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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's amazing the number of guys that we speak to, who seem amazed that Sue isn't into anal sex. Now before I continue, everyone to their own and fair play - it just isn't our thing....
But the number of (?straight...?) guys who seem amazed that we're not into that, until we say 'OK, the anatomy's the same for blokes and women, do you like the idea of having a pork swoard rammed up your jacksey?"...often many reconsider!lol
As we say, everyone to their own, but it's amazing how many guys seem to insist how wonderful it must be....until they're asked to consider how it night feel themselves! lol |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"but the point I was making is that that the idea of him getting it in something with the same anatomical make-up disgusts him - so why should he insist that a woman should enoy it?!lol   "
There are plenty of guys on here that would be happy to experiment though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"but the point I was making is that that the idea of him getting it in something with the same anatomical make-up disgusts him - so why should he insist that a woman should enoy it?!lol
There are plenty of guys on here that would be happy to experiment though."
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By (user no longer on site)
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There are plenty of guys on here that would be happy to experiment though."
I got the experimenting bit out of the way a long time ago - I loves me a good prostate massage |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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There are plenty of guys on here that would be happy to experiment though.
I got the experimenting bit out of the way a long time ago - I loves me a good prostate massage "
Fair play. But you can appreciate guys 'insisting' that any lady should like it,or she's somehow abnormal - but are 'disgusted' by the idea of getting it done to themselves aren't perhaps being 'fair'? |
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"why are you questioning a guy sexuality cause he wants to fuck a womans arse?   "
There's no need to question it because the answer is obvious. A man who wants to fuck a woman's arse is bisexual, and those who want †o but deny this are in denial of their sexuality.
We must remember that the English, and particularly those born before the late 1940s, or those born between the very early 1960s and 1975 who were in their adolescence during the Age of Reaction, are deservedly notorious for being hung up about sexuality, and therefore it is very hard for them to admit that they are bisexual. |
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"why are you questioning a guy sexuality cause he wants to fuck a womans arse?
There's no need to question it because the answer is obvious. A man who wants to fuck a woman's arse is bisexual, and those who want †o but deny this are in denial of their sexuality.
We must remember that the English, and particularly those born before the late 1940s, or those born between the very early 1960s and 1975 who were in their adolescence during the Age of Reaction, are deservedly notorious for being hung up about sexuality, and therefore it is very hard for them to admit that they are bisexual."
 love how you are the know all of everything in the whole universe because you know a bit about history |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"why are you questioning a guy sexuality cause he wants to fuck a womans arse?
There's no need to question it because the answer is obvious. A man who wants to fuck a woman's arse is bisexual, and those who want †o but deny this are in denial of their sexuality.
We must remember that the English, and particularly those born before the late 1940s, or those born between the very early 1960s and 1975 who were in their adolescence during the Age of Reaction, are deservedly notorious for being hung up about sexuality, and therefore it is very hard for them to admit that they are bisexual."
Did you make that up?
I was born in 67 (summer of lurve) and am happy to say I am bi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As we say, everyone to their own, but it's amazing how many guys seem to insist how wonderful it must be....until they're asked to consider how it night feel themselves! lol"
Completely agree  |
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Ann had never tried it too much until she met me and is now a complete anal convert.
Really seemed to be that she wanted to try it with me, and once in the right place mentally cant get enough xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As we say, everyone to their own, but it's amazing how many guys seem to insist how wonderful it must be....until they're asked to consider how it night feel themselves! lol
Completely agree "
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"why are you questioning a guy sexuality cause he wants to fuck a womans arse?
There's no need to question it because the answer is obvious. A man who wants to fuck a woman's arse is bisexual, and those who want †o but deny this are in denial of their sexuality.
We must remember that the English, and particularly those born before the late 1940s, or those born between the very early 1960s and 1975 who were in their adolescence during the Age of Reaction, are deservedly notorious for being hung up about sexuality, and therefore it is very hard for them to admit that they are bisexual."
Sorry but I (fem) don't believe that a guy who engages in anal sex with a woman is Bi. I think it's nonsense , no offence meant. I can assure you my partner is not Bi has no Bi ideas or fantasies & he fucks my arse  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's amazing the number of guys that we speak to, who seem amazed that Sue isn't into anal sex. Now before I continue, everyone to their own and fair play - it just isn't our thing....
But the number of (?straight...?) guys who seem amazed that we're not into that, until we say 'OK, the anatomy's the same for blokes and women, do you like the idea of having a pork swoard rammed up your jacksey?"...often many reconsider!lol
As we say, everyone to their own, but it's amazing how many guys seem to insist how wonderful it must be....until they're asked to consider how it night feel themselves! lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
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There are plenty of guys on here that would be happy to experiment though.
I got the experimenting bit out of the way a long time ago - I loves me a good prostate massage
Fair play. But you can appreciate guys 'insisting' that any lady should like it,or she's somehow abnormal - but are 'disgusted' by the idea of getting it done to themselves aren't perhaps being 'fair'? "
Not read all of the message just yet but I agree. No one should assume that someone likes anything, anal or otherwise. Might find that a woman prefers anal and doesn't want anyone to go near her pussy. Each to their own. Amazed you've had guys insisting on it, lucky to be invited into your love life in the first place.
It is amazing how guys think just because a woman has a pussy and is used to penetration, that surely she likes a bit of anal now and then too. Having experimented, I would say its not that nice and bit on the uncomfortable side. Decided im more straight than anything but was good to put that curiosity to bed.
if you have a perfectly good pussy. Why not just enjoy the fact you're lucky enough to have one Some girls do enjoy anal though, my ex liked it from time to time, asked for it sometimes too! More for the taboo factor but i dont understand it, if already have a pussy.
rambled on, too late to type put it my pennys worth, night all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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". There's no need to question it because the answer is obvious. A man who wants to fuck a woman's arse is bisexual, and those who want †o but deny this are in denial of their sexuality."
Pardon?? Folk who indulge in anal sex are bisexual???
Think you've been reading the wrong books!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't think it has anything to do with sexuality and it doesn't make a guy bisexual because he likes to do anal; if he wanted to fuck your husbands ass yes but not yours. And I don't do anal either |
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". There's no need to question it because the answer is obvious. A man who wants to fuck a woman's arse is bisexual, and those who want †o but deny this are in denial of their sexuality.
Pardon?? Folk who indulge in anal sex are bisexual???
Think you've been reading the wrong books!!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"why are you questioning a guy sexuality cause he wants to fuck a womans arse?
There's no need to question it because the answer is obvious. A man who wants to fuck a woman's arse is bisexual, and those who want †o but deny this are in denial of their sexuality.
We must remember that the English, and particularly those born before the late 1940s, or those born between the very early 1960s and 1975 who were in their adolescence during the Age of Reaction, are deservedly notorious for being hung up about sexuality, and therefore it is very hard for them to admit that they are bisexual.
Did you make that up?
I was born in 67 (summer of lurve) and am happy to say I am bi."
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"It's amazing the number of guys that we speak to, who seem amazed that Sue isn't into anal sex. Now before I continue, everyone to their own and fair play - it just isn't our thing....
But the number of (?straight...?) guys who seem amazed that we're not into that, until we say 'OK, the anatomy's the same for blokes and women, do
you like the idea of having a pork swoard rammed up your jacksey?"...often many reconsider!lol
As we say, everyone to their own, but it's amazing how many guys seem to insist how wonderful it must be....until they're asked to consider how it night feel themselves! lol"
I absolutely understand what you're saying. Some guys insist that I will love oral sex being performed on me by them even though I've told them it's not for me. Obviously I have no comparison similar to yours to make but I get your point. |
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"It's amazing the number of guys that we speak to, who seem amazed that Sue isn't into anal sex. Now before I continue, everyone to their own and fair play - it just isn't our thing....
But the number of (?straight...?) guys who seem amazed that we're not into that, until we say 'OK, the anatomy's the same for blokes and women, do you like the idea of having a pork swoard rammed up your jacksey?"...often many reconsider!lol
As we say, everyone to their own, but it's amazing how many guys seem to insist how wonderful it must be....until they're asked to consider how it night feel themselves! lol"
completely understand where you are coming from...i (MRS) like it but only with hubby think the emotion between us makes the difference but not chance with anyone else..
And i dont agree that you are questioning guys sexuality with what you say.. i agree i suspect it would change straight guys minds lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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So let me just get this straight ?
If I like anal with my wife I am bisexual ?
No ifs or buts - no doubt whatsoever ?
Whatever is the world of fab coming to ?
I really don't think I have ever read such a pile of tosh quite like that before !
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By (user no longer on site)
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Heartily agree OP. It shouldn't be expected and not all gay/bi guys like it.
And the person who said about guys being bisexual if they like doing it to women, are you being serious or taking the piss? Never heard such a ridiculous statement. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I honestly think that so many guys think Women should like\want anal is all down to porn.
Just because most porn videos have anal they seem to think it's the norm in real life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"why are you questioning a guy sexuality cause he wants to fuck a womans arse?
There's no need to question it because the answer is obvious. A man who wants to fuck a woman's arse is bisexual, and those who want †o but deny this are in denial of their sexuality.
We must remember that the English, and particularly those born before the late 1940s, or those born between the very early 1960s and 1975 who were in their adolescence during the Age of Reaction, are deservedly notorious for being hung up about sexuality, and therefore it is very hard for them to admit that they are bisexual.
Sorry but I (fem) don't believe that a guy who engages in anal sex with a woman is Bi. I think it's nonsense , no offence meant. I can assure you my partner is not Bi has no Bi ideas or fantasies & he fucks my arse "
Spot on. You may as well say a man who likes to watch his wife being shagged is bi because the sight of another cock adds to his excitement |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I honestly think that so many guys think Women should like\want anal is all down to porn.
Just because most porn videos have anal they seem to think it's the norm in real life."
Agree, but in my experience with non swinging women, more like anal than don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm always being asked if I'll take it up the arse. I've only ever tried anal once and it hurt quite a bit. I'm willing to give it another go but not just with anyone. Another thing a lot of guys seem to want of you is squirting. I can't help but feel a lot are influenced by porn. Maybe I'm being cynical? |
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"why are you questioning a guy sexuality cause he wants to fuck a womans arse?
There's no need to question it because the answer is obvious. A man who wants to fuck a woman's arse is bisexual, and those who want †o but deny this are in denial of their sexuality.
We must remember that the English, and particularly those born before the late 1940s, or those born between the very early 1960s and 1975 who were in their adolescence during the Age of Reaction, are deservedly notorious for being hung up about sexuality, and therefore it is very hard for them to admit that they are bisexual.
Sorry but I (fem) don't believe that a guy who engages in anal sex with a woman is Bi. I think it's nonsense , no offence meant. I can assure you my partner is not Bi has no Bi ideas or fantasies & he fucks my arse "
I have to agree - J loves to fuck my arse but doesn't mean he's bi |
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"So let me just get this straight ?
If I like anal with my wife I am bisexual ?
No ifs or buts - no doubt whatsoever ?
Whatever is the world of fab coming to ?
I really don't think I have ever read such a pile of tosh quite like that before !
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No that wasnt what i said.. If thats what you mean.. i mean if a woman doesnt like anal but a straight guy is insisting..(ie a straight guy wouldnt want anal either! Penny dropping yet ?) then him being asked if he wanted it is likely to give him a sudden wake up about what he is insisting the lady does.
That doesnt mean that guys that do it are bi ... hubby is as straight as they come but then he would never insist in anal.
I assumed as i meant that op was trying to get a straight guy who would never take anal to understand what he was asking for..nothing else was meant by me anyway...if a straight guy insists a woman who doesnt do anal lets him maybe the offer of the same might be the jolt he needs to try and get him to understand.
Still not sure that reads right but i know what i meant and getting at and i did not imply my hubby was bi ...m |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So let me just get this straight ?
If I like anal with my wife I am bisexual ?
No ifs or buts - no doubt whatsoever ?
Whatever is the world of fab coming to ?
I really don't think I have ever read such a pile of tosh quite like that before !
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"I honestly think that so many guys think Women should like\want anal is all down to porn.
Just because most porn videos have anal they seem to think it's the norm in real life."
Put it this way, if anyone comes across a guy who thinks women should like anal no matter what with no questions asked, then they are obviously not open minded sexually. Where has the OP been finding these guys? The OP needs to refine their search criteria. Or maybe there is something about the OP that just attracts these guys,
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"I'm always being asked if I'll take it up the arse. I've only ever tried anal once and it hurt quite a bit. I'm willing to give it another go but not just with anyone. Another thing a lot of guys seem to want of you is squirting. I can't help but feel a lot are influenced by porn. Maybe I'm being cynical?"
Maybe you are a bit cynical on this, who knows lol!
I love a woman that squirts but that is not exclusively what I look for. I don't think I am influenced by porn either. Think it's the loss of control and total immersion into the orgasm that I love.. There's nothing more sensual than that!! |
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"why are you questioning a guy sexuality cause he wants to fuck a womans arse?
There's no need to question it because the answer is obvious. A man who wants to fuck a woman's arse is bisexual, and those who want †o but deny this are in denial of their sexuality.
We must remember that the English, and particularly those born before the late 1940s, or those born between the very early 1960s and 1975 who were in their adolescence during the Age of Reaction, are deservedly notorious for being hung up about sexuality, and therefore it is very hard for them to
admit that they are bisexual."
omg... my hubby does it to me because i like it.. would he dream of fucking a bloke noway never we are both 100% straight..you are living in cloud cuckoo land if you think that makes someone bisexual.
People really have lost the plot on here..i think the only people and not all that have issues are the Bi sexual men that insist that all men are bi and if they say straight they are just in denial... its not correct for any Bi men or women (and no not all do) to state or imply this.. is almost as if they are trying to justify their own sexuality by claiming everyone else is wrong or in denial.. unbeleivable... |
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"I'm always being asked if I'll take it up the arse. I've only ever tried anal once and it hurt quite a bit. I'm willing to give it another go but not just with anyone. Another thing a lot of guys seem to want of you is squirting. I can't help but feel a lot are influenced by porn. Maybe I'm being cynical?
Maybe you are a bit cynical on this, who knows lol!
I love a woman that squirts but that is not exclusively what I look for. I don't think I am influenced by porn either. Think it's the loss of control and total immersion into the orgasm that I love.. There's nothing more sensual than that!!"
Women don't always squirt when they orgasm though. When I squirted I didn't. I just don't want any partners of mine to feel inadequate if they don't make me squirt. It's not the be all and end all. Nor is anal. |
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"I honestly think that so many guys think Women should like\want anal is all down to porn.
Just because most porn videos have anal they seem to think it's the norm in real life."
i totally agree with you the porno industry has a lot to answer for ya meet some guys and their tryin to go up your arse without askin slappin the fanny off, ya slappin the cock off your face ,just basically tryin to ride ya any which way they can i mean like wtf ron jeremys use ain,t lol |
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"I'm always being asked if I'll take it up the arse. I've only ever tried anal once and it hurt quite a bit. I'm willing to give it another go but not just with anyone. Another thing a lot of guys seem to want of you is squirting. I can't help but feel a lot are influenced by porn. Maybe I'm being cynical?"
You need to find the right guy who's experienced and plenty of lube but it feels amazing!! It still hurts a little to start with but ride it out and wait for the pleasure!!
I do agree with with whole porn influence too. I work with young people many who are sexually exploited and they almost all have a very distorted view on what a sexual relationship is and the expectations they out on themselves. To hear a very young girl say she always does ass to mouth because the boys all expect it cos its in all the films speaks volumes!! |
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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago
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Women don't always squirt when they orgasm though. When I squirted I didn't. I just don't want any partners of mine to feel inadequate if they don't make me squirt. It's not the be all and end all. Nor is anal. "
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"So let me just get this straight ?
If I like anal with my wife I am bisexual ?
No ifs or buts - no doubt whatsoever ?
Whatever is the world of fab coming to ?
I really don't think I have ever read such a pile of tosh quite like that before !
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LMAO Totally agree |
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By *corcherMan
over a year ago
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Someones sexuality is much more complicated than the hole the hole they like to fill or have filled. Men who like their arse being played by their partner aren't anymore bi/gay than men who like to fuck their partners arse, unless they are attracted to the same sex. |
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By *obletonMan
over a year ago
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"Heartily agree OP. It shouldn't be expected and not all gay/bi guys like it.
And the person who said about guys being bisexual if they like doing it to women, are you being serious or taking the piss? Never heard such a ridiculous statement. "
No its true!
Likewise any man who masturbates is also gay or bi - they are a male performing a sexual act on a male - just because the male happens to be themselves doesn't make them any less of a woofter.
Men who lick fannies are in fact lesbian women and women who suck dick are bi-men.
Prove me wrong!!!
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"Funcouple2012 - it wasn't your post I was referring to !
It was the one which implied guys who like anal with women are bisexual "
fair enough thought it hadnt read how i meant it to read for minute lol.. i knew how it was supposed to read and thought you'd got me wrong.. thank god for that.. i replied to that as well .. |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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There's no need to question it because the answer is obvious. A man who wants to fuck a woman's arse is bisexual, and those who want †o but deny this are in denial of their sexuality.
We must remember that the English, and particularly those born before the late 1940s, or those born between the very early 1960s and 1975 who were in their adolescence during the Age of Reaction, are deservedly notorious for being hung up about sexuality, and therefore it is very hard for them to admit that they are bisexual."
Utter bollocks! I know plenty of completely straight guys love having their arses fucked with a strapon and many people similar age to me (born 1967) happy to declare their bisexuality. I would tentatively agree that those born prior to 1940 MAY be more conservative, but homosexuality was illegal as they were growing up |
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"why are you questioning a guy sexuality cause he wants to fuck a womans arse?
There's no need to question it because the answer is obvious. A man who wants to fuck a woman's arse is bisexual, and those who want †o but deny this are in denial of their sexuality.
We must remember that the English, and particularly those born before the late 1940s, or those born between the very early 1960s and 1975 who were in their adolescence during the Age of Reaction, are deservedly notorious for being hung up about sexuality, and therefore it is very hard for them to admit that they are bisexual."
funniest thing I have read in a long time..... Lolololol!!! |
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"why are you questioning a guy sexuality cause he wants to fuck a womans arse?
There's no need to question it because the answer is obvious. A man who wants to fuck a woman's arse is bisexual, and those who want †o but deny this are in denial of their sexuality.
We must remember that the English, and particularly those born before the late 1940s, or those born between the very early 1960s and 1975 who were in their adolescence during the Age of Reaction, are deservedly notorious for being hung up about sexuality, and therefore it is very hard for them to admit that they are bisexual."
phew, i was born in 76 so im fine so no hangups here lol |
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"why are you questioning a guy sexuality cause he wants to fuck a womans arse?
There's no need to question it because the answer is obvious. A man who wants to fuck a woman's arse is bisexual, and those who want †o but deny this are in denial of their sexuality.
We must remember that the English, and particularly those born before the late 1940s, or those born between the very early 1960s and 1975 who were in their adolescence during the Age of Reaction, are deservedly notorious for being hung up about sexuality, and therefore it is very hard for them to admit that they are bisexual."
...shakes head in disbelief... |
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"I'm always being asked if I'll take it up the arse. I've only ever tried anal once and it hurt quite a bit. I'm willing to give it another go but not just with anyone. Another thing a lot of guys seem to want of you is squirting. I can't help but feel a lot are influenced by porn. Maybe I'm being cynical?
Maybe you are a bit cynical on this, who knows lol!
I love a woman that squirts but that is not exclusively what I look for. I don't think I am influenced by porn either. Think it's the loss of control and total immersion into the orgasm that I love.. There's nothing more sensual than that!!
Women don't always squirt when they orgasm though. When I squirted I didn't. I just don't want any partners of mine to feel inadequate if they don't make me squirt. It's not the be all and end all. Nor is anal. "
Absolutely agree to this. Every woman's body is different and it's unrealistic and selfish to expect a woman to squirt.
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