Hi. I’ve just told my girlfriend I’m bi which she took really well. We’re having a little time for her to work out what that means for her and us. Just wondered what other’s experiences were and any advice.
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"Hi. I’ve just told my girlfriend I’m bi which she took really well. We’re having a little time for her to work out what that means for her and us. Just wondered what other’s experiences were and any advice.
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I’ve had mixed responses. Some women welcome it and embrace the bi side whilst forvothers it’s a no no. |
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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago
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"Hi. I’ve just told my girlfriend I’m bi which she took really well. We’re having a little time for her to work out what that means for her and us. Just wondered what other’s experiences were and any advice.
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Good on you it’s a scary step to take and can definitely backfire - as I’ve learnt in the past - but ultimately life is too short to not be true to yourself.
The only advice I’d give is that it’s really easy to blurt it out then feel embarrassed and hide from what you’ve said, so don’t feel bad if you do that.
Also remember it’s probably going to be a shock for them too so give them plenty of time to ask questions and set boundaries.
I hope it all works out for the best  |
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By *av501TV/TS
over a year ago
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"Hi. I’ve just told my girlfriend I’m bi which she took really well. We’re having a little time for her to work out what that means for her and us. Just wondered what other’s experiences were and any advice.
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Good on you it’s a scary step to take and can definitely backfire - as I’ve learnt in the past - but ultimately life is too short to not be true to yourself.
The only advice I’d give is that it’s really easy to blurt it out then feel embarrassed and hide from what you’ve said, so don’t feel bad if you do that.
Also remember it’s probably going to be a shock for them too so give them plenty of time to ask questions and set boundaries.
I hope it all works out for the best "
Fantastic response, ive come out lately to my sister, my best friend and to my long term girlfriend. We nowchave dressed sex together.....once she got over finding me in her lingerie  |
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"Hi. I’ve just told my girlfriend I’m bi which she took really well. We’re having a little time for her to work out what that means for her and us. Just wondered what other’s experiences were and any advice.
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Told my wife I was bi-curious, really supportive and happy about it, wished I’d said something sooner. |
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Really pleased for the guys and couples where it works out well unfortunately my experiences have been for the worse
The first girl friend I told about it I think swallowed a melon and wouldn’t even talk about it. She did say if I touch another guy she would drop me like a stone. That relationship didn’t last long after that.
Told another girl friend who had expressed her bi side so I thought it would go better let’s just say some people don’t accept bi guys as well as they accept their own bisexual female side |
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Told my wife I was bi-curious, really supportive and happy about it, wished I’d said something sooner."
Lucky man, I can only dream. |
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It's not always easy so well done you. |
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Well done. Mine did not really like it. Fine to begin with but then seemed to get threatened by it. Made out loud in public ‘jokes’ - friends were trying to work out what her issue was. Hmm. Ruined the sex life! |
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"Hi. I’ve just told my girlfriend I’m bi which she took really well. We’re having a little time for her to work out what that means for her and us. Just wondered what other’s experiences were and any advice.
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So she knows your bi & on a swinging site & meeting others? Or she knows your bi? To us that means totally different things. We met at a swinging club so always open about what we wanted. We always talk before going to clubs to see what we are after as it can always change |
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"Hi. I’ve just told my girlfriend I’m bi which she took really well. We’re having a little time for her to work out what that means for her and us. Just wondered what other’s experiences were and any advice.
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Well done. As others have said that’s a brave step but glad she’s responding positively. Had mixed responses from gfs (and bfs) in the past so these days am up front about it |
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By *rith47Man
over a year ago
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"Well done. Mine did not really like it. Fine to begin with but then seemed to get threatened by it. Made out loud in public ‘jokes’ - friends were trying to work out what her issue was. Hmm. Ruined the sex life!"
You poor man. A GF who tries to humiliate you, how vile and small-minded of her. |
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Its very liberating..there are a lot of females on fab who do not like bi guys and quite a few guys threatened by it in some respects but it pales against an overwhelmingly positive experience for us since being open with each other. |
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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago
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"Hi. I’ve just told my girlfriend I’m bi which she took really well. We’re having a little time for her to work out what that means for her and us. Just wondered what other’s experiences were and any advice.
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Glad it went seemingly well OP, give yourselves both time to process and whatever happens well don't for telling her  |
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By *rNightMan
over a year ago
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I told my partner during sex when we were discussing threesomes, she immediately got more turned on and asked when we could mmf.
She’s never said if she’d be happy with me playing with guys alone. |
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