Is it really a problem? If so, for you, your partner or both? Can't you just slow down for a bit  Always works for me. If you're genuinely concerned your GP might be able to help with some simple prescription drugs that also help overcome (no pun intended!) premature ejaculation. |
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It happens to me  after about 5mins but when i feel im gna cum i stop an fink of things that aint about sex.. I say to my self..boats & fish over n over lol but it works plus try not to fink about it b4 sex an just relax  |
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Just dont rush into it. They hate it sometimes if you dont cum soon, on the other hand, hate it when you cum too soon.
Find out what works for you and take it from there.
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Edging is a good technique that will help you recognise sooner whet you're heading for the point of no return.
Also try a different position - for example, lady on top is often good for her but less intense for you and can give you more control.
However the best thing is psychology. I found when I was younger I was so worried about cumming too soon, that I came too soon!
Nowadays I'll spend an evening in a club and not ejaculate until we both get home.
Read about techniques for being multi orgasmic. Separating out orgasm from ejaculation is a real key - its your ejaculation you wAnt to prolong, not your orgasm.
Hope some of tgat helps.
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Ps - stop worrying about it!!! |
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Train yourself to have a 'dry cum' or mini-orgasm without ejaculating, it de-sensitizes you and you can keep going quite a long time after. Just slow down when you are near and stop when the feeling starts to build, takes practice but worth it.
Another good idea, don't pull out when you do cum but keep going. You might be able to stay hard.
Finally, tell her she's so sexy you couldn't hold back, then take a rest and carry on! |
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Don't cum for 3 days then cum once *before* the meet and you should last longer while still having enough to blow. Alternatively, vary your pace, slow and fast when you need to. You can also stop and have some intimate moments, kiss her (particularly her adam's apple ) Make it an 'event' and all about her, don't worry, she'll take care of you  |
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"Don't cum for 3 days then cum once *before* the meet and you should last longer while still having enough to blow. Alternatively, vary your pace, slow and fast when you need to. You can also stop and have some intimate moments, kiss her (particularly her adam's apple) Make it an 'event' and all about her, don't worry, she'll take care of you "
if you are shagging a woman who has an adams apple i would double check she didnt have a cock lol  |
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"Don't cum for 3 days then cum once *before* the meet and you should last longer while still having enough to blow. Alternatively, vary your pace, slow and fast when you need to. You can also stop and have some intimate moments, kiss her (particularly her adam's apple) Make it an 'event' and all about her, don't worry, she'll take care of you
if you are shagging a woman who has an adams apple i would double check she didnt have a cock lol "
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On average it will only take a guy 5 minutes to cum. I swap between penetration and oral or other types of play. Or blow your load and start again. I don't like thinking of something else as I want to keep my mind on the job.
At the end of the day It's practice and whatever works for you. |
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