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Can you recall all your sexual partners?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'll be fully honest and state that I cannot. I mean I regularly test/nearly always safe sex (minus the odd long term fwb these days)... Had over a decade being celibate in the past, and a few stretches in between too. But! Could I hell tell you my actual 'number'? Not some weird stealth brag... But I'm at an age where I literally no longer recall all of my past one offs. I could definitely list all of my relationships (I'm not going senile just yet)... Anyone else in the same boat? Or just me  |
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Names, no - some I never knew...
....the actual number, yes - along with where, and roughly when...
....I can recall virtually every moment of some encounters, and most or a lot of detail of the majority of the rest - there are only a handful where I hardly remember anything... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven’t kept a tally but I’m sure I’d recognise or remember everyone…. That being said there’s someone on here who messaged me and said we met, and they described where I live in full detail - but I genuinely cannot remember them. And I hardly meet anyone. Strange |
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"I'll be fully honest and state that I cannot. I mean I regularly test/nearly always safe sex (minus the odd long term fwb these days)... Had over a decade being celibate in the past, and a few stretches in between too. But! Could I hell tell you my actual 'number'? Not some weird stealth brag... But I'm at an age where I literally no longer recall all of my past one offs. I could definitely list all of my relationships (I'm not going senile just yet)... Anyone else in the same boat? Or just me "
god no.. not a clue. I know a rough guess that it's more than. Except this year... I know its exactly 35 this year |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was asked my ‘body count’ recently and until then hadn’t even thought about it.
Took me a while but I’ve been curating a list on my phone. It seems every few days I remember someone I had forgotten about and this list keeps growing despite not meeting anyone new! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'll be fully honest and state that I cannot. I mean I regularly test/nearly always safe sex (minus the odd long term fwb these days)... Had over a decade being celibate in the past, and a few stretches in between too. But! Could I hell tell you my actual 'number'? Not some weird stealth brag... But I'm at an age where I literally no longer recall all of my past one offs. I could definitely list all of my relationships (I'm not going senile just yet)... Anyone else in the same boat? Or just me "
I can't remember all mine, I've been on here for over 5 years, but I do remember my first and second meets, still chat and meet occasionally |
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"Nope... Even had messages asking to meet again, from guys I don't recall having sex with  "
Know exactly what you mean. People come up to us in clubs and greet us like long lost friends. Neither of us has got a clue who they are, (we don`t let on of course - just blag it) but we have apparently played with them. Not sure whether it is because we are complete sluts, or just losing it. A bit of both probably. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get messages from guys saying that we have met that I don't remember, if I don't remember there's probably a good reason if you get my drift. So probably not even 50% could I name. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes but we're only youngish, have been together nearly 11 years (from school) and only been swinging just over 2 years.
I'd imagine if we'd been doing it as long as others we wouldn't though 
Miss S x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have often reminisced & tried to remember as many as I can, even ones where I didn't know their names, or hadn't even spoken to them, but find it much harder as the number has went up & the memory has went down  |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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"I'll be fully honest and state that I cannot. I mean I regularly test/nearly always safe sex (minus the odd long term fwb these days)... Had over a decade being celibate in the past, and a few stretches in between too. But! Could I hell tell you my actual 'number'? Not some weird stealth brag... But I'm at an age where I literally no longer recall all of my past one offs. I could definitely list all of my relationships (I'm not going senile just yet)... Anyone else in the same boat? Or just me "
Exactly like you. I have a vague idea of the number of sex encounters and individual sex partners I've had over the years since starting swinging. It's an obscene number will never reveal lol. But I don't keep a track or tab. No point |
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I can recall all of them.
Judging by some of the responses, I feel like a bit of a prude!
Anyway, I tried the club scene early on but it became obvious it wouldn't be something I was going to enjoy personally. Nor are long term relationships despite having been in a few.
Anyway, I'm going to start knitting doilies if anyone is interested? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No jor at all ?? I sometimes walk past a girl when I’m out or whatever like the other day in the beach, an she looked at me all awkwardly an I went shit I’ve slept with her ???? |
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Even before I started swinging I didn’t know my number or even the names of everyone but after years of being single with a high sex drive it was definitely well over 100 possibly nearer 200. Maybe more. Who knows. Who cares.
Now I’m swinging I lover random encounters at clubs or the beach, especially group sessions. Always play safe with strangers.
I often don’t recognise guys who’ve fucked me tho because often I’m surrounded by guys, maybe sucking a few or just on my knees with my head down.
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If you mean people you have simply had sex with then no
But if you mean the number of women that you have had some form of relationship with (been out with for a while, met regularly as fbs or married to) then yes |
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" no. I was 18 in the 70s, it was a flaming free for all for s lot of us
Snap! 1975-1979......I could never count them!
Happy days! "
indeed those were very happy days, and I'd a lot more energy as well. |
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" no. I was 18 in the 70s, it was a flaming free for all for s lot of us
Snap! 1975-1979......I could never count them!
Happy days! "
Oh they were, from age 18 to 22 my nether regions took an absolute hammering! |
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"We have a list we keep, its horny to read through it once in a while and reminisce  "
Every now and then when I refer to mine I'll see a name and/or location and suddenly recall a specific detail or two...
....very occasionally, memories of an entire meet will come flooding back - when that happens, I write everything down while its 'fresh' in my mind...
....currently, I've got full-length accounts of 15 encounters...  |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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For memories sake let's see if this is how is how names are taken...
Hi, love your interests, I'm not local (about 20 miles it seems), but had to mail as you look fiiit! Fancy getting a hotel for the eve?? Pics attached. Signed Mr X
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but enough to make my mother shake her head in disapproval haha 
lost count many years ago, certainly couldnt name them! 
