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Do we think single women looking for other women are hard to come by?
Although we’re a couple… me ( Kate) would like to have regular meets with another woman!
It seems you can find lots of women, bur they do it for the gratification of their partner? |
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over a year ago
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We find the same challenge. We play as a couple solely with other women, but find many bi-fems on here are only 'bi' to either satisfy their male partner, or to make them appear more desirable to single men.
I'm genuinely bi and can eventually suss it out, but it's such a waste of everyone's time having to do so. |
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"We find the same challenge. We play as a couple solely with other women, but find many bi-fems on here are only 'bi' to either satisfy their male partner, or to make them appear more desirable to single men.
I'm genuinely bi and can eventually suss it out, but it's such a waste of everyone's time having to do so."
I know right!!! I’ll believe it when just the female part wants to meet  |
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"We find the same challenge. We play as a couple solely with other women, but find many bi-fems on here are only 'bi' to either satisfy their male partner, or to make them appear more desirable to single men.
I'm genuinely bi and can eventually suss it out, but it's such a waste of everyone's time having to do so.
I know right!!! I’ll believe it when just the female part wants to meet "
100%. We are trying to find a sexy woman that will play with me and Louis in a 3 but also I really want to have lone time with another woman with no one else. Ive loved the times alone with a woman x |
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I’ve had a few approaches from women in couples or single women over the years. Its never gotten further than chatting for one reason or another.
I’ve found that when a single woman’s account contacts me then I often realise a few messages in that its a man posing as a single woman. |
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I have a solo profile for girl girl meets, have you thought about doing that
Im not here to put on a show for someone's partner, I wouldn't even really get involved in a chat with a woman on a couples profile as I wouldn't want to be providing him wank fodder
Also we are looking for the elusive single female which pretty much every profile on here wants, so it's never gonna be easy, we are joining the single guy struggle |
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By *he SmithsCouple
over a year ago
East Devon & London |
Mrs Smith is a member of an online club for sapphic encounters but site rules won’t let us name it (!)
They organise bimonthly parties at Le Boudoir in London and Mrs Smith says she’s never been to a prettier, busier, noisier or ruder night at the club.
No men allowed and she’s made lots of friends and had lots of fun. It works for us.
When she goes she quite often wears a SKIRT |
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"Mrs Smith is a member of an online club for sapphic encounters but site rules won’t let us name it (!)
They organise bimonthly parties at Le Boudoir in London and Mrs Smith says she’s never been to a prettier, busier, noisier or ruder night at the club.
No men allowed and she’s made lots of friends and had lots of fun. It works for us.
When she goes she quite often wears a SKIRT"
Interested, something I might looking into.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been trying to find a single fem to play with for years and I've struggled.
There's not as many single women on here and then even less single gay/bi women
Which is a shame |
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"Maybe I’ll try the single profile thing. Although did that before and was inundated with single men… seems they don’t read when it says NO MEN! X"
Block them, only allow females (or couples but I'd personally block those too, otherwise you'll just get guys messaging asking you to help turn their partner) to message you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’re also finding it a bit of a challenge trying to connect with a bi woman.
Luckily for us we’re patient and still hopeful that there’s a lovely bi lady out there somewhere who might eventually say hello (hint hint lol) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do we think single women looking for other women are hard to come by?
Although we’re a couple… me ( Kate) would like to have regular meets with another woman!
It seems you can find lots of women, bur they do it for the gratification of their partner? "
Yes it's almost impossible to find ladies who like ff only meets  |
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By *xxfmxCouple
over a year ago
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We are definitely finding that hard to come by for sure. We want a lady I the Mrs can play solo with and every so often have a 3 way with. Never tried it but really want too. Thought signing up would of made it easier haha X |
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Although it’s not something we really advertise on our profile it is something I am looking for. I’ve loved meeting with couples where I have got to experience being with the other woman but I find that there is always so much going on. I would love a female friend to meet on my own and get to know properly.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've found if I've been approached it's normally to ask if the husband can watch. Which I'm not a fan of, or him playing with his partner/me playing with his partner. Him not touching me... Which I'm also not keen on the idea of |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This!!
So many women do it to put a show on for their man. As a genuinely bi woman I won't just have their husband watch. I'll either agree to meet her separate or meet them together. Meeting a bi single woman on here is hard to come by lol. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We find the same challenge. We play as a couple solely with other women, but find many bi-fems on here are only 'bi' to either satisfy their male partner, or to make them appear more desirable to single men.
I'm genuinely bi and can eventually suss it out, but it's such a waste of everyone's time having to do so."
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We are on here, led by me, bi female. It's quite hard to find someone. We've been together a long time, so want to explore together and see how it feels and works for everyone. We have been exploring poly. |
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"We find the same challenge. We play as a couple solely with other women, but find many bi-fems on here are only 'bi' to either satisfy their male partner, or to make them appear more desirable to single men.
I'm genuinely bi and can eventually suss it out, but it's such a waste of everyone's time having to do so."
This is why I don't meet a couple as its just to satisfy her partner |
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By *..WillowCouple
over a year ago
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We have been here for many years with a couple of different profiles and on each we have asked to meet a single bi lady but never have. Willow is very bi and has been since her teens. We have found the best place to find a bi lady is a club. If the lady in question doesn't want me to watch then they will find a private room and I will act as security 
Many don't mind me being in the room as they soon realise Willow is doing it for her pleasure and not mine, although it is pleasant to watch. Mrs W describes it as an itch she gets that I cannot scratch
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It doesn't help that the advanced search is limited.
When you're specifically looking for a curvy, tattooed woman the search is useless."
Try Argos for fucks. Tick the boxes of your ideal fuck toy and she will be delivered to your room. |
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"It doesn't help that the advanced search is limited.
When you're specifically looking for a curvy, tattooed woman the search is useless."
understand that pain sometimes, as we've missed some profiles who we've engaged with due to mass results.
But then other side is you could miss more with a too strict search |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's extremely difficult for a number of reasons, one of them being that bi women that are part of a couple might be willing to play solo, but eventually will ask for partner to watch/join most of the time, and how do you say no if that's not what you want without hurting someone's feelings?
I do not play with couples because most of the couples I've talked to, don't realise you are the one putting yourself in a vulnerable position joining them that already have a dynamic going on. Most want to use you for their fantasies, completely disregarding what you would like to get out of it as well.
As it usually happens on fab, it's hard because the bad ones spoil it for the rest |
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We have found it hard in the past!
Happy to meet separately for first meets ect
Think women don't want to be used for a couple to enjoy or for the men's enjoyment which makes then hard to come by.
We are definitely an all three have fun couple, not just for our enjoyment! |
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