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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all.
Before the question, I would like to state that there are no racist motives behind this and if offence happens to be caused, it is not my intention (I would enjoy being a Black Male instead of a geeky white guy).
I'm curious to know peoples opinions on Black Males. It is a growing sexual desire for women, especially those within cuckold couples.
I am interested to know the reasons behind the desire. Is it a taboo aspect, the psychological personalities of black males (confident and dominant), or is it that it is less common (lots of regular white guys, bbcs are rare)?
Thoughts and opinions appreciated.
Thanks.
I apologize if a thread like this has been done before; if it has, let me know and I will delete the post if possible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It might be as simple as this: People (i.e. Women), will try something once and if it is good will keep it as a preference and may try it again from time to time. Some women may develop more than a preference and in extreme cases some women will choose to exercise that preference exclusively (hence the message on some proiles "Black guys only")... Swinging unfortunately is not about inner beauty. People are generally into it to have fun and more fun and better fun, seems to take preference over everything else. And yes, black guys do appear to be the flava of the current epoch, but what we black guys have to remember and what everyone should be aware of, is that nothing lasts for ever!!! |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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Theres plenty of white couples been cucked by white guys. Theres plenty of white women who have been Dom'd by white guys - the amount of women looking for black guys isnt that many really - for some it may be a fantasy - just as id like a Salma Hayak lookylike in the bedroom - just black men are probably more easily available.
Youve got to remember also - that there are plenty of white women who dont like guys whether black or asiain .. so it is simply a matter of choice - and timing more than likely |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Nice responses people.
I am not insecure about my position and i only have preferences towards indian girls and teachers(stemming from my first crush being my indian teacher).
I am curious to know if the attraction is, as mentioned above, aesthetic, or if it goes beyond appearances and size. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like white guys
I like black guys
I never ask about cock size
Its the person in the skin Im attracted too
ps I like white women
I like black women
I dont like smurfs but if I remember correctly some of the regs on here do  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like white guys
I like black guys
I never ask about cock size
Its the person in the skin Im attracted too
ps I like white women
I like black women
I dont like smurfs but if I remember correctly some of the regs on here do "
I don't mind smurfs - the 'blue' thing is quite a turn on!
It's only when someone you're playing with turns blue during sex you should start worrying!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't look at a potential meet (or any person in general!) for their skin colour/race, but for their ability to keep me entertained throughout a meet. I haven't met many black guys but that isn't a conscious choice, just the way it's worked out I guess.
One thing I do dislike however is an assumption by a minority that I will leap at the chance to meet because they are black. I also am not keen on the 'Black for White' nights as I like a choice of playmates and don't like the idea of that being limited...if that makes sense!
Some men with bigger cocks can come across as a bit arrogant, and I have declined meets with some very attractive guys (black and white) because they have assumed having a big cock is all they need to get into my knickers and so made no effort to chat. My thought is if you can't be arsed to send a few chatty messages are you going to be arsed to make sure I'm aroused enough to take the huge cock without it being uncomfortable |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I find black men very attractive and I like the fact they are usually quite laid back and relaxed about meeting white women. It's very unlikely one will ever propose to me!
However I don't go for them for their cocks. I've had BBCs, I've had SBCs, I've had VVBBCs, and to be honest the thing I enjoyed most was the fact they are great company. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes i think you might be barking up the wrong tree if you think it's all about size. Size is good, but not as important for Squames as being dominated by big strong black guy and when i say dominated i don't mean in a "butt man" sort of way but in a lifting her up and slamming her on the bed without taking her off his cock sort of way! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I hear people talking about BBC sometimes you would think they were talking about some mythical creature. Its just a cock attached to a black bloke at the end of the day.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like white guys
I like black guys
I never ask about cock size
Its the person in the skin Im attracted too
ps I like white women
I like black women
I dont like smurfs but if I remember correctly some of the regs on here do "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's plenty of profile that say 'no blacks or coloureds' and to be honest in the early days I politely mailed a few women who claimed they were seeking BBC ...and I got no response - so perhaps for some it is just that - a fantasy.
At the end of the day for me it's about the connection - I'm happy to provide a BBC but would prefer it if this wasn't the women's sole reason for meeting me ...there's a man on the end of the cock by the way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm one of the "black guys only" women on here.
I'm married to a white chap and we have a ferociously good sex life, but the only thing he can't do for me is be black.
I've always been attracted to black men, I love the whole package and it's not about cock size. I get a bit irritated when people presume it's all a BBC thing, as there are plenty of black gentlemen out there with average sized cocks who know how to use them amazingly well.
I enjoy the skin colour contrast and the difference in physique, as well as the delight of being with a man who wants a white lady. It's a totally different recipe than I get in my daily life and I love it.
Also, there's little that can compare to the fun of having a threesome with my husband and a chap of a different race. I'm like a kid in a sweet shop when that happens.
It's personal taste, and we all have that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm one of the "black guys only" women on here.
I'm married to a white chap and we have a ferociously good sex life, but the only thing he can't do for me is be black.
I've always been attracted to black men, I love the whole package and it's not about cock size. I get a bit irritated when people presume it's all a BBC thing, as there are plenty of black gentlemen out there with average sized cocks who know how to use them amazingly well.
I enjoy the skin colour contrast and the difference in physique, as well as the delight of being with a man who wants a white lady. It's a totally different recipe than I get in my daily life and I love it.
Also, there's little that can compare to the fun of having a threesome with my husband and a chap of a different race. I'm like a kid in a sweet shop when that happens.
It's personal taste, and we all have that. "
That being said... I'm a black bloke |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Where is it? Where's the BBC?
was one of my fantasies when I joined here and happy to say I've ticked it off. Wouldn't include or exclude anyone based on colour of cock now.
Tho that being slammed on the bed post turned me on big time! Can't beat a bit of slamming |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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BBC? well, as said above, not all black fellas are "big" lol...
For me, the attraction is more than the cock, it's the eyes, the look in the eyes, the lips, the skin colour, the skin texture, the physique, the manner, and, I have found that black fellas are more sensual than white ones, may be just that I have found ones that are sensual anyway, but I certainly can't get enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's plenty of profile that say 'no blacks or coloureds' and to be honest in the early days I politely mailed a few women who claimed they were seeking BBC ...and I got no response - so perhaps for some it is just that - a fantasy.
At the end of the day for me it's about the connection - I'm happy to provide a BBC but would prefer it if this wasn't the women's sole reason for meeting me ...there's a man on the end of the cock by the way "
For me it's never my sole reason....it would be my first level selection criteria. It's my personal preference as I'm married to a lovely slim white guy and just look for the complete opposite when I'm playing. I expect if I was married to a huge black guy I'd be looking for a skinny white guy. let's face it we all look for certain attributes, that's why there are filters. Of course there are those that aren't choosy and are just looking for sex and aren't bothered where they get it from. So although our profile is one of the guilty ones that says black only that doesn't mean just any black guy. Once they get past level one then it is all about the person, if there is an attraction, if we make some sort of connection..... And if they happen to have a BBC all the better but that's certainly not the most important thing. And just for the record I'm not offended if a guy is looking for a tall leggy blond with big boobs. I accept that that is their preference and no matter how much I might want to be like that it isn't going to happen! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm hugely attracted to black and asian women (and white women too), so it makes sense, (despite cock size), that white women would really fancy black guys.
Also the majority of black guys I know are really well groomed and in great physical condition,
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the ones that i have seen CANOT KEEP A HARD ON  end of "
Maybe they'd lost the urge after trying to read all the way through your profile
All pleasant enough and to the point, but give me some space to breathe between the sentences 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think your thinking, and I totally agree..there are as many black idiot guys as there are white ones. Skill, and personality is important for me...but the top one being.....someone who wants to meet with me because they like me, not because I'm black...
Jen
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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I am not going to say what i always say on the topic because I have been abused for it... been called a hater because of it... and to be honest I just can't be arsed with it all anymore.....
all i will say is that I want people to meet me for me.... not for what I do or don't happen to have...
shame its dehumanising....  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Not sure if you are all understanding what I was initially asking.
I used BBC as it is a common phrase, I hadn't heard of SBC.
In my original message, I didn't even mention cock size after the title.
What I was asking about, which a few have commented on, was whether it was a psychological aspect, taboo aspect, or a racial rarity (or a combination), that made women attracted to black males within the fantasy.
Again, I don't really care about the cock size; it has also been mentioned by commenters, that white guys can also have big cocks too.
Thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure if you are all understanding what I was initially asking.
I used BBC as it is a common phrase, I hadn't heard of SBC.
In my original message, I didn't even mention cock size after the title.
What I was asking about, which a few have commented on, was whether it was a psychological aspect, taboo aspect, or a racial rarity (or a combination), that made women attracted to black males within the fantasy.
Again, I don't really care about the cock size; it has also been mentioned by commenters, that white guys can also have big cocks too.
Thanks."
Terminoligy can get people fired up. BBC, BBW, etc will always encourage firey discussion....
At the risk of stepping far far away from the whole lighthearted swinging theme, here I go lol.
Your question is a valid and interesting one. I've often considered my own attitude and tastes, and for me personally I think it's mostly the racial rarity thing.
When I was growing up there was no mixed ehtnicity in my life. All of my school friends were white and it was highly uusual to see any racial variety in the vicinity.
I do recall having a primary school crush on a boy who I thought was fascinating and beautiful. It was only recently when I saw a photo on Facebook I realised that the lad in question was of mixed race. I hadn't a clue at that age that he was anything but pretty. So I guess it's something about someone being different to the norm for me.
One of my theories?
If you take this sentiment to grass roots and imagine the human race historically, I suppose that a newcomer to an area or tribe is fresh breeding stock. Some people, like me, may be attracted to this on a primal level. Nature wants us to procreate and have thriving genetic material, so adding to the diversity of the gene pool is a progressive step.
Feel free to blow me out of the water of course, but it's an explanation of a possible reason that I am so attracted to men from different backgrounds. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"When I was growing up there was no mixed ehtnicity in my life. All of my school friends were white and it was highly uusual to see any racial variety in the vicinity."
I was actually going to put something similar in my first reply. I didn't see a black person until I was 17 as there are not many in York now and certainly wasn't in the small village I grew up in. I wonder if it was the novelty that attracted me. However, after having many lovely black men since then I don't think there's any novelty or taboo any more. I just think they're good fun. Amazingly unreliable, but good fun.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not sure if you are all understanding what I was initially asking.
I used BBC as it is a common phrase, I hadn't heard of SBC.
In my original message, I didn't even mention cock size after the title.
What I was asking about, which a few have commented on, was whether it was a psychological aspect, taboo aspect, or a racial rarity (or a combination), that made women attracted to black males within the fantasy.
Again, I don't really care about the cock size; it has also been mentioned by commenters, that white guys can also have big cocks too.
Thanks.
Terminoligy can get people fired up. BBC, BBW, etc will always encourage firey discussion....
At the risk of stepping far far away from the whole lighthearted swinging theme, here I go lol.
Your question is a valid and interesting one. I've often considered my own attitude and tastes, and for me personally I think it's mostly the racial rarity thing.
When I was growing up there was no mixed ehtnicity in my life. All of my school friends were white and it was highly uusual to see any racial variety in the vicinity.
I do recall having a primary school crush on a boy who I thought was fascinating and beautiful. It was only recently when I saw a photo on Facebook I realised that the lad in question was of mixed race. I hadn't a clue at that age that he was anything but pretty. So I guess it's something about someone being different to the norm for me.
One of my theories?
If you take this sentiment to grass roots and imagine the human race historically, I suppose that a newcomer to an area or tribe is fresh breeding stock. Some people, like me, may be attracted to this on a primal level. Nature wants us to procreate and have thriving genetic material, so adding to the diversity of the gene pool is a progressive step.
Feel free to blow me out of the water of course, but it's an explanation of a possible reason that I am so attracted to men from different backgrounds."
Not exactly too sure about the historical part...but yes mixing of the genes from other races ensures genetic diversity....but we will all become a common soup at some point anyway, thats the main reason I cant wait to get my hands around a BBW!
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By (user no longer on site)
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To be fair it seems to be the opposite, there seems to be more and more couples and females on here that only seek white guys.
The way I see it is people have their preferences, and they all have there different reasons for it: attraction, personality, size, body, attitude etc
But the stigma of a black man or black people is very narrow minded, not all black people are the same just like not all white people are the same or all asian people are the same.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Some pretty shalllow comments on here and very generalised. In our experience we have seen and met white men with more muscular physiques and bigger cocks and short black guys with small cocks so that blows that myth wide open.
We can understand preferences but we don't have any, we are equal opportunity shaggers and are more turned on by how people respond to us and if they want us in turn. They could be black, white, Asian, aboriginal, apache indian whatever! |
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