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"It’s certainly not restricted to guys.
All genders, couples/singles can be no shows for a variety of reasons.
This   "
Yep! It's why I won't fart about arranging private meets on here, you never know who the time wasters are.
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"Since the end of lockdown the number of single guys no-showing massively increased.
I have a hunch as to why, but will never be provable."
They put on some podge over the lockdown? |
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In the early days we had so many single guys ghosting us or failing to turn up that now we’ll only agree to meet very well and recently verified men.
Fantasists and wank puffins abound! |
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Yep! It's why I won't fart about arranging private meets on here, you never know who the time wasters are.
Kitty "
We stick to a small number of trusted repeat meets from Fab now.
That and clubs.
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We have had multiple single guys and couples ghost us.
We have got to the point now it’s club meets only for us due to the sheer volume of time we have wasted chatting and building a connection with people only to be ghosted  |
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Not just single guys that don’t show up.
I’ve been let down by single women and couples.
I think you have to try and out the time wasters before the arrangement is made.
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Our last meet was a no show. Arranged to meet half way, moved twice until an hour before it was us driving all the way (40 mins). He was texting as we drove down. Let him know when we got to the arranged pub, he said 5 mins. Bought him a drink as arranged - then "sorry I've bottled it"
I suppose at least he didn't just not pitch up. Has left the site now |
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"Our last meet was a no show. Arranged to meet half way, moved twice until an hour before it was us driving all the way (40 mins). He was texting as we drove down. Let him know when we got to the arranged pub, he said 5 mins. Bought him a drink as arranged - then "sorry I've bottled it"
I suppose at least he didn't just not pitch up. Has left the site now "
I don’t get it, if you are a swinger and have the opportunity to swing then what’s there to bottle? |
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"Since the end of lockdown the number of single guys no-showing massively increased.
I have a hunch as to why, but will never be provable.
Intrigued?? "
More people working from home so more chance of the wife/gf being around unexpectedly is my hunch |
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I travelled for two hours for an advertised naughty meet with a couple. On arriving I was met by a husband who said sorry we can’t meet as I haven’t mentioned anything to the wife yet. I was extremely annoyed and have since blocked then |
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"It's not a gender issues. "
I agreed, you get people who don't turn up from all genders. Although, as annoying as it is you shouldn't let this ruin your experience as there a loads of wonderful people who will meet |
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"I travelled for two hours for an advertised naughty meet with a couple. On arriving I was met by a husband who said sorry we can’t meet as I haven’t mentioned anything to the wife yet. I was extremely annoyed and have since blocked then"
That's horrendous. For her as well!
I once drove down to Derby to meet a guy who talked a big talk, and I thought as he'd given me is mobile number and we'd spoken was genuine, but who then stopped answering his phone. I had a cup of tea in a cafe and drove home. |
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"Since the end of lockdown the number of single guys no-showing massively increased.
I have a hunch as to why, but will never be provable.
Intrigued??
More people working from home so more chance of the wife/gf being around unexpectedly is my hunch "
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