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This literally cringes me out and reminds me of flashers.
I'm a straight confident male but I wouldn't even dream of sending a dick with without a request and certainly wouldn't post it as my profile pic wtf....
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"This literally cringes me out and reminds me of flashers.
I'm a straight confident male but I wouldn't even dream of sending a dick with without a request and certainly wouldn't post it as my profile pic wtf....
No wonder couples block single males "
It might work for me, but then...
But most of the time I'd rather something else, which is pretty hypocritical of me... |
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over a year ago
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Does it bother you if couples are naked or if a woman is naked in their profile picture?
Each to their own I say. I love my cock, appreciate others won't buy given how little views my profile gets, I don't think it matters if it's on display or not. |
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over a year ago
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I don't have a problem with a cock in a picture, but a profile that has only dick pics is a turn off.
It takes more than a dick to be good in the bedroom. X |
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This is a very strange quirk of this site indeed. Received wisdom seems to suggest cock pics are a no no which is really odd, because ultimately most are here for just that. I know they aren't as photogenic as a nice pair of boobs but aren't we also told by mainstream media not to sexualise breasts too? It's all very confusing.
Ultimately I'll post a cock pic if I want.(though not as profile pic) If someone decides to take a look that's their liberty.
I can't quite see how you can have tits and fanny plastered all over this site and be so pious about an image of a penis. Don't like it, move on! |
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"This literally cringes me out and reminds me of flashers.
I'm a straight confident male but I wouldn't even dream of sending a dick with without a request and certainly wouldn't post it as my profile pic wtf....
No wonder couples block single males "
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If it's only dick pictures on a profile we just delete and block them ! and even if we did agree to meet ?? would they would sat in the pub/bar with their smart phones held above their head with a dick pic on display so we'd know who they were ?? and what comes attached to any given body part tends to be governing factor with us but then we are rather strange/weirdo's xx  |
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I’m not a fan but then I’m not a size queen either! I’m okay with one artfully taken one in their gallery but hate being sent them in messages or seeing them as profile pics.
I’d add it to my profile but I use their inclusion as a way to quickly filter my messages. |
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"This literally cringes me out and reminds me of flashers.
I'm a straight confident male but I wouldn't even dream of sending a dick with without a request and certainly wouldn't post it as my profile pic wtf....
No wonder couples block single males "
I totally agree with you. I think a person should make the choice whether they see your genitals or not. Thrusting them into peoples faces in a profile picture is super creepy to me. Instant block (and possibly a few choice words) if I get a message from anyone with a cock profile pic or an unsolicited dick pic. |
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I dont really care as if meeting will see their cock or fanny soon enough anyway. , enough women have pics of their fanny / asshole / tits out .. .so cant really see it being issue for men ,, I think what most forget is that men out number women by miles , so you see more cock ...
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It’s just another part of you, skin and fresh like any other sort of your body. Don’t see what all the fuss is about. There loads of tits, arse, fanny, cum, sex pics and vids, and there is a question when you add pictures of what it shows, and cock is an option.
It’s fab swingers, we are all here for the same reason, so if you can’t handle seeing some cock I think you are on the wrong website. |
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"It’s just another part of you, skin and fresh like any other sort of your body. Don’t see what all the fuss is about. There loads of tits, arse, fanny, cum, sex pics and vids, and there is a question when you add pictures of what it shows, and cock is an option.
It’s fab swingers, we are all here for the same reason, so if you can’t handle seeing some cock I think you are on the wrong website."
You do you! Nobody is saying you can’t have them and not all women show close ups of their pussy anyway! They just won’t be to everyone’s taste and people are free to say and think that. Showing them may attract the kind of person you want to attract but will certainly put off others but then maybe the type it would put off wouldn’t be for you anyway! |
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" Showing them may attract the kind of person you want to attract but will certainly put off others but then maybe the type it would put off wouldn’t be for you anyway!"
Exactly. For better or worse, someone who hates my pics probably wouldn't like sex with me! |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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It's up to each person what they choose to show ,I'd just click off a profile if I could only see their cock .However it's their profile & they can post what they want.
My annoyance is those who attach cock pics to first messages they send me ,just why ?!.it's an instant delete and block. |
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My annoyance is those who attach cock pics to first messages they send me ,just why ?!.it's an instant delete and block."
Completely agree. Freedom on profile pics and galleries should be individual though. |
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"And tempted to change my profile pic to a cock pic as a kind of finger up to the original concept of this post!"
Great idea. Suspect post was borne of the tactic to appear 'woke' and 'not like those brutes' in order to get more. I think he's answered his own question. |
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"It’s just another part of you, skin and fresh like any other sort of your body. Don’t see what all the fuss is about. There loads of tits, arse, fanny, cum, sex pics and vids, and there is a question when you add pictures of what it shows, and cock is an option.
It’s fab swingers, we are all here for the same reason, so if you can’t handle seeing some cock I think you are on the wrong website."
The issue isn’t the pics being there, it’s making people look at them whether they like it or not. I think people should be able to post whatever they want on their profile, just not on the profile pic.
I don’t actually know why it’s allowed on here when cyberflashing is illegal.
And I’d disagree that we’re all here for the same reason.
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"It’s just another part of you, skin and fresh like any other sort of your body. Don’t see what all the fuss is about. There loads of tits, arse, fanny, cum, sex pics and vids, and there is a question when you add pictures of what it shows, and cock is an option.
It’s fab swingers, we are all here for the same reason, so if you can’t handle seeing some cock I think you are on the wrong website.
The issue isn’t the pics bein
g there, it’s making people look at them whether they like it or not. I think people should be able to post whatever they want on their profile, just not on the profile pic.
I don’t actually know why it’s allowed on here when cyberflashing is illegal.
And I’d disagree that we’re all here for the same reason.
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where do we draw the line at then thought, once you start censoring one thing, then others can chime up but I am offended by xyz,, boobs banned as flashing , bare asscheeks etc .. . its an adult rated website for 18+ , its clearly marked as sensitive media in the site ... this isn't Facebook or some other vanilla website ...
its for adults that want to engage in various adult related activities .. seeing naked parts of bodies is going to be part of that ...
Prob the best solution is if you have to mandatory mark your pics with whats in them ...to even get them posted live .. then have a filter for users to remove said profiles or pictures from appearing that have genitals showing ... it would be easier just to use genitals to catch cocks/cunt pics equally tbh . |
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"It’s just another part of you, skin and fresh like any other sort of your body. Don’t see what all the fuss is about. There loads of tits, arse, fanny, cum, sex pics and vids, and there is a question when you add pictures of what it shows, and cock is an option.
It’s fab swingers, we are all here for the same reason, so if you can’t handle seeing some cock I think you are on the wrong website.
The issue isn’t the pics bein
g there, it’s making people look at them whether they like it or not. I think people should be able to post whatever they want on their profile, just not on the profile pic.
I don’t actually know why it’s allowed on here when cyberflashing is illegal.
And I’d disagree that we’re all here for the same reason.
where do we draw the line at then thought, once you start censoring one thing, then others can chime up but I am offended by xyz,, boobs banned as flashing , bare asscheeks etc .. . its an adult rated website for 18+ , its clearly marked as sensitive media in the site ... this isn't Facebook or some other vanilla website ...
its for adults that want to engage in various adult related activities .. seeing naked parts of bodies is going to be part of that ...
Prob the best solution is if you have to mandatory mark your pics with whats in them ...to even get them posted live .. then have a filter for users to remove said profiles or pictures from appearing that have genitals showing ... it would be easier just to use genitals to catch cocks/cunt pics equally tbh . "
I think we should be allowed to post what we like on our profiles, my genitals are on mine. It’s an 18+ site, as you say. But I don’t force those pictures upon people, you have to go looking to be able to find them.
I still think we should act with decorum here. I don’t think it’s appropriate to force people to see your genitals whether they like it or not. I think there should be some consent involved in that. |
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"This literally cringes me out and reminds me of flashers.
I'm a straight confident male but I wouldn't even dream of sending a dick with without a request and certainly wouldn't post it as my profile pic wtf....
No wonder couples block single males
I totally agree with you. I think a person should make the choice whether they see your genitals or not. Thrusting them into peoples faces in a profile picture is super creepy to me. Instant block (and possibly a few choice words) if I get a message from anyone with a cock profile pic or an unsolicited dick pic. "
This is my stance too! I've gone so far as to block them even if they look at our profile, it'll seem far fetched to some but it avoids them inevitably hassling us later down the line |
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There's a difference between a cock pic over a toilet and a tasteful cock pic !
I've had to become something of a cock spotter
As Mrs j will say , I wouldn't by a car without seeing it first , or that's not going anywhere near me ! |
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If the profile pic is just a cock it's instant delete.
What gets me is the effort that guys put into taking their dick pics. If we ask for a face pic they usually send something terrible they've put zero effort into. |
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What gets me is the effort that guys put into taking their dick pics. If we ask for a face pic they usually send something terrible they've put zero effort into. "
No effort needed with a face pic. Faces don't struggle to get hard enough to photograph.
However, it's always better when the face looks 'pleased to see' the photographer! |
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"This literally cringes me out and reminds me of flashers.
I'm a straight confident male but I wouldn't even dream of sending a dick with without a request and certainly wouldn't post it as my profile pic wtf....
No wonder couples block single males
I totally agree with you. I think a person should make the choice whether they see your genitals or not. Thrusting them into peoples faces in a profile picture is super creepy to me. Instant block (and possibly a few choice words) if I get a message from anyone with a cock profile pic or an unsolicited dick pic.
This is my stance too! I've gone so far as to block them even if they look at our profile, it'll seem far fetched to some but it avoids them inevitably hassling us later down the line "
If you know you want nothing to do with them, that makes sense. Fewer pics you don’t want to see popping up in your face. |
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"This literally cringes me out and reminds me of flashers.
I'm a straight confident male but I wouldn't even dream of sending a dick with without a request and certainly wouldn't post it as my profile pic wtf....
No wonder couples block single males "
Strangely it does seem to work for some guys. I've seen profiles overflowing with dick pics, and they have meet veris. Guess it just depends what kind of meets you're looking for |
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"This literally cringes me out and reminds me of flashers.
I'm a straight confident male but I wouldn't even dream of sending a dick with without a request and certainly wouldn't post it as my profile pic wtf....
No wonder couples block single males
Strangely it does seem to work for some guys. I've seen profiles overflowing with dick pics, and they have meet veris. Guess it just depends what kind of meets you're looking for"
Are the pics in the public gallery or are they the profile pic? Big difference |
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"The thing is if you are attractive and the other person likes you doesn't matter what your profile picture is of."
But many women just delete messages with cock as profile pic so they won’t even get to whether you’re attractive or not! |
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"This literally cringes me out and reminds me of flashers.
I'm a straight confident male but I wouldn't even dream of sending a dick with without a request and certainly wouldn't post it as my profile pic wtf....
No wonder couples block single males
Guess it just depends what kind of meets you're looking for"
THIS! |
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"The thing is if you are attractive and the other person likes you doesn't matter what your profile picture is of.
But many women just delete messages with cock as profile pic so they won’t even get to whether you’re attractive or not! "
I see a lot of statuses on women profile clearly stating looking for a big one size queen etc don't contact unless certain size. So surely them type will want to see it as evidence etc and will most likely get a response and message you. |
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"The thing is if you are attractive and the other person likes you doesn't matter what your profile picture is of.
But many women just delete messages with cock as profile pic so they won’t even get to whether you’re attractive or not!
I see a lot of statuses on women profile clearly stating looking for a big one size queen etc don't contact unless certain size. So surely them type will want to see it as evidence etc and will most likely get a response and message you."
That’s what galleries are for though, surely? Even size queens might not react positively to cock as profile pic! |
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I really don’t like them as profile pics and don’t think they should be sent to inboxes unless requested - I will delete/ block on that basis.
I don’t mind if there’s one of two in their profile gallery, as you have the choice to view their pics or not. However, pics should be tastefully done and varied, not all cock pics, not over toilets or with pants round ankles and they’re not smacking you in the face or are particularly angry looking lol |
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"The thing is if you are attractive and the other person likes you doesn't matter what your profile picture is of.
But many women just delete messages with cock as profile pic so they won’t even get to whether you’re attractive or not!
I see a lot of statuses on women profile clearly stating looking for a big one size queen etc don't contact unless certain size. So surely them type will want to see it as evidence etc and will most likely get a response and message you.
That’s what galleries are for though, surely? Even size queens might not react positively to cock as profile pic! "
I think if you have a big girthy one they will love it if they are really into size |
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"I really don’t like them as profile pics and don’t think they should be sent to inboxes unless requested - I will delete/ block on that basis.
I don’t mind if there’s one of two in their profile gallery, as you have the choice to view their pics or not. However, pics should be tastefully done and varied, not all cock pics, not over toilets or with pants round ankles and they’re not smacking you in the face or are particularly angry looking lol "
If i had a decent sized one I would be definitely showing it off whenever I can. |
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"I think they can be quite funny as profile pics. You see people discussing serious issues (eg mental health, or the queen's death) and then next to their comment is a disembodied dick. "
Ha ha yes it's for this reason I changed my pic with finger up ass as thought it disrespectful this week x |
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"This literally cringes me out and reminds me of flashers.
I'm a straight confident male but I wouldn't even dream of sending a dick with without a request and certainly wouldn't post it as my profile pic wtf....
No wonder couples block single males
I totally agree with you. I think a person should make the choice whether they see your genitals or not. Thrusting them into peoples faces in a profile picture is super creepy to me. Instant block (and possibly a few choice words) if I get a message from anyone with a cock profile pic or an unsolicited dick pic.
This is my stance too! I've gone so far as to block them even if they look at our profile, it'll seem far fetched to some but it avoids them inevitably hassling us later down the line
If you know you want nothing to do with them, that makes sense. Fewer pics you don’t want to see popping up in your face. "
I made a thread about this recently but folks were less than understanding |
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"I don’t even have one in my gallery.
Sometimes less is more. "
Totally agree! Profiles with lots of cock pics turn us off immediately! male profiles full of these pics definitely seem not to have as many verifications by meets as the ones that have nice artistic body or face pics, wise up boys!  |
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While I totally understand not having a dick pic as a profile pic, I do think a male profile should have one
It's like looking for a new car and being unable to look under the bonet, I don't want to waste time sending endless messages until I know what the end prize maybe |
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