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Feeling down after a meet
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else experienced this? First time, felt really low despite the god sex. Is this unusual? Never had it before as usually on a high…"
I'll be honest man, I don't know about you're life so please forgive me for assuming anything that might be incorrect here.
It could be because deep down you might be needing something else.
I mean sex is fun and all, but there are things, for me personally, that I put before anything sexy happens. This is just a treat for me to have fun on here and mingle with other like-minded people.
Perhaps I'm taking the question way out of context, but this is just the way I've interpreted it, so I hope what I say has some value for you.
Take care buddy. x |
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"Anyone else experienced this? First time, felt really low despite the god sex. Is this unusual? Never had it before as usually on a high…"
Was it extreme or intense sex in any way that you possibly needed aftercare? |
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"Anyone else experienced this? First time, felt really low despite the god sex. Is this unusual? Never had it before as usually on a high…
I'll be honest man, I don't know about you're life so please forgive me for assuming anything that might be incorrect here.
It could be because deep down you might be needing something else.
I mean sex is fun and all, but there are things, for me personally, that I put before anything sexy happens. This is just a treat for me to have fun on here and mingle with other like-minded people.
Perhaps I'm taking the question way out of context, but this is just the way I've interpreted it, so I hope what I say has some value for you.
Take care buddy. x"
Thank you, first time it’s happened and felt really low. First world problems but just interested to know if was common. Guess I’m after “the one” eventually and it just left me feeling empty and really shitty. Hopefully a blip! But thanks for your kind words  |
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"Anyone else experienced this? First time, felt really low despite the god sex. Is this unusual? Never had it before as usually on a high…
Was it extreme or intense sex in any way that you possibly needed aftercare? "
Nope, good session but nothing out of the ordinary. |
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"Anyone else experienced this? First time, felt really low despite the god sex. Is this unusual? Never had it before as usually on a high…"
Is it a disconnect feeling or the build up and meet was so great, you are now sub meeting dropping?
If so, i get that, you are not alone or unusual x Big hug x |
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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago
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"Anyone else experienced this? First time, felt really low despite the god sex. Is this unusual? Never had it before as usually on a high…
I'll be honest man, I don't know about you're life so please forgive me for assuming anything that might be incorrect here.
It could be because deep down you might be needing something else.
I mean sex is fun and all, but there are things, for me personally, that I put before anything sexy happens. This is just a treat for me to have fun on here and mingle with other like-minded people.
Perhaps I'm taking the question way out of context, but this is just the way I've interpreted it, so I hope what I say has some value for you.
Take care buddy. x
Thank you, first time it’s happened and felt really low. First world problems but just interested to know if was common. Guess I’m after “the one” eventually and it just left me feeling empty and really shitty. Hopefully a blip! But thanks for your kind words "
It can be a bit of a crash after the highs. It happens, and is just a chemical thing.
The other deeper empty feeling is something i've experienced.
Take some me time.
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"Anyone else experienced this? First time, felt really low despite the god sex. Is this unusual? Never had it before as usually on a high…"
I think you've had some solid advice already, minus the knob talking about attention seeking.
As primarily a kinkster, in a slightly different way it sounds like something I sometimes get after a scene called 'sub drop' sounds silly but try having some chocolate and/or a sweet tea and a bath and that might help!
Otherwise, think about whether one off sex is something you actually want in life, like that chocolate bar it tastes good at the time but doesn't give you the body you want long term!
Also - had a little stalk of your profile and it made me laugh so thanks for being the reason I'm going to bed with a smile on my face!
Chin up, and always remember talking about something often makes you feel better!
C x |
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"Anyone else experienced this? First time, felt really low despite the god sex. Is this unusual? Never had it before as usually on a high…
Is it a disconnect feeling or the build up and meet was so great, you are now sub meeting dropping?
If so, i get that, you are not alone or unusual x Big hug x"
Thank you!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else experienced this? First time, felt really low despite the god sex. Is this unusual? Never had it before as usually on a high…
I think you've had some solid advice already, minus the knob talking about attention seeking.
As primarily a kinkster, in a slightly different way it sounds like something I sometimes get after a scene called 'sub drop' sounds silly but try having some chocolate and/or a sweet tea and a bath and that might help!
Otherwise, think about whether one off sex is something you actually want in life, like that chocolate bar it tastes good at the time but doesn't give you the body you want long term!
Also - had a little stalk of your profile and it made me laugh so thanks for being the reason I'm going to bed with a smile on my face!
Chin up, and always remember talking about something often makes you feel better!
C x"
Omg after reading this I went in and read the profile. I spilt my drink when I read the granny test. No chance of me getting to the next stage. Lmfao |
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"Anyone else experienced this? First time, felt really low despite the god sex. Is this unusual? Never had it before as usually on a high…
I think you've had some solid advice already, minus the knob talking about attention seeking.
As primarily a kinkster, in a slightly different way it sounds like something I sometimes get after a scene called 'sub drop' sounds silly but try having some chocolate and/or a sweet tea and a bath and that might help!
Otherwise, think about whether one off sex is something you actually want in life, like that chocolate bar it tastes good at the time but doesn't give you the body you want long term!
Also - had a little stalk of your profile and it made me laugh so thanks for being the reason I'm going to bed with a smile on my face!
Chin up, and always remember talking about something often makes you feel better!
C x"
Thank you and you may have hit the nail on the head, really want a FWB rather than endless one offs eventually. Just got me hard.
And glad you liked the profile!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else experienced this? First time, felt really low despite the god sex. Is this unusual? Never had it before as usually on a high…"
I’ve had this a few times, usually lingers for a couple of days too. |
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"Anyone else experienced this? First time, felt really low despite the god sex. Is this unusual? Never had it before as usually on a high…
I think you've had some solid advice already, minus the knob talking about attention seeking.
As primarily a kinkster, in a slightly different way it sounds like something I sometimes get after a scene called 'sub drop' sounds silly but try having some chocolate and/or a sweet tea and a bath and that might help!
Otherwise, think about whether one off sex is something you actually want in life, like that chocolate bar it tastes good at the time but doesn't give you the body you want long term!
Also - had a little stalk of your profile and it made me laugh so thanks for being the reason I'm going to bed with a smile on my face!
Chin up, and always remember talking about something often makes you feel better!
C x
Thank you and you may have hit the nail on the head, really want a FWB rather than endless one offs eventually. Just got me hard.
And glad you liked the profile! "
Well good luck in finding that!
Also, I can bake a cake even Mary Berry would love |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"Anyone else experienced this? First time, felt really low despite the god sex. Is this unusual? Never had it before as usually on a high…
Was it extreme or intense sex in any way that you possibly needed aftercare? "
This. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was this maybe a sense of guilt .. did you fuck and deep down didn’t want to
Did you feel obliged to perform ?
Was the connection missing that sexual one that allows you to go full out or making do with a situation and possibly regretting the meet
Or was it purely hormone controlled low, following ecstatic blowout |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's pretty normal after the build up and excitement. It can be quite the downer if you've had an amazing time just because it's over. I've had it a few times the day after but if it goes on longer than that, there might be a deeper issue of needing something more. |
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By *assy MissWoman
over a year ago
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In the 8 years I’ve been swinging, I’ve had that feeling once or twice. I was never sure why. It’s a little disturbing but luckily didn’t last long.
Can I add to the list of those who love your profile. Made me smile thing morning too |
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Thanks all for the kind replies, it’s very sweet and shows what a caring bunch you are. It’s also very reassuring to know it’s not uncommon and the possible reasons behind it. Feeling much better already!
And thanks for the profile feedback - glad it’s raised a few laughs / smiles! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone else experienced this? First time, felt really low despite the god sex. Is this unusual? Never had it before as usually on a high…"
as others have already said and given some good advice i just wanted to add your not alone in this. the endorphins from all the build up and excitement of the meet just disappear.
sub drop or similar is very real. possibly a more Fwb situation would be better suited, i feel it works best with me. the little tx messages after a meet and the communication helps the drop after being so intense. also just chatting to others, on here, potential meets, friends can help.
your profile is very well written! had a good chuckle also. |
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