? Because I know and am happy and content with who I am and don't need validation.
Acceptance and comradeship is good though. |
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over a year ago
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"Everytime i get with a woman she always asks me how many people i have slept with and i always tell i little white lie to make it sound not as bad as it is but i was curious, r u women as bad as us men?? My current number is 36 women and 0 guys..."
I like the last line of this OP
The fact that you state '0' guys currently suggests this could be open to change |
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"More than I care to admit... "
Why?
Why is it embarrassing? We're all horny, libido driven friends here.
So why so hard to admit?
(nb: this is not just directed at you but at all the other posters who fudged or got coy or jokey). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do I think I'm being judged?
By the fear that makes people post jokey answers on an honesty thread - why the fear?
By the fact that so many profiles defensively claim they're not hardened swingers - what's so wrong with that?
By the way that (and people have stated on previous threads) guys prefer a woman who doesn't have loads of veris - though I could hide all but one!
Yes people judge. Even on here where we SHOULD be able to be able to relax and be honest.
Am I a slag? Do I really care? But if somewhere, deep inside, part of you wants to say yes TD you are a slag then it's time to take that thought out and expose it to daylight and examine it to see if it's grubby and biased and perhaps even bigoted.
But I won't judge you for a guilty, grubby thought like that. Why not? Because I know and am happy and content with who I am and don't need validation.
Acceptance and comradeship is good though."
I'm not ashamed of how many guys. I love it
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Why do I think I'm being judged?
By the fear that makes people post jokey answers on an honesty thread - why the fear?
By the fact that so many profiles defensively claim they're not hardened swingers - what's so wrong with that?
By the way that (and people have stated on previous threads) guys prefer a woman who doesn't have loads of veris - though I could hide all but one!
Yes people judge. Even on here where we SHOULD be able to be able to relax and be honest.
Am I a slag? Do I really care? But if somewhere, deep inside, part of you wants to say yes TD you are a slag then it's time to take that thought out and expose it to daylight and examine it to see if it's grubby and biased and perhaps even bigoted.
But I won't judge you for a guilty, grubby thought like that. Why not? Because I know and am happy and content with who I am and don't need validation.
Acceptance and comradeship is good though."
I can see that. I posted jokily as I don't sleep with other people.
I have experienced the gender double standard and have commented on this before. I have had someone I met on here tell me that I shouldn't be doing this as "...[I'm] so much better than what the site can offer [me]". I have had men send messages saying that as I only have a few verifications I must be ok as I don't put out for everyone. What utter nonsense. I have had men tell me that they don't really like women who go to clubs and that has put them off meeting me. I have had men telling me that they prefer to meet married/attached women as being single must make me a bunny boiler to be doing this.
It's all a bit bonkers. I have a rampant libido and I will satisfy it however I like. Or not.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They're not sleeping when they're with me.
A lot, but not saying because people still judge others for being promiscuous, even on here.
I've noticed that too. WTHonestF is that about?
Lol!! You can swing but only with a limited number!!
I know
It happens though, I also know for a fact some people will warn others off from meetings by private message with rumours and heresay about them.
Pathetic isn't it? "
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"They're not sleeping when they're with me.
A lot, but not saying because people still judge others for being promiscuous, even on here.
I've noticed that too. WTHonestF is that about?
Lol!! You can swing but only with a limited number!!
I know
It happens though, I also know for a fact some people will warn others off from meetings by private message with rumours and heresay about them.
Pathetic isn't it?
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Maybe us 'promiscuous' people should warn each other off the ones who warn each other about us.
Or something. |
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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
As far as I am concerned it's no ones business except my own, if you admit to loads then you're called a slut/slag/slapper and if you say not many you're either too fugly or too fussy, like I said, at the end of the day it's no ones business but my own.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmmm seems like I'm thread death for this topic!
Too much honesty just takes the shine off. It's all well and good if they're horny - a count that rivals hefner is amusing when horny.
But in the cold clear light of day the reality of the power of a woman's libido (remember men may be horny but how often can they get that attended to? A horny halfway presentable woman can ALWAYS get that attended too!) in a sexually liberated world.
We're on a swingers site. I can't be the only one to be in four figures - I'm just the only one to state it with no shame or attempt to fudge the numbers or get coy.
So why the tumble around this thread since I made the.point?
How many of you have realised that you're not as open-minded as you thought and have put me in a box and labelled it slut and taped it up with bio-hazard all over it?
I play safe, I get tested. I just own up to having played a lot. And I will continue to do so.
But I won't lie about it or fib coyly.
Just in the last two days I have been really horny so I went out and found an answer - I got two shags (the first was disappointing). I'm not even in the UK.
Does that make me a slag? If I was a man and bragged about the sex on my holiday would I be a slag or a stud?
As always I had condoms and used them. I was sober when I pulled (yes I had a drink but I would have been borderline for driving) so made informed choices.
If I was in a relationship and he could keep up with me I would be monogamous. Few men can. So I swing.
And yet it seems there are swingers and swingers. Guess I must be one of the hardened swingers that profiles are biased against. But I don't feel any shame for who and what I am.
And I challenge any of you who have made any judgement of me due to "The Number" to induce any feeling of shame.
I'm a woman with a high libido, stamina and time to explore both with a wide variety of men so that is what I do.
And yes I did say four figures. "
Go you!!
Lets face it - most guys would probably love to be in that position - but don't have the energy!! |
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I came into swinging virtually a virgin. I'd slept with 3 or 4 girls before Rachel and lost my cherry a year or so before. Then we started swinging after about 6 months, had a long period of not doing much due to exams and when we finished we went a bit crazy. If you mean had sex with rather than slept with then I managed about 35 women in 3 months and Rachel played with nearly all the women I played with, plus about 20 guys.
Now she's in France and we've been teetotal for a couple of months.
I don't think numbers matter much really as long as you're having fun |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
It's well into 3 figures.
There was never a competetive element to this - it just grew, like Topsy.
There was a time I could track down all their names, most recent addresses and would happily recognise their birthday. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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17 women altogether.
Came out of a long term relationship(my number was 2 including her) not so long ago and didn't cheat during it. May 2011 she suggested seeing other people.
So between then and now 15 people. I try to stick with regular people where possible but some fbs ended up in relationships so had to stop seeing them and move on. |
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"Everytime i get with a woman she always asks me how many people i have slept with and i always tell i little white lie to make it sound not as bad as it is but i was curious, r u women as bad as us men?? My current number is 36 women and 0 guys..."
Who keeps count? I certainly don't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"None... because we don't sleep with people we fuck em !
I like a wee cuddle in the morn tho...then a filthy resuming spitroast"
yuck, yuck and double yuck, that is the most disgusting thing that i've ever heard you say... a cuddle WTF? |
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"None... because we don't sleep with people we fuck em !
I like a wee cuddle in the morn tho...then a filthy resuming spitroast
yuck, yuck and double yuck, that is the most disgusting thing that i've ever heard you say... a cuddle WTF?"
dont break my heart Atomic! |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"Hmmm seems like I'm thread death for this topic!
Too much honesty just takes the shine off. It's all well and good if they're horny - a count that rivals hefner is amusing when horny.
But in the cold clear light of day the reality of the power of a woman's libido (remember men may be horny but how often can they get that attended to? A horny halfway presentable woman can ALWAYS get that attended too!) in a sexually liberated world.
We're on a swingers site. I can't be the only one to be in four figures - I'm just the only one to state it with no shame or attempt to fudge the numbers or get coy.
So why the tumble around this thread since I made the.point?
How many of you have realised that you're not as open-minded as you thought and have put me in a box and labelled it slut and taped it up with bio-hazard all over it?
I play safe, I get tested. I just own up to having played a lot. And I will continue to do so.
But I won't lie about it or fib coyly.
Just in the last two days I have been really horny so I went out and found an answer - I got two shags (the first was disappointing). I'm not even in the UK.
Does that make me a slag? If I was a man and bragged about the sex on my holiday would I be a slag or a stud?
As always I had condoms and used them. I was sober when I pulled (yes I had a drink but I would have been borderline for driving) so made informed choices.
If I was in a relationship and he could keep up with me I would be monogamous. Few men can. So I swing.
And yet it seems there are swingers and swingers. Guess I must be one of the hardened swingers that profiles are biased against. But I don't feel any shame for who and what I am.
And I challenge any of you who have made any judgement of me due to "The Number" to induce any feeling of shame.
I'm a woman with a high libido, stamina and time to explore both with a wide variety of men so that is what I do.
And yes I did say four figures. "
Another fecking typo - I'm not deleting the damn thing again this time!
Hey TD (or SLF...that's Stiff Little Finger if you're as old as me) I had to go back up and re-read the thread cos I thought you were being a bit defensive and someone must have had a go for how many folk you'd fucked but I didn't find anything - hope you didn't get any PMs slagging you off...
Don't really understand your response, I think the jokey responses to the post were more regarding the "slept with" title rather than any downer on how many folk anyone had shagged - I responded seriously - if I'd fucked more folk I'da said - I've never been bothered by my tally (or what I can work out of it) and if asked by 'nilla friends I give the same response and do get looked askance at, but these are my friends - I mentioned having 30 guys between 12 weekly tests to one of my mates and got a but then she was more interested in how I managed that in 7 weeks of playing as I'd been poorly for a few weeks and also had Mother Nature to contend with so was only really talking about 3 parties, a club meet and a couple of 1:1s
I'm sure that "some" people will think I've had too many men, you've had too many men and if it was a bloke's conquest they may see it differently - all down to preference at the end of the day - if someone prefers not to contact me or you cos we're "slags" (cue naff Regan accent...) then fair do's - plenty more guys and girls to choose from
I met a girl who'd fucked 40 odd guys over a 10 hour period...I 'd in admiration and tipped my hat to her and admit to a tinge of jealousy for not having that ruddy stamina!
Not sure now what I meant to accomplish with this post but I'm waffling a bit now - TD/SLF, you keep doing what makes you happy - the folk on here that judge you badly for it - it's there problem, not yours...Once I'm recovered from my hip surgery, can I come stay with you for a few weeks please??? |
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By *aulusMan
over a year ago
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This thread did make me think and I've had a happy hour or 2 trying to figure it out and trying to recall names/places etc.
Reckon its over 70 ladies I've had full 'knowledge' of and approx another 40 or so I've 'heavy petted' with. lol
I would say that most of these have been in my normal life over the years with about 15 or so being fellow fabbers.
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