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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Since the 50 shades book I've got into reading erotic literature. Anyway having read a few including a diary of a submissive I'm faced with mixed feelings. Part of me was screaming for this woman to stop the guy humiliating and hurting but the other part was wondering how hard a spanking I could take. Now I like the odd spank here and there in play but not sure if I could take the repetition and hardness that comes from the dom/sub play but a big part of me is extremely curious to know if I could.

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By *emmefataleWoman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Since the 50 shades book I've got into reading erotic literature. Anyway having read a few including a diary of a submissive I'm faced with mixed feelings. Part of me was screaming for this woman to stop the guy humiliating and hurting but the other part was wondering how hard a spanking I could take. Now I like the odd spank here and there in play but not sure if I could take the repetition and hardness that comes from the dom/sub play but a big part of me is extremely curious to know if I could."
You can take things in stages, anyone you meet in that type of roleplay situ, will take your boundaries into account, beware of pseudo dom/dommes xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I'd try with hubby anyway thanks though x

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By *emmefataleWoman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I'd try with hubby anyway thanks though x"
Talk things through, maybe try some stuff between you first?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Certainly I'm not sure he'd he comfortable making me hurt so certainly some in depth talk needed

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You just take it slow. Have a safe word in place. I always knew my master got great pleasure in spanking me. That made me able to take more and more.

I think in this if you enjoy it you need to build on the fact that you are enjoying it. Not look at it as pain or hurt but pleasure.

I hope that makes sense its late and I should be asleep

Cali

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville

after reading all that 'literature', all you got out of it was that you want your arse spanked???

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

For starters lol

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I like dom/sub play but without the pain. If that makes no sense that doesn't matter - it makes sense to me. It doesn't have to be BDSM.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I like dom/sub play but without the pain. If that makes no sense that doesn't matter - it makes sense to me. It doesn't have to be BDSM."

You like being teased with sensation play?

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

I know next to nothing about this but isn't there a big difference between dom/sub situations and spanking?

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