I've noticed while looking at profiles via the search function and also in messages I've been sent that a lot of people seem to just dish out their mobile number quite happily to anyone. Sometimes it's even on the status'.
Is this not weird? I'd be paranoid giving my number out to total strangers. Yes there are a few people I've given my number to from fab but they are people I've met or spoken to a lot.
What's your rule on handing out your number?? X |
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over a year ago
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I have been the victim of a stalker in the past (god knows why) and they were members of this site. I would never advertise my contact details openly like that.
I think people who do are a little crazy.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been the victim of a stalker in the past (god knows why) and they were members of this site. I would never advertise my contact details openly like that.
I think people who do are a little crazy...."
Pretty much the same so far better keeping details to those who need it and not those who you are not interested in at all. |
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"On another site we openly put our phone numbers on and Ive never had a stalker....... Ive got 9 phones so sometimes give one of these out..... Lots use a swinging number/phone
9 phones have you a separate personality for each one? "
Tee hee. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't give my number out, am considering a second phone purely for swinging though, anyone else do this?"
We have a fuck phone, just gets used for swinging.
Years ago we used to give our own phone numbers but used to get calls day and night of people.
Can't understand why people leave their numbers on profiles tho x |
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"I've noticed while looking at profiles via the search function and also in messages I've been sent that a lot of people seem to just dish out their mobile number quite happily to anyone. Sometimes it's even on the status'.
Is this not weird? I'd be paranoid giving my number out to total strangers. Yes there are a few people I've given my number to from fab but they are people I've met or spoken to a lot.
What's your rule on handing out your number?? X "
I have a 'play' phone... It is always on silent |
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over a year ago
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someone needs to bring out a phone where we can have 2 sims cards in that we can switch between at the click of a button, and with the option of accepting calls from both sims at once |
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"I've noticed while looking at profiles via the search function and also in messages I've been sent that a lot of people seem to just dish out their mobile number quite happily to anyone. Sometimes it's even on the status'.
Is this not weird? I'd be paranoid giving my number out to total strangers. Yes there are a few people I've given my number to from fab but they are people I've met or spoken to a lot.
What's your rule on handing out your number?? X "
probably a "black ops" phone used just for playing |
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By *ncpl5055Couple
over a year ago
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when we get gamplayers or stalkers,we just block thier number. as far as after hours, we simply put the phone in silent mode. and if a stalker does show up,well,,,,,hee hee! |
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"someone needs to bring out a phone where we can have 2 sims cards in that we can switch between at the click of a button, and with the option of accepting calls from both sims at once"
Theyve had phones like this for ages..... Well they have in Turkey  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I give mine out the day before a meet unless I trust them not to abuse it. Would never put it on my profile, smacks of desperation and I wouldn't want every Tom dick and Harry texting me at all hours of the day and night  |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"someone needs to bring out a phone where we can have 2 sims cards in that we can switch between at the click of a button, and with the option of accepting calls from both sims at once"
There are dual sim phones I think x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I recently bought a second phone just for swinging meets/friends and when i put a new sim card in it there were already numbers still stored on the phone's memory with lots of couples names with F/S and L/S next to them wasnt until i looked through and found a couples name that i already knew from here with F/S next to it lol
Bought a phone from a fellow swinger i did though delete all the others i didnt know but could have been a bit tricky finding all those contact numbers xx |
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"I've noticed while looking at profiles via the search function and also in messages I've been sent that a lot of people seem to just dish out their mobile number quite happily to anyone. Sometimes it's even on the status'.
Is this not weird? I'd be paranoid giving my number out to total strangers. Yes there are a few people I've given my number to from fab but they are people I've met or spoken to a lot.
What's your rule on handing out your number?? X "
Did I ever give you mine??? I meant to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Play phone all the way!
Would never put the number on my profile - gets given to people to text/chat prior to meets to make plans or say a quick hi - but is only switched on if i'm expecting/initiating contact.
I do tell everyone this but it's funny when I turn it on after a few days to find text messages from previous meets - when they know they'll get a far quicker esponse messaging me on Fab! |
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"I've noticed while looking at profiles via the search function and also in messages I've been sent that a lot of people seem to just dish out their mobile number quite happily to anyone. Sometimes it's even on the status'.
Is this not weird? I'd be paranoid giving my number out to total strangers. Yes there are a few people I've given my number to from fab but they are people I've met or spoken to a lot.
What's your rule on handing out your number?? X "
They must be mad...I only gave my phone number out twice and the second time they wouldn't stop texting me, then got abusive when I asked them not to...never again...Mark 07216.... |
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"I've noticed while looking at profiles via the search function and also in messages I've been sent that a lot of people seem to just dish out their mobile number quite happily to anyone. Sometimes it's even on the status'.
Is this not weird? I'd be paranoid giving my number out to total strangers. Yes there are a few people I've given my number to from fab but they are people I've met or spoken to a lot.
What's your rule on handing out your number?? X
Did I ever give you mine??? I meant to"
No you didn't. But feel free.. You can stalk me all you like x x  |
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"I've noticed while looking at profiles via the search function and also in messages I've been sent that a lot of people seem to just dish out their mobile number quite happily to anyone. Sometimes it's even on the status'.
Is this not weird? I'd be paranoid giving my number out to total strangers. Yes there are a few people I've given my number to from fab but they are people I've met or spoken to a lot.
What's your rule on handing out your number?? X
Did I ever give you mine??? I meant to
No you didn't. But feel free.. You can stalk me all you like x x "
Sent lol. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"someone needs to bring out a phone where we can have 2 sims cards in that we can switch between at the click of a button, and with the option of accepting calls from both sims at once"
You can buy a dual sim adapter to fit two SIM cards to one phone. Look on ebay |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"someone needs to bring out a phone where we can have 2 sims cards in that we can switch between at the click of a button, and with the option of accepting calls from both sims at once"
There is one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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never had any bother, nor gave any bother.
Its still a question of WHO u give ur number to isnt it?- personally I dont do long winded texts,sexy texts,make sexy calls etc etc...when I give my number its an initial chat, or indeed for the actual meet(hey some of us get lost)..I dont have the luxury of having fab on my phone(well I do, but being on a payasugo theres not much chance of that)
anyway...desperate or not, people who cant chooose good contacts in the start up are most likely the ones to get hassles....in my opinion.Whether its over the mobile,msn,etcetcetc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just have 1 phone and haven't had any bother. There are some people who I don't want to talk to again so I add Ignore to their surname on their contact details. This way I know who is texting and that I can just delete the message. |
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"I don't give my number out, am considering a second phone purely for swinging though, anyone else do this?"
Yes I do and it does keep things more organised and it means i am in control of those who fancy a saucy phone call at 2am after a night out ..... my phone is switched off and I am undisturbed |
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