Curious the reasons why people go to clubs. I already heard the most obvious reasons like to partner swap, have 3somes,orgies, like being watched, meet like minded people.
I have been to a club myself, hoping to have more success than being on here (as at least the men already in the club) but so far no success. 
Genuinely interested in hearing other reasons for going to a club?    |
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"Dance floor, bedrooms, steam, sauna and sometimes a buffet. For a single lady this is a bargain. "
Bargain because the facilities offered is good value for money for single women to pay the lowest entrance fee? |
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"M and I just enjoy a night out together where we can have a dance and meet people and not feel like the oldest people in the world. "
Yes I can imagine compared to going to regular night club where most people are under 25 years old. I felt quite attractive and sexy with the amount of offers I got compared to a normal club. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
It doesn't take long to make lots of friends in clubs, so it can be a great social experience.
Also, it's a safe environment to meet new folk and if it doesn't work out there will be a few hundred other people there who you might play with.  |
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"It doesn't take long to make lots of friends in clubs, so it can be a great social experience.
Also, it's a safe environment to meet new folk and if it doesn't work out there will be a few hundred other people there who you might play with. "
I went on very quiet night where it seemed most people already knew eachother. Plus the pool of people was very limited. I know I need to go to very busy night to give me more opportunity to chat  |
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Multiple reasons for us. We like to meet friends and socialise at clubs.. we like a dance..enjoy a few drinks.. we like the option of playing with others if it happens..and we love to meet new people. Generally a good party experience x |
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I like that I can chat openly about whatever we want. On socials in a pub or cafe you can’t really openly chat about swinging unless it’s really quiet.
I also like seeing the outfits people wear and getting tips on where to buy new fun stuff. |
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over a year ago
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Dora is still very surprised that Guys find her attractive and sexy and we feel that the attention does her self confidence the world of good.
We’ve only been together a couple of years and her personal growth has been phenomenal.
For me it’s the very erotic thought of throwing the poor girl to the wolves so to speak. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It doesn't take long to make lots of friends in clubs, so it can be a great social experience.
Also, it's a safe environment to meet new folk and if it doesn't work out there will be a few hundred other people there who you might play with.
I went on very quiet night where it seemed most people already knew eachother. Plus the pool of people was very limited. I know I need to go to very busy night to give me more opportunity to chat "
Depends what you're looking for vs what it offers perhaps? Go on an events night to explore more a good fit? Or just try a social locally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It cuts out all the hassles with arranging meets. The social side is great and the attention I get from males. As boosted my confidence knowing that they find my attractive. Then there's the playing, for as little as you like to the extravert |
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"Dora is still very surprised that Guys find her attractive and sexy and we feel that the attention does her self confidence the world of good.
We’ve only been together a couple of years and her personal growth has been phenomenal.
For me it’s the very erotic thought of throwing the poor girl to the wolves so to speak. "
how could any guy not find her attractive - she is hot as fuck x |
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"It doesn't take long to make lots of friends in clubs, so it can be a great social experience.
Also, it's a safe environment to meet new folk and if it doesn't work out there will be a few hundred other people there who you might play with.
I went on very quiet night where it seemed most people already knew eachother. Plus the pool of people was very limited. I know I need to go to very busy night to give me more opportunity to chat "
if you fancy going to Abfabs on the 30th let me know , should be very busy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For me it's meeting people face to face from the get go. Cuts out the time wasting and investment that goes into meeting new people from here. Even if you don't find someone you vibe with, its still a good night out with your friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dora is still very surprised that Guys find her attractive and sexy and we feel that the attention does her self confidence the world of good.
We’ve only been together a couple of years and her personal growth has been phenomenal.
For me it’s the very erotic thought of throwing the poor girl to the wolves so to speak.
how could any guy not find her attractive - she is hot as fuck x "
Thank you |
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"M and I just enjoy a night out together where we can have a dance and meet people and not feel like the oldest people in the world. "
Exactly this. Like a kinky nightclub not full of youngsters. (The youngsters think they get up to stuff. If only they knew  ) |
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"Multiple reasons for us. We like to meet friends and socialise at clubs.. we like a dance..enjoy a few drinks.. we like the option of playing with others if it happens..and we love to meet new people. Generally a good party experience x"
This too |
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By *he SmithsCouple
over a year ago
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We love a night at club for lots of reasons.
It’s a chance for us to both dress up, Mrs Smith far more provocatively than she’d dare in normal life. I know she’ll always look amazing which turns me on anyway, let alone knowing she’s dressed like that for others to enjoy her too and all that that may mean.
It’s also so much easier than arranging something on here. Our spare time together is precious and a club is more likely to result in fun than laboured conversations or the lack of them on here.
It’s funny, on here we expect engagement with good spelling and grammar, at a club often just a grin or a nod is enough for a filthy time to kick off.
Mrs Smith loves being watched and others joining in, a private meet has its moments but never has the potential to be as rude as experiences we’ve enjoyed at a club - taking part or watching.
And to that end we’ll be back at Le Boudoir on the 24th… |
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By *risky FoxesCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle Emlyn/Stourport |
"Dora is still very surprised that Guys find her attractive and sexy and we feel that the attention does her self confidence the world of good.
We’ve only been together a couple of years and her personal growth has been phenomenal.
For me it’s the very erotic thought of throwing the poor girl to the wolves so to speak. "
I bloody love this |
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For us is the environment, the opportunity to dress up/down however we want and to enjoy a great night out in each others company and be as naughty as we like. If we meet other people and the mood takes then it's a bonus x |
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There is nothing like the anticipation felt walking up the driveway of a club , seeing the card parked there , wondering who’s going to be in there , how many couples , how many single women ( usually not many ) how many blokes , ( lots ) . But no matter what the ratio , it only takes finding the right person / people to have that old Shalamar song kicking in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single woman I feel clubs would be a place of *safety* if anything untowards were to happen the club would ask that person to leave & also the club would have that persons details for the police if need be |
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"It doesn't take long to make lots of friends in clubs, so it can be a great social experience.
Also, it's a safe environment to meet new folk and if it doesn't work out there will be a few hundred other people there who you might play with.
I went on very quiet night where it seemed most people already knew eachother. Plus the pool of people was very limited. I know I need to go to very busy night to give me more opportunity to chat "
I haven’t been to a club yet but I’d love to, it’s been on my radar for a while.
I’m not far from you so if you fancy a chat, we can see how we get on and could venture out together? Xx |
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